You Need Children to Be Happy

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  • Published on Nov 4, 2018
  • For the majority of couples, having your own child and sharing those special moments becoming a parent is the ultimate happiness. But what if you or your partner only had a 6% chance of having your own baby, what would you do and how far would you go to chase that happiness?
    To the majority of us, getting pregnant and having own child would bring the most joy and excitement. For others, it's the last thing on their minds busy with their advancing careers until finally wanting one, but being too late. When this happens, IVF, or In Vitro Fertilization, is the go-to medical procedure to better your chances at pregnancy.
    Just like normal pregnancy, IVF is not 100% and can take many tries until you're able to get pregnant. Many times, the procedure does not work, or it does and complications arise from the pregnancy resulting in a failed IVF. It may seem easy to try again, but for some, the mental and physical rollercoaster in being hopeful to have your own child to not can hurt more than coming to terms and realizing, it just wasn't meant to be.
    If you are unable to have your own child, it's okay. You're not alone in this matter and although you may feel like you'll never be a parent, that simply isn't true. Being a parent is much more than just having your own child. A parent is someone who is able to teach, care, and share experiences with a child - whether yours or not. You can always enjoy the company of others' children and become the cool auntie that every child looks forward to.
    For those who feel the same, don't worry. Life works in such mysterious and unknowable ways. At times, we could care less at what's in front of us only to look back and want that now. In the end, enjoying every moment you've been given and appreciating every opportunity we have is the best part of life.
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  • Tareque Ahmed
    Tareque Ahmed 6 hours ago

    why didn’t you adopt one kid?

  • sour patch kids
    sour patch kids 15 hours ago +1

    Adoption is a option

  • PERLA PRADO
    PERLA PRADO 18 hours ago

    You can adopt

  • Emma Lud
    Emma Lud 19 hours ago

    Adopt

  • Dear FutureMe
    Dear FutureMe 20 hours ago

    If you were going through all of this, why not adopt instead??

  • Kaala Silvermoon
    Kaala Silvermoon 22 hours ago

    Miscarriage? What is that?

  • Muduwa Husna
    Muduwa Husna Day ago

    I will adopt in future

  • Ariadne Leventi
    Ariadne Leventi Day ago

    Why don’t you adopt a child?

  • AlyssaB
    AlyssaB Day ago

    The story is ok but is the shock value titles of these videos really necessary? That statement is just asking for trouble.

  • trisha zxcvbnm
    trisha zxcvbnm Day ago

    why didn't they just adopt a child? i know its not easy because its not ur real child but that woudn't be difficult to think.

  • Ava deerstar
    Ava deerstar Day ago

    ok but at 6:38 I LOVE her shirt and I want it irl

  • Glory Rattle
    Glory Rattle Day ago

    maybe you could adopt a kid??

  • Aisha Ahmad
    Aisha Ahmad Day ago

    :( 😰

  • Amy Musa
    Amy Musa Day ago

    In a way, I'm not interested in kids, I don't think you need to have kids to be happy. I'm 18 and never in my life, I thought kids were something for me. Lol

  • KpopTheticly
    KpopTheticly Day ago

    Adopt one

  • Ignited twisted Emma the fox

    Don’t be fooled

  • Paska Pasta
    Paska Pasta Day ago

    If yo wanted a kid that bad just adopt one

  • LPS Logic
    LPS Logic Day ago

    Adoption...?

  • Audrey Edits
    Audrey Edits Day ago

    Why didn't you just adopt?

  • Sphinx Luv Duv Wuv
    Sphinx Luv Duv Wuv 2 days ago

    wait you where only aloud 3 cycles? Or you could only afford 3? I'm pretty sure the 3 rule is like, per year, some doctors do accidentally mistake it for 3 tries and your out but thats untrue. Some people get it on their 6th or 7th try, and some women get it on their 22nd or 23rd try, and they all had infertility issues (one had IID) and if its because theirs an issue that maes it so the baby can't implant properly why not try surragusy? I only ask because I personally know i'll have to go through with this in the far future, and have done a ridickulous ammount of research for it (my fiance is trans and so we have to freeze sperm which means i've studdied up a hell of alot about this to make sure we deffinently freeze enough to have at least 2 kids) I understand that its hard going through miscarreges and thats why the 3 a year rule exists, so that your body and mind can take a break. Honestly I think you might need to have a talk with your doctor about it if its not a money issue. If it is a money issue I have to say i'm sorry. Thankfully I live in a country where IVF if very succesful and is covered by medicare, and is cheap even without coverage because of how many public IVF hospitals there are competing with the private ones. Also to all those who say adopt, there is quite a few issues that come with that, one, the price for adoption and the adoption process is costly and long, two, even with foster care where its free, theirs a high chance you'll get children with major disobediance issues or even mistrust issues, three, even if you succesfully adopt a child who is a very small child, later on in life there is a very high chance of them searching for their "real parents" and them regarding you as lesser due to you not having any blood relation (it happens alot more than you think) four, if you adopt an older child, like with foster caring there is a high chance of getting very mentally unstable children. I'm not saying you shouldn't adopt, but there are valid reasons not too. Also to those who say having biologically related children is wrong because there are so many parentless kids, stop it. Its not their fault these kids exist, its either idiots who couldn't keep their legs shut or even use protections fualt, yes there are a few kids who's parents tragically died but they arn't as common as youd think. It is a biological and natural urge to have your OWN children, parents and children who are biologically related, on average have a way closer bond than those who arn't, theirs a reason for this. All life exists to create more life, that is lifes funtion. Some people can't have kids naturally but humans (us amazing animals) have used our complex brains and creative skills to overcome such hurdles. And if I or any other person makes the decision WE want our own related children, even though nature says we can't, WE are aloud to make the decision to be "selfish" and go to a doctor to make us a tube baby.

  • Eloise Turner
    Eloise Turner 2 days ago

    I was born through IVF so was my annoying sister.

  • Maria Phares
    Maria Phares 2 days ago

    With people saying that they should have adopt (which I think would be great too), it's not that simple. You have to have requirements, money, background check, qualifications etc. It takes years and years. You have to go through a lot and even then, it might not happen. It's not easy. Being a parent has it challenges, even more so with adopted kids. So it's not as simple as people make it out to be. How do I know this? I'm adopted, my sister was adopted and so is my brother. It's a complicated process and long journey but it's worth it. :)
    Edit: I don't think people who want to have bio kids are selfish. I don't think people who don't want kids are selfish. I think everyone should do what makes them happy or at least enjoy the little things in life. :)

  • XxcholeXxgirl Kana
    XxcholeXxgirl Kana 2 days ago

    Children should be happy btw



    I, not a parent

  • Sophia Guevara
    Sophia Guevara 2 days ago

    Yo if this was me I would adopt

  • katrin P
    katrin P 2 days ago

    I'm not crying you are

  • REESE STARNES
    REESE STARNES 2 days ago

    Omg adopt

  • Tigied
    Tigied 2 days ago

    You could just adopt

  • Cat Gaming
    Cat Gaming 2 days ago

    One word ADOPTION!!!!!!!! 👶

  • DC trash.
    DC trash. 2 days ago

    Fostering? Adopting?

  • Kris Zimmerman
    Kris Zimmerman 2 days ago +1

    Everybody saying it’s so expensive to adopt, 300,000 and such, not true through the foster system. My mom adopted 6. And it’s no more expensive if you can afford IVF. And yes you would feel like it’s your child. I child is yours whether they came out of your stomach, another’s stomach, or a Petri dish. Love is what makes them yours. ❤️

  • starbrite 101
    starbrite 101 3 days ago

    😢 did anyone else actually cry while watching this video 😭😭😭😢😢😢

  • Billy Bob Joe, The Professional Meme-ist

    That title kills me. This is why we have overpopulation, people insist on following blind biological urges... why, WHY would you create MORE human life when there’s too much already? Because everyone’s only worried about their little corner of the world, _their_ baby/babies won’t be a problem, they’re too small and the world is too big. But when everyone thinks like this, selfishly, it all adds up and we have issues. We even encourage it... we’re just biological machines, this stuff makes that painfully obvious. These machines adapted to circumstances that no longer exist, and thus, unless we use our (fucking limited) capacity to think logically, we’ll destroy ourselves with the same, predictable, mechanical behaviors that allowed us to survive as long as we have in the first place. You can’t win... unless, MAYBE, you start thinking with logic and not emotion. If we did this, we wouldn’t have war. We wouldn’t have overpopulation. We wouldn’t have a whole LOT of dumb shit, and yet here we are, feeling superior to animals that are managing to not slowly kill themselves... I mean come on, how do people not see that animals are capable of being MORE LOGICAL than people -sometimes- and that we’re so predictable, I don’t understand how people can delude themselves with free will... “you need children to be happy”
    Sounds like the POLAR OPPOSITE of free will.
    The irony here, of course, is that this thought and reaction I had was very knee-jerk, based on emotion, _feeling_ pissed off that some people manage to overlook the most obvious stuff about people and the clear lack of free will and why we’re not superior to animals and all this stuff. I, of course, am just a collection of cells, behaving according to basic physics, and there are so many that it’s hard to predict exactly how I’ll behave. But free will? What, does this magical free will make a neuron fire out of the blue? If you ask yourself how free will could possibly work, physically, on a cellular basis, you’ll see that you’re a lot like the weather. Hard to predict, but not impossible (and actually, we can predict people MUCH better than the weather, but we don’t go around saying the atmosphere has a consciousness or a free will....), and made up of small things that don’t have free will, and thus, is a large, complicated work of physics that has no more free will than the sum of its parts. 0+0+0=0. The entire basis we have for free will is that you can feel it. What you feel is a machine doing what it’s gonna do regardless, you experience thinking passively, you have NO SAY in what you think. Thoughts “pop into your head”, right? And that’s supposed to be free will, you not controlling what _you_ think? You are purely a product of genetics and an environment that is inherently out of your control for _several_ years, so if the basis of what you’ve learned is contained within a time period when you had no say over where you lived or who you spent time with (you don’t choose your parents), then everything you are has been formed from factors completely out of your control. So I guess I can’t blame people who go around saying “you need kids to be happy”, they have no bearing over why they think that. Machines. As someone who has clearly accepted this, it’s not that hard. “You” don’t exist. As a matter of fact, you don’t even have to try to accept it, because a biological computer will do it for you. Or maybe it won’t, so don’t feel too bad if you can’t seem to think it through. It’s as much your fault as it is when your phone won’t load something. This turned into a huge rant but idk that’s just the way the mylon (it’s a fatty tissue, not a misspelling of nylon) sheaths over (some of) my neurons guided all the chain-reactions of ion movement, the cells that have been fired more have thicker sheaths and the action potentials travel faster inside those cells, so that the chain reaction moves faster- if a certain cell usually activated another when it fires, that pattern is reinforced, the chain reactions move faster in the specific path of this cell to that cell and so on and so forth, and those cells will impart their chain reactions to cells in my muscles, or maybe just straight into over cell patterns (that’s basically all memory is, if something can get the ball moving, so to speak, on a very specific pattern/pathway (more like a web, I guess, each cell can connect to a gajillion more), that pathway will carry the reaction to another pathway, or straight to muscle or whatever, and you’ll move or think in the same way you used to- and that’s literally just physics. A Rube Goldberg machine. So, don’t take anything too seriously, you’re just genetically designed so that certain pathways fire from birth, like “I don’t enjoy pain”, you’re just coded to care about certain things automatically. None of them actually matter, one day you’ll die and you don’t even care, you just experience a machine “caring”. Jesus this really did turn into a huge ass rant...


    Also, look at one of your fingers and move it.

    Now do it again with this in mind:
    Did “you” move the finger, or did “you” realize that it was being moved, and then reason out why it did that? “Right, well I was just thinking about how I move my fingers, and so naturally that’s why I did it”. When I look at my finger and feel that I’m moving it (hard to tell but I think you realize you’re doing it before it actually moves- it all happens very fast, but my feeling is that the part of the machine that’s going “Right, yes, me, my finger, my body, I control it” registers that one of the other programs started doing something with the finger and it reasons out why that program did that before you’ve even moved (at least, before you’ve moved it a lot). The programs talk directly, so the delay between “I’m moving it” and “huh, I’m moving my finger, what’s up with that?” is so small you can easily ignore it and trick yourself into feeling like you controlled it. No, one of the parts of your brain (I guess many parts in conjunction, really) that isn’t (aren’t) capable of consciousness did something, and the parts that are capable of consciousness got that info. The parts that are capable of consciousness may have fired neural patterns that caused the other part to do this, but that’s not deciding to move the finger, that’s you thinking about something causing your body to physically react. Like a machine that moves based on your daydreaming- you didn’t tell it to do anything, but your thinking caused it to physically react, and then you gotta figure out why it did that, which isn’t too hard and doesn’t take long, and the whole process feels like one motion, but it isn’t, you think in abstracts, running what-ifs in one program, you move, you _then_ realize why you moved. You also predict your movement before you actually move, too, it’s like your consciousness is going “okay, so what if that thing I’m inside of did this? What would happen?” And the non-conscious involuntarily reacts to the outcomes of the what-ifs, which feels like deciding, because only certain things actually happen, you “decide” to not do something, but that’s just the what-if program spitting out a result that doesn’t activate the right patterns, puzzle pieces that don’t fit.

    Moral of the story: neural patterns are based off of blind physics, it just so happens that they react in a way that lets me survive, but just because a bunch of moving things moves in a way so that it keeps itself moving doesn’t mean it knows anything. This entire computer system doesn’t have someone in the back coding it, it just so happens that when matter gathers itself in the shape of neurons, and, collectively, a brain, and a body to go with it, it keeps moving. So there’s no reason to say that our way of thinking can actually produce truths- maybe we’re a large scale version of when you mess up twice during a math question and get it right, all we “know” is that this system keeps itself alive, but that could be a “broken clock right twice a day” thing, maybe gravity doesn’t actually exist, maybe house cats are actually huge, deadly predators that have, purely by chance, never landed a pounce. Maybe the ground is actually molten lava, but by dumb luck, everyone’s been stepping on little rocks and been half a centimeter away from falling in for literally all of history. It’s all just chance, so you can’t claim that you know something when the computer that thought it out is just something that’s managed to somehow not die yet. Our whole way of thinking and experiencing could be ENTIRELY wrong, but if the “real” stuff we can’t experience never interacts with us, even if it brushes by at a hair’s width twice a second, if it just so happens to have always missed _so far_ (maybe the next step will be the first time in human history you step in the lava), being able to experience it wouldn’t help you survive, and only a few people would ever actually experience reality, and if it doesn’t help them survive and reproduce, the population of people who can’t experience reality would always remain way larger, and those who could really see would be considered insane. So next time a schizophrenic says that satan’s standing behind you raising a knife to kill you, consider yourself lucky. They could be right, and this whole time you’ve been unwittingly dodging the swinging knife. Every time you see a quarter on the ground and walk over to pick it up, you might be inadvertently dodging knife murder.

  • legitfox animations
    legitfox animations 3 days ago

    I'll never be able to have my own kid because im lesbian. I've never felt close to a boy, and i have a massive crush on another girl. I told her my feelings on monday and she said it was okay (shes pansexual). Im only in 7th grade, so its very stressful. If i ever have kids, i'll adopt. Its easier. Plus, i'll be helping another child in need of a family.

  • The aviation Lover
    The aviation Lover 3 days ago

    So sad 😞

  • Aquarius
    Aquarius 3 days ago

    Or, you know, you could've just adopted a child.

  • Hallo the Smolest Creepypasta Bean

    I feel like the title is low-key trying to take a jab at me

  • Mocha Milkshake
    Mocha Milkshake 3 days ago

    My twin was a miscarriage

  • Happiness and Art with Andrea Regine

    *Pray to God*

  • Addison Diamondhurricane

    ... Was adoption not an option for them? Like, sure, if you want to have a baby that shares genetic information from you and your partner, go for it. But if it doesn't work and you still want children, why not just adopt a child?

  • dacouch potato
    dacouch potato 4 days ago

    You could just adopt a baby

  • Crystal BlackHeart
    Crystal BlackHeart 4 days ago

    You don't need kids to be happy, you need to make yourself happy and not just dump the idea that happiness comes from soneone else who has to complete you. This is selfish and I'm glad that she didn't have a kid or realized that she could adopt. This is a story about a person so ignornat about life that she is complaining that she can't simply have everything she wants the moment she wants it.

  • Laniakea S
    Laniakea S 4 days ago

    You need a point in your life - children, career, travelling, hobby. Choose for yourself c8

  • Cheese Cake
    Cheese Cake 4 days ago +1

    ❤️❤️

  • Sir Overlord
    Sir Overlord 5 days ago

    if they wanted a kid so badly why didn't they just adopt a kid?

  • Fruits YT
    Fruits YT 5 days ago

    Is it just me or does it say "boyfriend" not "husband"

  • UnKoWn UsEeRnAmE
    UnKoWn UsEeRnAmE 5 days ago

    easiest way to have a kid adopt one

  • MerKitten Ash
    MerKitten Ash 5 days ago +1

    You can just adopt newborn babies. But okay, you want to be a brat saying," I wanted to experience the journey from start to finish" THATS WHAT THEY HAVE AN ADOPTION CENTER, DOING THAT WILL ALSO BENEFIT THE ADULTS SENDING CHILDREN THERE BECAUSE THEY ARE EITHER UNPREPARED, WENT TO JAIL, OR EVEN THEY DIDNT WANT THE BABY.

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  • Pandora’s Box
    Pandora’s Box 5 days ago +1

    BUT What about adoption yeah you can’t physically of children but you can still have kids just buy adoption

  • Abigail O’Connell
    Abigail O’Connell 5 days ago

    I’d rather shove a red hot poker in my eye than have children

  • Lars T.
    Lars T. 6 days ago

    What about adoption though? Why didn't they try that? 🤔

  • Youping Wu
    Youping Wu 6 days ago

    It Feels so wrong to have the mindset, if I can't have my own kids than it's over. I will never be able to become a parent because I can't have my own kids. Adopt than. Their is so many kids out there who needs love.

  • Debra Wright
    Debra Wright 6 days ago +1

    If u can not have a
    baby adoped one

  • Lrose 3000
    Lrose 3000 6 days ago

    If you really want a kid you can adopt a baby

  • sam cline
    sam cline 6 days ago

    You don’t need children to be happy

  • Annamaria Squillace
    Annamaria Squillace 6 days ago

    I'm a 9 year old....WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!😭😭😭😭

  • Zoclora
    Zoclora 6 days ago

    This is a beautiful and very true story. I know I won’t be able to have kids do to medical reasons and I’m ok with that! Yes be nice to have that some one to nurture and watch grow, to be there for it all. But like this video stated there is much more to life then just having a kid. You can have a full and healthy life with out having children. It’s honestly not healthy to make such a thing priority any ways above your own happiness. Abounds selfish, but if you just believe having a child is the only real way to have a happy life you need to take another look at your self. It’s one thing to make it a goal but an obsession is a whole other story.

  • Small Cilantro
    Small Cilantro 6 days ago

    No you don’t

  • phantomwaltz
    phantomwaltz 6 days ago

    Hmmm..

  • loula chim
    loula chim 6 days ago

    You know, at first, I didn't really like the idea of being pregnant. It wasn't because I didn't want children, but because of all the pain I'm going to go through. But then one day, I talked with my mom about what she went through, she told me she went through A LOT, but then she said, "You'll go through a lot of pain, but this is the best pain you'll ever have in your life"

  • Venusa Fern
    Venusa Fern 7 days ago

    uh... adoption?

  • MysticWolf2008
    MysticWolf2008 7 days ago

    I almost cried...I really want to have kids!😢😢😢😢😢

  • the wacher 64
    the wacher 64 7 days ago

    Carrage mother

  • Polina Istomin
    Polina Istomin 7 days ago

    It’s like u need a pet to be happy. And I ain’t need a pet.

  • LeaTheDragonFanatic
    LeaTheDragonFanatic 8 days ago

    We always made our parents miserable.
    Explain that.

  • RORO THE TOTAL BAD YOUTUBER

    :) Yes kids need to be happy 😌

  • Kristin Sexton
    Kristin Sexton 8 days ago

    I'm so happy for you and your boyfriend (p.s. Adoption was always an option too)

  • Author Hoper
    Author Hoper 8 days ago

    “You need children to be happy”
    Nah man I just need my dog and videogames PLUS FOOOOOODDD

  • William Vu
    William Vu 8 days ago

    you can adopt a child

  • Purple Pie Party
    Purple Pie Party 8 days ago

    Everyone is saying that they should adopt but they also said they wanted their own child :(

  • DoggyLoves Patatos
    DoggyLoves Patatos 8 days ago

    Just adapt a kid they also need love

  • sugardoll
    sugardoll 8 days ago

    and idk what makes babies cute and make u happy lolololoolol

  • Ryo Inspiritus
    Ryo Inspiritus 8 days ago

    I made the choice 25 years ago not to elect to go through the hell of having a kid or having my life destroyed by a scorned woman who attacks the closest thing to them. Leykis 101
    You have every right to pursue happiness, but no right to accost someone for theirs if they dont take from you to support it. Good story, all the same.

  • Sheikah Queen
    Sheikah Queen 8 days ago

    Ugh just adopt one 🙄

  • Seal Studios
    Seal Studios 8 days ago

    Why don’t you just adopt...... like a dog.... or a real human being that will be fine but... dogs count as baby’s sometimes is you spoil them a lot

  • Mønsse Shinsō
    Mønsse Shinsō 8 days ago

    You know she could have adopted a kid..... But like what ever I ain't gonna judge

  • dante aguirre
    dante aguirre 8 days ago

    brah just adopt🙄

  • proto401 52
    proto401 52 8 days ago

    Jesus h. christ this is heartbreaking. You should consider adopting

  • invincibilull
    invincibilull 8 days ago

    Thinking that my mother left me with my father when I was 11 for a dream and ,in other situations woman want to have children ,so that means that my "mother" is a MONSTER for LEAVING ME FOR A DREAM.

  • MunchkinPuppy_YT Fun Time!

    Can’t you adopt a child...? 😐😐 *face smack*

  • Francesca Fowoson
    Francesca Fowoson 8 days ago

    But why couldn't she just adopt one?

  • Sara Anders
    Sara Anders 9 days ago

    Ugh you can have children in soooo many different ways. Adoption and foster care are great options there are so many children in the world without parents who would have so much love to give to those without love.

  • Tae cup
    Tae cup 9 days ago

    I thought thus about children's mental health

  • Shive Boyle
    Shive Boyle 9 days ago

    i feel like im a person i love babys but i dont anny more

  • Sugary Nugget
    Sugary Nugget 9 days ago

    I MEAN YOU CAN ALWAYS ADOPT A CHILD, Y'KNOW?

  • Hero’s Screen
    Hero’s Screen 9 days ago

    Ya should’ve gone for the 3rd there’s a saying: “Third time is always a charm!”

  • Wimsem - Tekenen & Knutselen

    3:46, awh.. 'first'

  • NatNat _
    NatNat _ 9 days ago

    You know you can adopt a child?

  • ExplodedSteak And Sarah

    Legetimatlly cried

  • ShibbleTear
    ShibbleTear 9 days ago

    No!! They should have adopted a child in the end! Soooooo, so, so, so, sooo many kids need to be adopted and they would LOVE to have a family!! Better to have a child (even if they’re not biologically related to you) than not have one at all!!!!

  • Official Galaxis
    Official Galaxis 9 days ago

    Why didn't she just adopt a child.

  • douchbagat
    douchbagat 9 days ago

    a video to feminists to show that not all women are happy if they're loners and virgins

  • Simple
    Simple 9 days ago

    Being a teen and watching this is like being in High School Biology...
    Who else got a little uncomfortable? Ik this is part of life but anyway

  • isabella martin
    isabella martin 9 days ago

    adopt

  • K Harding
    K Harding 9 days ago

    Ok, extremely unpopular opinion. It bothers me when people have kids solely to celebrate a milestone or, as disgustingly iterated in this video "A little piece of us", yes, a testament to your relationship. A bookend.
    When actually, there's a global water shortage crisis expected to impact even DEVELOPED nations in 2060, climate change, global economy collapse, etc etc. Look at the human longevity forecast for the next century and the message will remain the same: We need to leave earth, or we will be screwed. And plus, technology is having a devastating impact on our mental health and our ability to connect as a species. Jobs will be automated soon.
    People look fondly back on the 50s-90s like these decades are going to be the landscape of the next American/European family.
    If someone came to me before birth and said, "Hey, You'll go to college. Get a degree and do everything right. Yet never land a job and be in debt until your 40s so you can't travel or own a house for the prime decades of your life, would you still want to live?"
    My answer would be "hell no. Fuck no"
    I'm not saying the world is going to end in 100 years. But theres going to be a lot of change and uncomfortable progress that will probably overhaul society or destroy it.
    I wouldnt bring a kid into this world unless i had tens of thousands saved up, 5 hours clear from my day, and a promising outlook for the economy and job market. It disgusts me how its such a compulsion to young couples today.
    Is now the time to create a "piece of ourselves" for purely psuedo-romantic narcissistic reasons ?
    Nah.

  • sickening_love
    sickening_love 9 days ago

    You could just adopt and still be happy.

  • Weird Stoner Kid
    Weird Stoner Kid 9 days ago

    Why don’t they adopt??

  • August 11th
    August 11th 9 days ago

    What about adopting? That’s what I’ll do🤔😀

  • Amina Shube
    Amina Shube 9 days ago

    I hate this video👿👿👿👿