Casually Explained: Breaking The Ice


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  • Jacob Kon
    Jacob Kon Day ago

    It's OK to be socially retarded. and before you SJWs show up to shit on my post, en francais, en retard is literally "late".
    The other day I realized that almost every girl i slept with or any friends I kept in my circle was from someone else's actions, I had been living a reactive life...
    So I resolved to be more proactive. Stole some chica from the bar, never knew her name, and never saw her again.
    Realized that I wasn't really giving myself enough credit and that if I stopped self-loathing that I'd be super happy. So I did.
    Happy MLK day boyz

  • Sami YoGames
    Sami YoGames 2 days ago +1

    2:13 Logan Paul would like to know your location

    MENTALITY 89 3 days ago

    cudnt put info

    MENTALITY 89 3 days ago

    dnt knw shud trust

    MENTALITY 89 3 days ago

    tryin not get scam

  • Hell Smoke
    Hell Smoke 5 days ago

    Is engineering worth it? Thought about taking it

  • X-01 Unknown
    X-01 Unknown 8 days ago

    There is a big contradiction in this video and I want to offer some wisdom so that Casually Explained’s 1.9 mill subscribers don’t get stuck acting out this self defeating and absolutely misinformed cycle. Guys especially, listen up. He asks “what would a not weird person do?”. A non-weird person would act normal. Normal means exactly the same things as regular, ordinary, typical, average, standard and unexceptional. The opposite of normal is unique. This should be common knowledge to all native English speakers. Now the contradiction comes when he suggests that you “sit right and wait for the alcohol to give you a personality.”. If you were weird then you already had one. Let me ask you all, since when has getting drunk ever made you significantly better at anything? Sure you might be having more fun at the bar if you’re drunk, but it’s only because your perception and judgement are inhibited become more like a disability. You thought you danced like Michael Jackson that night, but your dancing really looked like an opossum as it gets squished beneath a tire. You thought you sang karaoke like Robert Plant but you really sounded like a nail was driven through your shoe on every line. You shouldn’t avoid having fun and doing your own thing no matter what it looks like to others, you may even have made their night with laughter. That’s always a win! But getting tipsy or drunk is only boosting your fun meter while reducing your ability to do anything else above the skill level of sitting, “walking” and breathing, and even those can be failed once you’ve taken enough time to “get a personality”. He is essentially suggesting you drink until you forget yourself and that absence should be replaced with someone who is loud and fake. Assuming you actually do like this girl at the bar or club, then you want her to show interest in you so you can ask her out. If she says yes, what happens when the time comes to go o that date and you aren’t the “personality” that she agreed to go out with? Get drunk again? What about the second date? Get drunk again so she will never know who you are or what you’re like? You surprisingly fall in love and want to be with her forever and you must drink to be the mask that you made. Congratulations, you’ve become a full fledged alcoholic who will die early of liver failure.
    The word “weird” in this video should be substituted with “creepy” since the examples he gave represent that well. Being weird makes you unique, being unique makes you exotic and offers a certain special magnetism to it because it’s generally refreshing amongst the sea of average, normal people. What’s important is achieving some self confidence and embracing what’s unique about you so that you can present it in a fun or sophisticated way. You don’t have to pretend to be someone else. It will just make you miserable and lonely even if you do get the girl. Don’t be creepy but absolutely be unique! Be weird and interesting! It’s what separates you from the herd and what will land you in a relationship that is actually worth being in. Cheers to the weirds!

  • Antonian
    Antonian 9 days ago

    This is the most relateable video I have ever seen

  • hugo valls sabater
    hugo valls sabater 10 days ago

    “your mom”

  • one tome plz
    one tome plz 10 days ago

    What is self astiam

  • one tome plz
    one tome plz 10 days ago

    She looks like my real hot sister
    sweet home Alabama were they sky are blu

  • Sub to pewds
    Sub to pewds 11 days ago +1

    This man is the human embodyment of sarcasm

    • E Lad
      E Lad 2 days ago

      This man is the human embodyment of sarcasm

  • m7md for games
    m7md for games 12 days ago

    Think of what not wierd person do

  • Stefan Brockelbank
    Stefan Brockelbank 13 days ago

    Actual wholesome ending for once ;D

  • ~NekoIDreamZz~
    ~NekoIDreamZz~ 15 days ago

    Gay guy 1:2 Girls
    That's my stats I'm 21 btw and would consider myself as 6/10

  • Tony Pan
    Tony Pan 16 days ago

    This guy gets it.

  • 240pixel
    240pixel 18 days ago

    Casually struck up a conversation about dogs with a girl in Florida beach. Fast forward 2 months and we are a couple lol. Wasn't as hard. If I can do it. So can you!

  • John Kessler
    John Kessler 22 days ago

    No gay guys have hit on you? I figured they would like stick figures.

  • Insert Channel Name
    Insert Channel Name 23 days ago

    1:22 I don’t get the joke here

    • Hannex *_*
      Hannex *_* 15 days ago

      He wrote it in the script and now hes regretting it

  • Kevin Mahaffey
    Kevin Mahaffey 26 days ago

    I would guess that women don't want to approach guys because they, like men, are scared to be rejected. Women are just people. They are not some foreign alien species.

  • Kekes
    Kekes 27 days ago

    What If I have been aproached by both gay guys and a couple of girls, one girl used to be really into me but she was a bit of a freak and I have had sex but still feel like utter useless worthles shit?

  • TheOneBadAssGamer
    TheOneBadAssGamer 27 days ago

    I’ve been asked out by girls three times that I can remember. 1 time I said yes 2 times no thanks let’s just be friends. I’m ugly but not that thirsty. At least not yet check back in 5 years when I’ve started balding.

  • Zackery Toler
    Zackery Toler 29 days ago +1

    I’ve been asked out by more gay guys than girls....

  • TriscuitsWithBiscuits

    I fucking love these

  • Mutant Spartacus
    Mutant Spartacus Month ago

    All of this shit is why America is falling apart, everyone wants to glorify the players and Trumps of the world who create nothing and punish the hard workers who make almost everything. They not only set you up to fail, they use women as a carrot to whip you into place, but women wont give you the purpose you seek. Don't have kids either, just another enslavement mechanism (gotta get them dental!), then the kids grow up and take your place as pawns.

  • Realegendz
    Realegendz Month ago

    Me "hey when do you get off"
    Girl I like "11:00"
    Me "ok cool ill get off at 11 too"
    Girl "wtf why"
    me "do you want to go out with me tonight?"
    Girl "you're weird"
    can I get an F in the chat boys?

  • CliccBait Dániel Seres

    You are a bad engineer if you just keep thinking what would happen if... You gotta make it small and test it if it works out and eventually you will find the perfect way to approach women

  • Lynda Kerep
    Lynda Kerep Month ago

    Rejection is gods protection

  • Zayac the_Engineer
    Zayac the_Engineer Month ago

    I'm fifteen and I feel like I'm being friendzoned by every girl in existence, so my actions are as good as nothing. Soooo... I just sit at home playing video games all the free time! And feel kinda awesome and shitty at the same time.

  • Matt B
    Matt B Month ago

    When you treat this video like a comedic joke, but then realize how accurate and deep it is because it is the painful truth with no sugar coating. :'(

  • Destiny 18
    Destiny 18 Month ago

    Damn I guess I am always drunk 😂


    I fit in that 95% I guess

  • Billz
    Billz Month ago +2

    I’ve had more gay men ask me out than straight girls and I’m a straight man

  • MaximusRex
    MaximusRex Month ago

    The only time girls approach u is when their friends do it first but u can never tell if they're serious or just screwing with u

    REDandBLUEandORANGE 2 months ago +1

    What I do for success with girls is I just never talk to that person
    And then want to kill my self every night

  • WebX
    WebX 2 months ago

    It *is* a shit double-standard though. Like of COURSE women are going to be approached too often and of COURSE some guys are going to take rejection a lot more seriously than they should, when all of the pressure is on them. I can't understand why a woman would want to reinforce this, as basically all the issues they face in the dating world stem from this particular pressure.
    I'd say over half the the girls I've dated initiated in some way and I almost always stayed friends or became friends with girls I turned down.
    But there's another secret here: I'd say as long as you are interacting with people with no intention on actively seeking out a date, then girls often *do* initiate, but it's usually in indirect signs since there is still pressure against them being blunt.
    But yeah, just a message to the girls. Guys pretty much never get compliments. Girls don't give them to us. Guys don't give them to us. And many guys end up creating fictional egos in order to cope with this total lack of feedback. Not surprisingly those egos are fragile, yes. We're in a constant state of "nobody would love me unless I'm useful". I don't know what the solution would be, but taking the pressure off would be a good first start.

  • Wes Lou
    Wes Lou 2 months ago

    I dont try at all. And I shoot them down on the rare occasion that they hit on me

  • Zdeněk
    Zdeněk 2 months ago

    If you approach someone just show her your snapping skill. It's lit, mate.

  • Folie Deux
    Folie Deux 2 months ago

    Rejection is -part of- my life

  • Kyle Reich
    Kyle Reich 2 months ago

    Hey, girls approach me all the time... it's usually to either tell me about their boyfriend or ask me what I think about how things are going in her relationship with her boyfriend, or to complain about her boyfriend, or to say she broke up with her boyfriend and wishes more guys where like me, or to say how glad she is to have me as a friend because I helped her through her breakup until she got a new boyfriend, or to tell me where she is on her menstrual cycle. Primarily the second, second-to-last, and last ones though; especially the last one. (no idea why they all keep telling me about it)

  • Manuel Garcia Jr
    Manuel Garcia Jr 2 months ago

    Been approached by 4 gay men and 2 woman. Don't dig the 2:1 ratio but it's something.

  • Locan
    Locan 2 months ago

    Hey Casually Explained, would you like to get a coffee with me? -there you go. now you got asked out by at least one gay guy :)

  • Shanahan Gaming
    Shanahan Gaming 2 months ago

    But what if I'm really attractive, famous AND have a puppy... I mean... I'm not... But what if...

  • RemiF
    RemiF 2 months ago

    This is going to give me the balls to ask out my crush Tuesday. Thanks.

  • WasabiKitKat
    WasabiKitKat 2 months ago

    I’m a girl and want to be an engineer... don’t know if engineering school sounds great or horrible, because I also have extremely bad social anxiety.

  • Billy Kid
    Billy Kid 2 months ago

    Sad times

  • hunnimoonlight
    hunnimoonlight 2 months ago

    im a girl and honestly i relate to this to what the fuck

  • bmarshy2303
    bmarshy2303 2 months ago

    It’s worrying that everything he says is true

  • frank Frank
    frank Frank 2 months ago +1

    I quit drinking a year ago so I'm basically fucked.

  • Hayten l
    Hayten l 2 months ago

    I can hear the dread and sadness coming from his voice and from the video itself. because I have the same feelings.

  • Jonny Franklin
    Jonny Franklin 2 months ago

    Omg you are amazing

  • Manimations
    Manimations 3 months ago

    I don’t understand how it’s so difficult to break the ice when the other person is so hot. Like seriously, the ice they’re inside should’ve melted by now.

  • Samer Samara
    Samer Samara 3 months ago

    i wish there was a casually explained but from a woman’s point of view so we could actually benefit from knowing how they think but hey at least this is relatable..

  • Marie C
    Marie C 3 months ago

    Sometimes I text this guy that I like. He told me he appreciates me for talking to him at all. Most guys don't text at all. Now I'm just going to keep approaching him until I die.

  • Logan F.
    Logan F. 3 months ago

    Or just get Tinder lol

  • Pi Napple Guy
    Pi Napple Guy 3 months ago

    Ok, quick question, what WOULD a not weird person say? Just out of curiosity

  • Hero of Kush
    Hero of Kush 3 months ago

    Walked up to a girl said hi I’m James. want to hang out? we did was going good, until I told her my real name

  • RoseColoredIris
    RoseColoredIris 3 months ago

    3:10 I feel personally attacked.

  • C1utch R6
    C1utch R6 3 months ago

    3:03 “your mom” 😂😂😂

  • Tony Thomas
    Tony Thomas 3 months ago

    My love life summed up to a phrase is "beggars can be choosers." I went 0 for 2. To be fair, the first one was long distance, but the other one was a bet based off of real feelings.

  • Vesten ziRnis
    Vesten ziRnis 3 months ago

    Honest and good advice on the internet?
    WTF!? I didn't even hear a single "One simple trick the experts don't want you to know!"!

  • Tommuli Haudankaivaja
    Tommuli Haudankaivaja 3 months ago

    umm am i too weird cuz i have been rejected 20 times in 3 years(life is sad)

  • Richard Cheshire
    Richard Cheshire 3 months ago

    3:24 describes exactly how I met my girlfriend 😂

  • MageBurger
    MageBurger 3 months ago

    Casually Explained:
    "Why would I even write that?"
    "Why did I even think that?"

  • Akemi M.
    Akemi M. 4 months ago

    I'm in love with how your brain works

  • alex from the 6
    alex from the 6 4 months ago +3

    3:06 to 3:16 is facts

  • 【Hirotara】
    【Hirotara】 4 months ago

    This youtube channel is basically my spirit animal in general

  • Leo OD
    Leo OD 4 months ago

    thank you for sharing my natalie dormer obsession, but bear in mind i might have to kill you a little further down the line.

  • Dane Dumas
    Dane Dumas 4 months ago

    Beautiful ending

  • Aly Homewood
    Aly Homewood 4 months ago

    Waait hold on.
    Is he bi or some kinda queer?
    Cus I just...
    I dunno. I know it doesn't rly matter but I'm just interested and find it funny that apparently everyone of the ytbers I watch just casually turns out to be lgbtq+... Well prbly not everyone... But yeah.
    Like... It's prbly not sth I need to know but... I WANNA AND THANKS :)
    (yeah. I'm rambling...)

  • FlightForOne
    FlightForOne 4 months ago +1

    My ice breaker is usually stuttering something about anime followed by a self deprecating dig... so far I’ve found neither one to be the correct response to “Welcome to Taco Bell, what can I get you?” But if you still want to get on the gay guy scoreboard... 👋🏼 Hi... Soul Eater is the best anime.... and my Video Game Addiction is real..... lol... 😎🌈😶

  • FlappyCat2000
    FlappyCat2000 4 months ago

    I had a legit like 6 month plan to get with this girl and I came across as weird and stalkery at first but eventually it actually worked but then she moved

  • I'm David Hasselhoff
    I'm David Hasselhoff 4 months ago

    Me but unironically

  • Alixznder
    Alixznder 4 months ago

    I got asked out once, she was underage. This is why we ask, not women

  • Arcaryon Xavier
    Arcaryon Xavier 4 months ago

    If you meet someone at a party, ask if they are with someone. Act accordingly 😂 because from time to time they have bbbs ... Big beefy brothers. Who are not friendly.

  • IskandarEasyToFindThisAccount Dhiaurrahman

    I only just now noticed the "Your mom'' joke

  • Mr Void
    Mr Void 4 months ago +1

    That part with the aneurism is the best thing I’ve ever seen.

  • John A
    John A 4 months ago +5

    Awww MAN, I'm the 95% :(

  • Soul Legend
    Soul Legend 4 months ago


  • Filip Bečák
    Filip Bečák 4 months ago

    my favorite mild sperg channel

  • Ashwini Raj Pandey
    Ashwini Raj Pandey 4 months ago

    Dude you're hysterical, should do standups.

  • Kroy Wen
    Kroy Wen 4 months ago

    are you single? I taste like Pringles

  • Alperen Elbasan
    Alperen Elbasan 4 months ago

    3:03 Your mom

  • Chicco Divers
    Chicco Divers 4 months ago

    >be me
    >say hi
    >she says hi back
    >ask her about music
    >we talk about that for a while
    >she likes a semi obscure band that I also like
    >formulate response in my head
    >walk away without saying anything
    Please help

  • Ethan Peterson
    Ethan Peterson 4 months ago

    yo nigga what if she licks my face

  • Thomas Towler
    Thomas Towler 4 months ago

    Casually explained is beta as fuck

    MAN_ON_WHEELZ 4 months ago

    2:43 - 3:03 This line right here, I swear to God I wish I could simplify this and wear it on a shirt. I don't always notice girls that I would be interested in. Though I have been approached once or twice in my 29 years and it's been by girls I am 100% uninterested in. I've had pretty girlfriends, so it's not like I can't attract girls that are my type, why don't they ever say something?

  • Luke Newcomb
    Luke Newcomb 4 months ago

    I always ask myself: Would an idiot do that?

  • Kyle D.
    Kyle D. 4 months ago

    Love the videos 😁 good job man

  • Anthony Malquezadec
    Anthony Malquezadec 4 months ago

    When I initiate a conversation fear, shock, and nervousness spread across peoples faces. Is this normal...

    • Wei Zhao
      Wei Zhao Month ago

      yes that's your ability to share with people how you feel

    ROBERT ANDERSON 4 months ago

    So who is the woman that he keeps showing on these videos? Look at her she appears about 0:55 minutes into the video. I believe it is a celebrity, but what's his beef?

  • SomethingIronic
    SomethingIronic 4 months ago

    Thumbnail is so great haha

  • Beans
    Beans 4 months ago

    I'm not gay but those jew curls gave me a 9 hour erection and counting

  • Dr. Jingles7
    Dr. Jingles7 4 months ago

    The hard part is it actually works and you become a boyfriend then your like "shit what do I do now I didn't think I'd get this far

    • Wei Zhao
      Wei Zhao Month ago

      the point is that you enjoy your life
      notice how you stop speaking after talking because you live in complete fear of what the other person is gonna say next
      don't do that
      figure out why and you'll feel way better
      it's the same feeling as being afraid of accidentally knocking things over
      these are clues
      solve the mystery

  • Andy Hale
    Andy Hale 4 months ago

    Pretty sure CE just came out as Bi.

  • GreenPigKing
    GreenPigKing 5 months ago

    I got asked out by a crazy girl and some gay guys have hit on me but other than that I have always made the first move.

  • Jenny Lane
    Jenny Lane 5 months ago

    I know you're legit TVclip famous and are probably already holding like.. so many.. literally tens of other girls' hands even at this moment but um
    Mines is softer
    I don't lift. so. silky smoove. um.
    I hit subscribe. you couldn't even feel it.

    literally TENS

  • Marlin Mcknight
    Marlin Mcknight 5 months ago

    Anybody else see him scoring "Your mom" at 3:01

  • FC videos
    FC videos 5 months ago

    Glad i have a puppy

  • Nachiten Remix
    Nachiten Remix 5 months ago