How To Text A Girl Like A Man (Copy these text examples)

  • Published on Sep 22, 2018
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    Want to know how to text a girl to get a date? How to text a girl to turn her on? WHEN to text a girl and WHAT to text her? International dating coach Matt Artisan is here to show you!
    He'll tell you exactly what to text a girl that you like! Matt shares how to text a girl to get her attention. How to stand out from all the other guys texting her. How to show your masculinity and confidence through text, and how to make her SAY YES to a DATE!
    A lot of guys have trouble getting women to reply to their texts. Are you being too direct? Too needy? One of the most prominent problems men face after they get the number is closing in on the first date. You can't expect standard and ordinary texts to get you the date, man.
    You see, once you get her number - you're still far from that finish line. This video will show you exactly how to text her to seal the deal. Remember, its not her number that's the goal here, its the date!
    So, how do you text a girl to get her to say yes? Watch Matt's video to find out!
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    ► His top texting techniques that will make you stand out!
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Comments • 378

  • star boy house
    star boy house 15 hours ago

    Nice vedio

  • Bloody Albanian
    Bloody Albanian Day ago

    Dont text what he told u to text . Its a trap

  • Ayush Shrivastava
    Ayush Shrivastava 4 days ago

    After watching your videos Matt sir I feel so much confident.

  • garo kantarjian
    garo kantarjian 4 days ago

    This guy is a virgin trust me.

  • blessed
    blessed 5 days ago

    I just write: send me vagiaina picture . It works! (1 out of 126 times tried) . It was a ugly one foshaw, but it did the job, my trick is to close my eyes and hold my breath🙈

  • Yes of the yes
    Yes of the yes 5 days ago

    What made this guy think he's attractive?

  • b b
    b b 8 days ago +14

    This guy is so out of touch with women, it's making my body cringe into another dimension.

    • iAmPj
      iAmPj 3 days ago +1

      This is for older people. We young bloods don't text like this.

  • Andrea Murdock
    Andrea Murdock 12 days ago +1

    I can tell you from a woman’s perspective..... quality women will not chase a guy no matter how much she likes him!..... it’s the guys job to do the chasing, you just have to do it without seeming desperate..... just saying. Peace 😊

  • Ashten mark
    Ashten mark 12 days ago +1

    Your videos rock man i love this advice

  • Magic GB3
    Magic GB3 13 days ago +1

    I take my Email Into the Box but dont get a Email with the textes

  • search yo
    search yo 13 days ago

    This text are aim for 18 year olds. Try to text this shit with women 30 and older.

  • Slavs_101
    Slavs_101 13 days ago +1

    Instructions unclear I got a dick pic....

  • Piyush Gogna
    Piyush Gogna 17 days ago

    Bro your girls are not like indian girls .. you need to come up so much more .. they are very different and unique they are very smart

  • killalegend 6
    killalegend 6 18 days ago

    You always talk about the mistakes like get to point with out the extra shit

  • HardBoy Kobby
    HardBoy Kobby 18 days ago

    Where will you get the Texting cheat sheet to download?

  • Mr Anderson
    Mr Anderson 25 days ago

    I've just realized the only way I'm going to compete with how many texts my wife receives from her friends, coworkers(work), and guys probably flirting with her is to fight 🔥 with 🔥

  • klobasa007007
    klobasa007007 27 days ago

    8:57 be honest all checked the boobs...

  • zeshan
    zeshan 27 days ago


  • George
    George Month ago +1

    That pick up lines are so chessy 😂😂😂😂

  • Abubakarr Sanu
    Abubakarr Sanu Month ago +1

    What kind of text u should text a girl u like for the first time

  • David Elliott
    David Elliott Month ago +1

    Not gonna lie I lost interest a minute in

  • Gucci Anthony
    Gucci Anthony Month ago

    Want women to respond to your text have his face bruuuutall faceandlms 🔥🔥🔥

  • ynglitkid.
    ynglitkid. Month ago

    It's patched

  • UxMaN GaMeR
    UxMaN GaMeR Month ago

    Dude she doesn't get her mobile to text how long should I wait?

  • Invicious AlwaYz
    Invicious AlwaYz Month ago +3

    I have the feeling that a lot of stupid gamers are watching these kind of video’s hahah

  • Ashton Gareth
    Ashton Gareth Month ago

    Hello Sir. I'm from India, Goa. Sir I don't know how is the scenario with texting an Indian girl to get her on a date.. Cuz Indian girl's mindsets are different from those who are western from other countries.. So could u plz make a video on texting and taking Indian girls on dates.. It would encourage more Indian men to get dates also..

  • Thomas
    Thomas Month ago

    Instead of finding the perfect technique, I'm going to where women are less likely to act like trash.

  • Thomas
    Thomas Month ago +1

    Us men have to bend over backwards to get a girl.
    Girls can just misbehave.

  • Asian Persuasion
    Asian Persuasion Month ago +1

    Ur outifit is so gay

  • Pankaj D.J.
    Pankaj D.J. Month ago

    Someone fucking help me got too many matches on tinder but dont know how to text them ..any pro plz help

  • B4HA3E Jr
    B4HA3E Jr 2 months ago +1

    The friendzone is coming

  • jay thapa
    jay thapa 2 months ago

    How to chat with gal for first time in fb

  • EJ Asifor
    EJ Asifor 2 months ago


    BLUEJAYY 2 months ago +9

    Based zeus said the something Assume Attraction

  • pulezan
    pulezan 2 months ago

    This ugly know it all sob again. God help us...

  • Akshay Sharma
    Akshay Sharma 2 months ago

    How to get a girl's number??

  • Phurian _
    Phurian _ 2 months ago +1

    4:09 Damn, I just got back into contact with this girl I knew a few years back, we texted from 1 PM to 10 at night 💀

  • Deuce
    Deuce 2 months ago +1

    yo the man

  • Justin Dillard
    Justin Dillard 2 months ago

    Every time I ask a girl "what kind of trouble are you causing" they take it offensive , this must be advice for 30 year old girls, I'm only 18.

  • Mizzy
    Mizzy 2 months ago

    The email never showes up

  • TheWutangclan1995
    TheWutangclan1995 3 months ago

    Supplies a cheat sheet and shows examples of how to do it... Yep I'm ditching my old format and using this one.

  • Stuart Smith
    Stuart Smith 3 months ago +1

    "Tell me this ...are you adventurous?"
    fair enough!

  • Jesusiswithme Mamita
    Jesusiswithme Mamita 3 months ago +1

    You and her I will find out in you o your phone

  • Jesusiswithme Mamita
    Jesusiswithme Mamita 3 months ago +1

    I will search through it.

  • bubba saidy
    bubba saidy 3 months ago +1

    How do I get the free texting chest

  • SupaFlyBoyZz699
    SupaFlyBoyZz699 3 months ago

    Funny how she spotted you and said did u copy and paste from youtube Busted oh crap..

  • Ujagar singh
    Ujagar singh 3 months ago +1

    I have masters degree in electrical engineering but was never this confused. Girls are the biggest mystery of the universe that never needs to explored .

  • For Replacement
    For Replacement 3 months ago

    Im confused that u said u have so many sucessful date and have guarantee tips to help us.. but where is all the woman that you date sucessfully? The sucess meaning is epic FAIL?

  • Andres Hernandez
    Andres Hernandez 3 months ago +1

    This is getting too much robotic.
    1. Eye contact
    2. Approach her
    3. Bla bla bla
    4. Forget her and repeat.

  • Happy Hour With Matt
    Happy Hour With Matt 3 months ago

    Are you in Prague?

  • Dan kahmei
    Dan kahmei 3 months ago

    Girls r damn complicated

  • Serjohn
    Serjohn 3 months ago +8

    i sent:
    canceal everything,i know this fun coffee place i want to go on sunday
    she replied:
    i work on sunday 14:00-22:00

    • MiamiBoy02
      MiamiBoy02 2 months ago

      Lucky for you, (x coffee shop) is open all week long... what's your schedule looking like next week

    • Minh Le
      Minh Le 2 months ago

      Serjohn too bad ;))

  • Serjohn
    Serjohn 3 months ago +1

    rather stay virgin , who has time for this shit

  • syed shariar alam shuvo
    syed shariar alam shuvo 4 months ago +5

    You links sms sheet cheat link don’t working

  • Grey Adamz
    Grey Adamz 4 months ago

    My Email

  • cobblerz
    cobblerz 4 months ago

    "What super power would you like?" There's an important distinction between sounding like a dick and sounding dumb.

  • Brandon Marzka
    Brandon Marzka 4 months ago

    Just saying man if the girl is really into you, she will text you first

  • bitumen83
    bitumen83 4 months ago

    How about to put aside all this 16-years-old-kid-bullshit advice and just call her for a date. If she dont reply just move on...

  • JohnnyJaySurvivor9
    JohnnyJaySurvivor9 4 months ago

    Dam this is genius! Lol

  • train Hartnett
    train Hartnett 4 months ago


  • Zeus
    Zeus 4 months ago

    Why text? She is in the bar, make the move right there

  • DangusPrime Gaming
    DangusPrime Gaming 4 months ago

    The one thing this guy didnt say is that all of this is what girls are attracted to and shows them that you are strong, socially influential and not needy / wanted in the world / busy!
    Trust, it works.

  • Dick Dastardly
    Dick Dastardly 4 months ago

    Hey, I just thought about you, what sort of vodoo magic are you using, by the way I'm a closet homosexual but i'm scared god hates me so I'm texting you because you are a woman but you have a beard and i like that.

  • troy the king of basketball talk

    Great video man thanks alot

  • Timeless
    Timeless 4 months ago

    One Word....Confidence.....In Yourself......IF You Are Not, Practice...........That`s it.....

  • Ace
    Ace 4 months ago

    What if she says she doesn’t like anyone how do I react to this do I just wait more or keep texting

  • Raj Estate
    Raj Estate 4 months ago +1

    4:16; ha ha ha ha ha ha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • Davvy Ki
    Davvy Ki 4 months ago

    this guybis actually confusing lot of things, may be i guess its a marketting strategy to confuse people so they buy his stuff

  • George GS
    George GS 4 months ago +3

    All this effort for nothing.. please stop putting women on pedestals.. with time you'll realize they are a drain, nothing worth chasing. Best tip by the way.. just be rich.. they'll text you first lol!

  • Super Mario
    Super Mario 4 months ago

    You want her so much and u want to text her

  • Maxwell Arhin
    Maxwell Arhin 5 months ago

    i never recived the Texting Cheat Sheet

  • Amit Singh
    Amit Singh 5 months ago

    I get 3-4 matches in a week on Bumble but these ego boosted hoes doesn't start conversations. Sadly only female can start chat on Bumble.

  • chesster423
    chesster423 5 months ago

    i cant stand these mind games.

    • The Attractive Man
      The Attractive Man  5 months ago

      I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there

  • Cashay Sangma
    Cashay Sangma 5 months ago

    What if I txt for cockshake instead of milkshake..... Boring txt advice ever!!

  • Ash The Duke
    Ash The Duke 5 months ago

    I texted her am busy and she never called be back

    • The Attractive Man
      The Attractive Man  5 months ago

      I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there

  • Robert Gunn
    Robert Gunn 5 months ago +2

    So much effort into what are meaningless involvements which lead typically nowhere.

  • Arrie Husselmann
    Arrie Husselmann 5 months ago

    Yo do video about dm on insta

  • WeAreArsenal 49
    WeAreArsenal 49 5 months ago +1

    I gotta try voodoo magic lol

  • Mbm TJ
    Mbm TJ 5 months ago

    Hey do got a point women be jumping to conclusions like they on a trampoline there's something

  • Mbm TJ
    Mbm TJ 5 months ago

    Anyone else better at texting or talking on the phone instead of talking face to face

  • Mbm TJ
    Mbm TJ 5 months ago

    Anyone else like him better than the blond girl BC he don't make you feel bad about yourself or make you feel like a child instead of a man😂

  • gudu sahu
    gudu sahu 5 months ago

    Please help me ..send me that cheat sheet .... after login I am not receiving that sheet in my

  • Valentin Bozhilov
    Valentin Bozhilov 5 months ago

    Dude .. dont try this bullshit in the Balkan region...

  • Flacko's Alive
    Flacko's Alive 5 months ago

    bro i purchased the $7 one and then it kicked me out and it got confirmed, but didn’t get anything. wtf

  • noooka raju
    noooka raju 5 months ago

    Hey i just sign in to get cheat sheet ..but I didn't got it

  • MisterPotatoBag
    MisterPotatoBag 5 months ago

    seems not that brains just cant handle it....

  • james fair
    james fair 5 months ago

    I have not received by cheat sheet yet

  • van smith
    van smith 6 months ago

    Goddamn going through stuff like that, and learning all this can take some time depands how fast you gonna learn. I was not that of a proffesssional like the gentleman in the video, reaching the state of enlightement with those pick up lines. In my eyes he's definitely amazing and some of us, cant even speak for shit. However I''m glad that god gave me something big, and usually didn't have to say that much, because as soon as i would make them realize that i like them, a women would sit on my lap and go straight for a kiss. I'm sure there has been people here as lucky as I was. Bottom line is i'm getting old, and i'ant gonna be hot forever, looks will dissappear one day, because time changes everything, so i better do some homework to progress myself, in arts of the language of seduction.

  • Matthew God spower
    Matthew God spower 6 months ago

    I have entered my email a million times but you never send it

  • Deez Nuts
    Deez Nuts 6 months ago +3

    What if like she’s a good 15 years older than you and you hungout for the first time and instantly was hooked on her energy and vibe, and then you text for a bit and conversation comes to and end, and you want to keep hanging out and see where it goes. How do you tell if she’s interested?

  • Gamer Souradeep
    Gamer Souradeep 6 months ago +1

    i am trying to talk with a girl who did not know me.

  • Alex Turcu
    Alex Turcu 6 months ago +1

    Are You in Romania? :)

  • shane michaels
    shane michaels 6 months ago +5

    “you got her number and now what do you do?”
    you delete it. she probably gave you her number cause she felt bad.

  • Max Fragozo
    Max Fragozo 6 months ago +1


  • Jake Tyler Syiem
    Jake Tyler Syiem 6 months ago +1

    U know very well bro 😎
    Ill learn

  • John Jackson
    John Jackson 6 months ago +1

    Matt is gay!!

  • Jack Hintze
    Jack Hintze 6 months ago +10

    “Hey wifey I cheated on you with the housekeeper. Don’t be mad.”
    Aaaaaand you’re dead

  • Jay Social
    Jay Social 6 months ago

    Again this is useful advice but I suspect it only works for one-time lays and not regular or future pussy. You forgot some scenarios.
    1. What to text if you can't see her for weeks (e.g. she is travelling, going abroad to see parents etc)
    2. What to text her after first date or lay
    3. What do text her if you can only setup date the following week etc (she is on her period, studying for an exam etc).
    Trust me, some girls will be unavailable to meet straight away due to there circumstances and I have tried using these clever lines for weeks but they eventually lose there effect and you come across as a sex-crazed creep or dancing monkey who only want one thing.
    If you encounter any of the scenarios above, my advice is to keep in touch or she will forget or ignore you. You cant use Matt's lines all the time because you will run out of things to send eventually. So my advice is to send interesting, inspirational or motivational quotes once or twice per week to keep her thinking about you then so she will be primed to meet you. Keep it real!

  • Rice Guam
    Rice Guam 6 months ago +3

    This is helpful

  • Joe Dirt
    Joe Dirt 6 months ago

    I’m never going to take this guys advice, ever. Seems to me he wants us men to try and be something we aren’t. You wanna know how to get a relationship? BE YOURSELF. If you fake yourself, women can see right through that. If a woman doesn’t like you or accept you for how you are, fuck them then. Be yourself; there is no mind trick to play when you’re trying to reach out to the opposite sex.