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  • leen
    leen 6 minutes ago

    Thank you so much for making this video ❀️

  • simran sandhu
    simran sandhu Hour ago

    Loved always😍😍

  • UpRoots Wellness

    I enjoyed this video! Thank you! We also posted a video on happiness. You should check it out! :)

  • Josilene Sena
    Josilene Sena 2 hours ago

    With this video I can saw that I am a pleasent person in my work, cause I've never put my opinion with fear of hurty someone. But now I can see that It is so much important for continue being myself.

  • Fabiola SuΓ‘rez
    Fabiola SuΓ‘rez 2 hours ago

    Everyone needs to hear this!

  • S Shravya
    S Shravya 2 hours ago

    Happy 5th birthday lavendaire πŸŽ†πŸŽŠπŸŽ‹πŸŽ‰... Ur videos are amxing... Have motivated me a lot.... I loved the dream life series.... Firstly it was amazing.... Secondly it was the first vdo which i actually applied in life.... Though i am not applying it now.... U still inspire me.... Loads of love and positive vibes that u send to us hope it reaches back to u too..... Stay amazing...

  • MissMaΓ―s
    MissMaΓ―s 3 hours ago

    You're stunning ❀ Thank you for sharing these lessons :)

  • Hannah Obote
    Hannah Obote 3 hours ago


  • Celia Cavalli
    Celia Cavalli 4 hours ago

    Wow this video is so good! πŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ™ŒπŸΌ

  • Sofi Sofi
    Sofi Sofi 4 hours ago

    I thing it's better to continue with the lessons you've learn for business, and then talk about the mistakes! The part where you compare you and your boyfriend and the examples you gave was very helpful for me. We all are different, but sometimes it's difficult to accept it to your closer ones. Thank you for this video! 🌹

  • Wong yuen man
    Wong yuen man 4 hours ago

    Wrong focus, but nice hairstyle and makeup!!!

  • DaiZzy Elh
    DaiZzy Elh 4 hours ago

    Ψ΄ΩƒΨ±Ψ§ ΨΉΩ„Ω‰ Ψ§Ω„ΨͺΨ±Ψ¬Ω…Ψ©

  • BTS' Guardian angel
    BTS' Guardian angel 4 hours ago

    Mistakes you've made in Business would be very informative Otherwise, thank you for the great content.

  • clear & calming
    clear & calming 4 hours ago

    the first point....gotta get out of my comfort zone more 🀘🏼

  • Peipei Ji
    Peipei Ji 5 hours ago

    I hope you get to 1 million subs soon, you’re so lovely, and I like revisiting this older video from time to time. I love journaling and you taught me how stream of consciousness style really works.

  • Ayda Matrouh
    Ayda Matrouh 5 hours ago

    Absolutely helpful. Thanks for sharing.

  • MissZoey007
    MissZoey007 5 hours ago

    Asian”American” lol what the heckπŸ˜‚ Living in America doesn’t make you american. I live in Japan and that doesn’t make me JapaneseπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ Also calling a failed state like California progressive is perverted

  • Christy Nichole
    Christy Nichole 6 hours ago

    Love the video and especially, your music selection

  • Madam Cake
    Madam Cake 6 hours ago

    Wow!! You are very impressive. You have filled so many notebooks! :) I hope I can do that too one day even though I have done one. I hope I finish more.

  • Paula Bengochea
    Paula Bengochea 6 hours ago

    Hey Aileen, loved this video, super inspirational and interesting. I feel like you could have talked more of each lesson or gone more deep if there was only 4 instead of 6? I think every one of them is so important and you have so much knowledge on them that we would definitely enjoy a more in depth talk of each one. I am super excited to see more videos on this topics, lessons in business sounds great as well! What about lessons in friendships? I remember you did one about romantic relationships but never talked that much about friendships, different kinds etc. What do you think?

  • ι‚±εͺ›εͺ›
    ι‚±εͺ›εͺ› 7 hours ago

    I really like your channel!!! thank you for sharing your life and thoughts, I learn a lot from you! I like your hair color, is it easy to maintain the hair quality?

  • alrawy altun
    alrawy altun 8 hours ago

    I would like to see both πŸ‘πŸ»

  • Kimberly M
    Kimberly M 10 hours ago

    I love how this video comes out the day I learn about the CsΓ­kszentmihΓ‘lyi's flow theory in my Play Developmental Processes class, and my Community Youth Development class. The points you mentioned in your video are some that we discussed in class <3

  • 倒理愛Nuria


  • 倒理愛Nuria

    wow im having a bad time with my job and i'm about to go for a very important working trip and this motivated me a lot, thank u lavi

  • Ila Mankad
    Ila Mankad 12 hours ago

    I would love to know the brand of suitcase and backpack you have or at least the dimensions. Loved the video. So simple and perfect.

  • Nandini Tamang
    Nandini Tamang 12 hours ago

    Absolutely loved this videoo Could you make a video of Lessons learnt in your 20s? I know you've made it a year back but how about some additions to the lessons. Keep up the good work Ailee ❀

  • Tomomi S
    Tomomi S 13 hours ago

    I totally agree with lots of what you said especially "Confidence comes from knowing" and the African proverb. I love this kind of videos. Looking forward to watching these more! I don't think the video is too long. For this kind of videos, it is the right length, not too long and not too short. By the way, I love your look in this video very much. The necklace matches the top very much!

  • Allison Wong
    Allison Wong 13 hours ago

    I love this so much! a quarter of the way through this video I began taking notes and reflecting on the things you said and how I see them in my own way. Truly a worthwhile and great way to spend my night! I found your channel thanks to Liah and I couldn't be more grateful! <3

  • Tamara Daigs
    Tamara Daigs 13 hours ago

    Will you be making one for 2020 soon? PS, I am so glad I started really watching your videos. Going through a deep soul search portion of my life as of late, and your videos are helping me figure things out. Thank you so much!

  • Tjong Tjo Khim
    Tjong Tjo Khim 14 hours ago

    Thank you for uploading this video. What are you talking, it's the same what i feel. Because your video, you convinced me, that what i did was wrong and i know how to fix it. Being grateful, i watched your video. Its very motivated.

  • Cooper McKay
    Cooper McKay 14 hours ago

    thought this was a good video thanks! I like what you said about acknowledging your flaws.

  • Jia
    Jia 15 hours ago

    My diet has been sooooo terrible lately man why does junk food gotta be so addicting

  • AmyLove
    AmyLove 16 hours ago

    love your videos. this one was especially helpful. <3

  • Tay- oddic
    Tay- oddic 16 hours ago

    I am a ten year old who has a youtube channel that has great success :D

  • Lynnice Carter
    Lynnice Carter 16 hours ago

    As always I love your contentπŸ₯° I can’t pick just oneπŸ€— I loved all 6! This video hit many important points and very essential. The 5 love languages book is my next purchase on audible. I’ve heard so many people say it was really good. It definitely helps you understand people and your mate deeper.

  • Lucy T
    Lucy T 17 hours ago

    ❀❀ I love your advise. please do a vid on how to cultivate boundaries. Would ya do a plant tour vid? Much love xo

  • exotic pash
    exotic pash 17 hours ago

    You remind me so much of myself I love it .

  • Dusica Dushkica
    Dusica Dushkica 17 hours ago

    More these videos, please! :)

  • Kiara Moss
    Kiara Moss 17 hours ago

    I have said it before and I will say it again I LOVE your videos! They are so helpful❀️

  • af af
    af af 20 hours ago

    I swear that all what you're talking about I'm going through it . And eventually I found someone who understands me really truly. Thank you so much Lavendaire you are my role model and my life's teacher. I hope for you all the best and beautiful life

  • Emmy Walkingshaw
    Emmy Walkingshaw 21 hour ago

    Love the vid! Gave me sooo many tips. I would say. If you have small underwear, fold them in then tie them, saves you so much space x

  • AlliAsAlways
    AlliAsAlways 21 hour ago

    Understanding OTHERS love language and not your own was really profound to me. Thank you. πŸ’œπŸ’•

  • Caroline Nors
    Caroline Nors 21 hour ago

    You're videos is always so calming πŸ˜πŸ’ž

  • Liza Shirin
    Liza Shirin 21 hour ago

    Usually I would never write a comment but this video just gave me so much energy(back). Lately I`ve been stuck in this discomfort-situation, questioning myself if the next step is the right one and if I could manage. But your video told me to try, to worry less because there is always another day to come,to try again. So thank you. Know that there are people around the world who feel hugged by your words.

  • Sara Wendelken
    Sara Wendelken 22 hours ago

    Video came at just the right moment. The upcoming project is truly something important to me,so that it scares me 😒

  • Federica T
    Federica T 22 hours ago

    I could watch 2-hours long videos if it's you! πŸ’œ

  • foxy_ moonie
    foxy_ moonie 22 hours ago

    These videos keep coming out on my birthday

  • Ashwarrea B
    Ashwarrea B 23 hours ago

    Before bedtime, I drink water Before i use the restroom, Because if i do drink it after. I'll pee in the bed, so i changed drinking water.

  • Shan B
    Shan B 23 hours ago

    They were all my favorites. Thanks. Definitely looking forward to both lessons learnt and mistakes made in business

  • Jana Schlegel
    Jana Schlegel 23 hours ago

    Where do you bought your white water bottle?

  • Amy Cynthia Kisin

    Mistake in business and how you cope with it. πŸ˜ƒπŸ‘πŸ’–

  • Floor Denil
    Floor Denil Day ago

    I'm a bit confused at the life lesson 'treat other people the way they want to be treated and not the way you think you should', because it seems to clash with the message of your previous video where you talk about how you're not responsible for other peoples reactions and feelings (and how you shouldn't change your way of treating others just because they could interpret it wrong). Are there any differences? Great video, again! <3

  • lalala lalala
    lalala lalala Day ago

    Hi. So I’m a new graduate designer and for years my self β€œbrand” name (or the name I used in IG and want to keep it) is apparently the name of 2 countries put together in their language I think... like Alba is Scotland (I think pls correct me if Im wrong but the concept is there...). I honestly don’t even live in those 2 countries it was a name I came up with from my childhood show Hetalia... Should I change it? It’s pretty unique and if you search it up I’m the only one that pops up who uses the name... I’m just worried that people from those 2 countries or even not from there may get offended for using their country’s name? Or I might be just over thinking this? I dunno... Any advise anyone?? :(( (The 2 countries I put together was Wales and Ireland based on my research and I live in Asia... I really wanted a unique name but don’t want to offend anyone...)

  • Marie c
    Marie c Day ago

    Love love love this video.

  • The Learning Ella

    Hey Aileen. I am an og viewer of your channel. I desperately wanna have the artist of life workbook and the planner you created for 20200000. I am frm India and got mo idea how can i get emm. Kindly guide me thru. Thanks. P.s- i am an anxious person with pure o and wanna use your journals to kind of be happy

  • Darshini b
    Darshini b Day ago

    This video is so apt , everyone can relate to. Perfect timing

  • Diana Turcios
    Diana Turcios Day ago

    I sleep around 2-5am and wake up early since I have class around 6-7am and then I nap for 2-5 hours. I have done this for years and I can't stop 😭

  • giovanna m
    giovanna m Day ago

    Love you you’re so wise thanks for doing this πŸ‡§πŸ‡· ❀️

  • Emi Tcha
    Emi Tcha Day ago

    I luv your videos its so soft ❀

  • hagar fadali
    hagar fadali Day ago

    be unapologetically yourself. what makes others happy won't make you happy as well. you need to experiment, put yourself out there and figure out yourself. the human personality is so complex and you can spend an entire lifetime trying to understand it. wear whatever you think is cool, not what others set as trendy. speak what's on your mind, do what you've been holding back. be authentic, that's what will truly attract people to you and that's what will make you gain confidence later.

  • Ann Qian
    Ann Qian Day ago

    I just find your 5 love languages video is 4 years ago, how did you remember and connect with things that long time ago? Impressive! i often forget the book i read yesterday…

    • Lavendaire
      Lavendaire Day ago

      I learned it 4 years ago but kept applying & talking about it these past 4 years with friends and my relationship. It’s because I still practice & talk about it!

  • Ilee Vz
    Ilee Vz Day ago

    thank you for making this video!

  • PiinkyPeyed
    PiinkyPeyed Day ago

    The videos I like the most are the ones that focus on one big lesson, rather than a bunch of lessons. I think it's because I can focus better if the topic is one clear thing :)

  • clercqert
    clercqert Day ago

    Amazing video with a lot of very good life lessons! I loved how you also connect your business with your private life and try to maintain a balance between those two. I would love to see more of these. When being an entrepreneur, you sometimes just need reminders like these:) With regards to your last comment: I think mistakes and lessons learned are the same thing, so doing a video on one or the other would result in similar conclusions. Keep in inspiring and empowering others! :D

  • Savvy By Kate
    Savvy By Kate Day ago

    Great video :) I can't wait for the next Artist of Life Workbook comes out. I would really Iike to see a business lessons learned video, please :)

  • Gayatri Dutta
    Gayatri Dutta Day ago

    Mistakes! We learn more from mistakes. Experiences are like guide books! You are doing a fabulous job and I would love to be in your team if I could ever ever have the opportunity!!! I believe that humans need a subject called lavendering in schools! This is how humanity can grow to be better and happier human beings! Thank you so much for this channel and the work you are doing!! Gratitude all the way from a Singaporean living in Kolkata, India!!!

  • Jordan Blue
    Jordan Blue Day ago

    i <3 u

  • Jess
    Jess Day ago

    I started homeschooling my son this year after seeing no progress in the public school system. I can't tell you the boost of confidence it has given us both! He's learning! I'm learning! It's amazing!!! Doing new things every day! If we fall---we get back up again!! :)

    • Lavendaire
      Lavendaire Day ago

      That’s beautiful ❀️ what an amazing mom you are!!

  • Brick On My Face

    Thank you for this video!

  • Oh Madjda
    Oh Madjda Day ago

    You are a living masterpiece πŸŒ»πŸ’“

  • Butterkeks Gangster

    Lessons and mistakes in business!

  • Butterkeks Gangster

    I love seeing you grow personally!

  • MyfanwyNia's Studio

    Mary J <3 !

  • Marsha Nadia A

    Im enfp and i love infj intj infp and absolutel love enfp too😊😊😊😊😊

  • Moira Campos
    Moira Campos Day ago

    Love it! It’s very helpful πŸ¦‹ Please do more videos like this ❀️

  • Helena B.
    Helena B. Day ago

    I prefer to hear about lessons instead of mistakes. It is more encouraging :)

  • MunkQoo
    MunkQoo Day ago

    The first and last points really related to me thanks Aileen πŸ’•

  • Cristina Fer
    Cristina Fer Day ago

    I don't speak english very well so I am not able to write a large esay yet. I only want to tell that I started watching your videos because I like your content and this is useful to learn English too. This video is perfect, it isn't too long, nor confusing. I like to watch more videos like this =D

  • Zainab Abubakar

    We want to hear everything aileen πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  • Nicoleta Stoodley

    Also, maybe you could do A day in the life of an entrepreneur. That would be so interesting!

  • Fancyshades
    Fancyshades Day ago

    This video is not too long❀️ I loved it! You should do video like this more timesπŸ’– your advice is precious. Have a good day!

  • Mariam Nader
    Mariam Nader Day ago

    Thank u so much Aileen πŸ™β€

  • Zam Zam with Zainab

    I love your persona and videos and would honestly love to see both, mistakes that you've learned and business tips as well. The more knowledge the better :)

  • Aibi Yasuhara
    Aibi Yasuhara Day ago

    I really enjoyed this 😁..Definetely more videos like this. Learned a lot from you as always..You are truly amazing ❀ PS. Those pastel notebooks looks so cute 😍

  • Yu Duan
    Yu Duan Day ago

    I like the series very much, wish more, it gives me much energy

  • Mohak chandani

    Ur video really motivated me..nd this one is actually one of the best n worth watching videos on ur channel...I have been following u on TVclip since last 2-3 months only...but ur content has really helped me...ur videos have made me self confident n has made me start over again with things...thnkuu so much...I'm really grateful to uu... Nd actually I'm about to start a business I would request uu to make videos over that as uu said what uu learnt in doing online uu do the marketing to gain customers permanently...etc.. I would also request uu to post a video on how to write gratitude journals also....I have just started journaling but I really don't understand what to gratitude how to think n to be specific in plzz It would be really helpful if uu do one on this topic too....plzz Love love Aileen ❀️❀️

  • cherish.dearly

    Business lessons please!!

  • Maayan Fahima
    Maayan Fahima Day ago

    I think u should do things you learened from the mistakes u made and how it helped u grow and understand from themπŸ’–i love u and ur videos so much😊

  • Boa Xiong
    Boa Xiong Day ago

    Love these videos! I want more videos like this! It is so uplifting and speaks right to my soul. I can relate so much on what you are saying.

  • Phue Pyae
    Phue Pyae Day ago

    Love u <3

  • Colleen
    Colleen Day ago

    Loved the video. All 6 lessons were perfect. My fave = resilience πŸ˜€ both video ideas are good. Do both 😍 hmmm I enjoy your old productivity videos.

  • Adriana EgΓΊsquiza

    The last one! I would love if you could share with us about the biggest fears you overcame when you just started your business.

  • Upama Syed
    Upama Syed Day ago

    Really liked the relationship lesson ❀ a business lesson will be great next 🀩

  • Jasmine May20
    Jasmine May20 Day ago

    Love your videos and yes I need to see this to help get inspired

  • Miles of Color

    That sponsor was smooth af