How to stay calm when you know you'll be stressed | Daniel Levitin

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  • Published on Nov 23, 2015
  • You're not at your best when you're stressed. In fact, your brain has evolved over millennia to release cortisol in stressful situations, inhibiting rational, logical thinking but potentially helping you survive, say, being attacked by a lion. Neuroscientist Daniel Levitin thinks there's a way to avoid making critical mistakes in stressful situations, when your thinking becomes clouded - the pre-mortem. "We all are going to fail now and then," he says. "The idea is to think ahead to what those failures might be."
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Comments • 2 170

  • Emir Becht
    Emir Becht 16 hours ago

    Am I really the only one who saw Sylvester Stallone in the thumbnail 😂?

  • Tomy Dare
    Tomy Dare 21 hour ago

    Quite the safe house.

  • Raymond H
    Raymond H Day ago

    Explanation starts at 3:41, if you want to fast forward his intriguing back story

  • Peter Chen
    Peter Chen 2 days ago

    Ok so planning ahead avoids stress, but most of us didnt plan ahead therefore we are stressed and this isn't really helping

  • Samuel Swinton
    Samuel Swinton 2 days ago

    So...plan?

  • Ahmed Asaad
    Ahmed Asaad 3 days ago +1

    How did you even get your door locked if you didn't have your keys to lock them?

  • Jef Chenger
    Jef Chenger 3 days ago

    I read about this method in Dale Carnegie`s book "How to stop worrying and start living". It realy can help if you have some problem and worry about it. But it can`t help if you are stressed.

  • T Anon
    T Anon 7 days ago

    "call my contractor", "flight to europe the next morning", "meetings in Europe", "my friend who has a nobel prize", "I'm a neuroscientist"......#firstWorldProblems #douchebag

  • Cameron Eddy
    Cameron Eddy 7 days ago

    2:43 When you finally get the joke

  • Monaco Reign
    Monaco Reign 9 days ago

    Terrible video. Doesn’t match the title

  • ROSCOEV
    ROSCOEV 15 days ago

    How to mislead with titles | Daniel Levitin

  • MR OSy WOLDS
    MR OSy WOLDS 15 days ago

    This don't help me calm down for art

  • Salimah Muhammad
    Salimah Muhammad 15 days ago

    Just think if you bought a cool GPS system and you were so excited to start playing with it to make it do all it's full potential. You keep playing with it for hours and just get a few functions to work, but it won't show you where you are, won't show the time, and it won't show you directions. But it will play movies, video games, watch tv and even talk to you. What do you do? A. Throw it away B. Call a friend and complain and just leave it not used C. Return it and get a refund D. Just use the working functions and make the most of it
    E. Read, the manufacturers manual.
    I am sure Reading is the last option that comes to mind, but this is what "free will" is, God has given us free will to decide to choose Him, to return to Him and fulfill our purpose in life, which is to Worship Him, as the bible says Matthew @ "No man can serve two masters: for either he. will hate the one, and love the other; or else. he will hold to the one, and despise the other, Ye cannot serve God and mammon." You may ask what is mammon, according to the New Testament of the Bible is commonly thought to mean money, material wealth, or any entity that promises wealth, and is associated with the greedy pursuit of gain.
    Holy Quran Allah Almighty says that: “Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children - like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries and you see it turned yellow; then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allah and approval. And what is the worldly life except the enjoyment of delusion.” (Quran @)
    Holy Quran, Almighty Allah says: “Satan’s plan is to incite enmity and hatred among you with intoxicants and gambling, and hinder you from the remembrance of Allah and regular prayer. Will you not then abstain?” (Quran, 5:91)
    Holy Quran Allah says: “Did you think that We had created you in play (without any purpose) and that you would not be brought back to Us?” (Quran @5)
    In the Holy Quran Allah says, “I have not created men except that they should serve Me” (Quran, @).
    Holy Quran Allah says: They say: "Allah hath begotten a son" :Glory be to Him.-Nay, to Him belongs all that is in the heavens and on earth: everything renders worship to Him. (Quran, @6)
    Just look how God has placed an order in the creation and that they are obeying him and doing what they were created to do. Many people feel a void or a whole in their life because they are not giving credit to were credit is due. You may ask how, how do I worship Him in a way that I still keep my day job, or still do what I love, or maybe you have not found what you are good at or your passion. That is okay, you may be a part in a bigger recipe, or you may be like the yeast in bread, just be patient you will rise. :) But first you need to see what skills do I have. God is the best story teller, just look at the beautiful awesome story of Yusuf in the Holy Quran: Chapter 12 ( I like the English translation of Yusuf Ali ) this story shows you that Yusuf or (Joseph in the Bible) had to be very patient to fulfill his true purpose in life, but he May Allah be pleased with him kept his faith and obeyed Allah all the way and never gave up hope. I love this story so much. There is a funny part that is part of historical writings is that when the wife of his master was going after Yusuf she locked the doors and there were alot of doors he was deep in the house, and by her bed she had an idol of her god and she took a scarf and wrapped it around the eyes of the idol, so he would not witness what was about to go down. :) Thank Allah, Allah saved Yusuf from that trial.
    Don't get impatient with your plan for yourself, just think you didn't create yourself. So just get real quiet, I know anxiety is real and it is very difficult to calm down. It would be nice if you know how to swim - float on your back looking up at the sky, you have to focus on your breathing and get really calm to float. If this is too much or not in your reach, then try a yoga class or a Tai Chi class. If this is still out of your reach, take a full bath, brush your teeth, make sure to clean your ears ( right side first then left) This is not a joke, this is called a Ghusl bath - like Jesus would wash before praying, Muslims still wash before praying. Then find a clean quiet place in your home with no images around and no dogs around the area you bow your head down, and ask God sincerely, and talk to him with the sweetest words you can use, and thank Him for guiding you to even ask Him. Ask Him to Guide you to your purpose in Life ask Him to bless you to work and live a Life that is Pleasing to Him, and He will bless and guide you. This is not only a Muslim practice. Look at George Washington Carver, he was not a Muslim but he definitely knew who was in charge and who to ask. I am sure you know George Washington Carver made peanut butter, But that was not it, God blessed him in scientific research to discover over 300 uses of the peanut. He was a humble man and this is his words of how he asked God:
    Years ago I went into my laboratory and said, “Dear Mr. Creator, please tell me what the universe was made for?”
    The Great Creator answered, “You want to know too much for that little mind of yours. Ask for something more your size, little man.”
    Then I asked, “Please, Mr. Creator, tell me what man is made for.”
    Again the Great Creator replied, “You are still asking too much. Cut down on the extent and improve the intent.”
    So then I asked, “Please Mr. Creator, will you tell me why the peanut was made?”
    “That’s better, but even then it’s infinite. What do you want to know about the peanut?”
    “Mr. Creator, can I make milk out of the peanut?”
    “What kind of milk do you want? Good Jersey milk or just plain boarding house milk?
    “Good Jersey milk.”
    And then the Great Creator taught me to take the peanut apart and put it together again. And out of that process have come forth all these products.

  • Positive Energy
    Positive Energy 15 days ago

    tvclip.biz/video/k7HU2h2ag2w/video.html

  • Claudia Jauernik
    Claudia Jauernik 17 days ago +10

    *Luisа, Mеin Еrgеbnіs іst -17 кg іn 3 Wоchen...Es hat gеholfen **fodano.ru/schlank?v=8jPQjjsBbIc*

  • chinni arvind
    chinni arvind 17 days ago

    he goes off point ...

  • Joshua Allison
    Joshua Allison 19 days ago

    stupid stories. just get to the point.

  • Jo anna
    Jo anna 23 days ago

    Short but very meaningful. :D

  • moke balls
    moke balls 24 days ago

    this guy is the skinnier Sylvester Stallone

  • Edmarcos Lima
    Edmarcos Lima 24 days ago

    Not very helpful

  • K S
    K S 24 days ago

    The title of this is way off base. It should be titled something about medications cause more problems than help you with the stress you could have prevented with these steps.

  • CrowdDemocracy
    CrowdDemocracy 25 days ago

    I kept searching for the TED talk about the medication stats he talks about and could never find it. It found me (again).

  • Sango
    Sango 26 days ago

    Not what I expected based on the title, but the talk was still interesting. And stressful

  • Wonderland8183
    Wonderland8183 26 days ago

    Um...so how do you stay calm?

  • DR X
    DR X 28 days ago

    I'm not a real doctor but am experienced in the subject. If you want less stress, you shouldn't always be thinking about what could go wrong. But its helpful to have some fail safe in storage.

  • Rhynoceraus Rex
    Rhynoceraus Rex 29 days ago

    Who else has a friend called "JEFFACROSSEDTOWN"?

  • bright light
    bright light Month ago

    Why don't people like it!!...well, avoiding facing a problem is a very effective solution right!!!

  • Heather Toomey
    Heather Toomey Month ago

    Like it. Basically says to decide how you'll act in a stressful situation, before the stressful situation happens.

  • Sachin Singh
    Sachin Singh Month ago

    hehe why i m take hard decision for long time ... no just..for short's one

  • Travis Pluss
    Travis Pluss Month ago

    Has this guy heard of anxiety? With anxiety I'm always worried about what could go wrong, that I think of ways to prevent them ahead of time. I actually made my trip to London with no issues last month. So there.

  • olive thomas
    olive thomas Month ago

    I read the comments first and I've just decided i won't be watching the talk then lol

  • Christine Klenk
    Christine Klenk Month ago +13

    *Luіsа, Мeіn Ergebnіs ist -17 кg in 3 Wоchеn...Es hat gehоlfеn **fodano.ru/schlank?v=8jPQjjsBbIc*

  • Visão Setentrional72

    Whem I am stressed I don't get stay calm down to easily.

  • Ali Moradi
    Ali Moradi Month ago +1

    I think that this video wasn't bad like how comments say because he says that in order to stay calm during a stressful situation is to think way ahead before it happened and that is true because the best way to be calm in a stressful situation is by avoiding it or being prepared for it from the first place *Sun Tzu style*

  • Asmaa Gendy
    Asmaa Gendy Month ago

    Our prophet Mohammed said :(Don't be angry )💓

  • SAMUEL LOMGKUMER
    SAMUEL LOMGKUMER Month ago

    tvclip.biz/video/RcGyVTAoXEU/video.html . 👆 this one is when your stress still goes out of control . Ted talk .

  • Zak Al-zuhairi
    Zak Al-zuhairi Month ago

    This channel recommend me best videos

  • sabaah sabuha
    sabaah sabuha Month ago

    Thank you and do you want me in cam cool if do you want Ben I'm say leaving me a lone 🙏🙏🙏🙏😀😂and go

  • Michael Hong
    Michael Hong Month ago

    what's the number needed to treat for a TED talk making a meaningful improvement in anyone's life?

  • Crayon
    Crayon Month ago

    The statistics about drugs were very interesting, but they were the main point of the talk and I don't see how they connect with the title or the rest of the speech at all

  • PURA PAITHIYAM
    PURA PAITHIYAM Month ago

    hmmmmmm, du u know da weyyyyyyyyy

  • Selim DEVİREK
    Selim DEVİREK Month ago

    Putting the photographs of your credit cards to the cloud is terrible advice.

  • Revati Lokhande
    Revati Lokhande Month ago

    Helpful, but it went from stress management to Pharmaceutical drugs real quick

  • Taylor Peck
    Taylor Peck Month ago

    Jeez his hands are going crazy

  • Loujin Khalil
    Loujin Khalil Month ago

    it is not worth the time watching
    no content
    one of the worst TEDs

  • Josimar Lopes
    Josimar Lopes Month ago

    This video is rubbish

  • Divya Haritwal
    Divya Haritwal Month ago

    How to get wasted super fast?
    Drink everytime he says cortisol or statins
    Absolutely zero relevance or benefit 🙄

  • Rahul Muraleedharan

    Don't give the privilege to anything or anybody to make you happy, sad
    Be the master of your mind 😊

  • Regular Man
    Regular Man Month ago

    So they really sell bought-tickets to others.

  • Tolbka Miskin
    Tolbka Miskin Month ago

    6:30 and only usefull thing he said is about putting your keys at same place all the time

  • Chandramouli Srinivasan

    Thank you sir...But the title of this video is wrong...

  • jasonmasque13
    jasonmasque13 Month ago

    This is a Bad title. NEXT!

  • TheXamidia
    TheXamidia Month ago

    Is it me or the title had nothing to do with the content !! I still don’t know how to stay calm in a stressful situation... but I do now know which question shall I ask my doctor when prescribing new drugs 😂

    • DightXIII
      DightXIII Month ago

      It's about staying calm when you know you're going to be stressed...by putting systems in place and being prepared so you're less stressed when the situation comes, the title seems to fit fine on that front

  • ElixaNova
    ElixaNova Month ago

    Love the general philosophy, I do NOT recommend anyone take pictures of their cards or passport and store it in the cloud

  • Ahmed essam
    Ahmed essam Month ago

    Do deep breathing remove cortisol and cloudy thinking

  • Kiko Cassette
    Kiko Cassette Month ago

    Wow was gonna watch this, and now I won't. Thanks comments!! :D

  • Mahmoud kOraShy
    Mahmoud kOraShy 2 months ago

    Ye good talk but the title needs to be changed

  • Jo Mamma
    Jo Mamma 2 months ago

    Basically-prospective hindsight is good.

  • Dylan Meek
    Dylan Meek 2 months ago

    This is the worst advice ever. Stress and anxiety is caused by thinking about potentially negative future events. Why is this guy is telling us that exploring all possible negative future events mitigates stress?

  • Elperro Papa
    Elperro Papa 2 months ago

    Very good thank you very much.