7 Ways to Make a Conversation With Anyone | Malavika Varadan | TEDxBITSPilaniDubai

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  • Published on Jan 11, 2016
  • “We mustn’t speak to strangers.” Malavika Varadan, challenges this societal norm, by presenting 7 ways to make conversation with anyone.
    RJ extraordinaire, Malavika Varadan, creates waves quite literally with her morning show, Breakfast No.1 on City 101.6. An avid fitness enthusiast, positivity ninja and drama queen, she has chiseled a benchmark in the radio industry. At TEDxBITSPilaniDubai she will choose to redefine connections.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • gordon brown
    gordon brown 2 hours ago

    Love this video. You smile so freely ...Aum

  • Sparksterfu
    Sparksterfu 13 hours ago

    She is cute af and i love her energy.

  • Doug Clement
    Doug Clement 21 hour ago

    Attractive people are more socially accepted than those who are not....

  • Doug Clement
    Doug Clement 21 hour ago

    great, now if you can teach me how to talk to women

  • Verna Brown
    Verna Brown Day ago

    i would like to add up a point...
    *Keep Smiling*

  • Khang Le
    Khang Le Day ago

    she's so hot

  • Hello World
    Hello World 2 days ago

    Do you shitted today?
    Oh we have so much in common

  • Brad Zimmerman
    Brad Zimmerman 2 days ago

    Very good talk! Well done!

  • 顾仁祯
    顾仁祯 3 days ago

    What's the meaning of TED's "E",education or entertainment?

  • Mihir DHABE
    Mihir DHABE 3 days ago

    I,m gonna save your time
    READ THE BOOK " How to win friends and influence people " by Dale Carnegie

  • aj aj
    aj aj 5 days ago

    I'll try th3se tricks, every steps

  • B corner
    B corner 5 days ago

    I wand to propose malavika varadhan please tell me how to start?😢

  • KEEM
    KEEM 6 days ago

    Listen to listen. Don’t listen to reply 💯

  • donald trump
    donald trump 7 days ago +2

    Me - *HI*
    She- *SORRY I HAVE A BOYFRIEND*
    Me- 👀👀

  • ACTIVE CREATORS
    ACTIVE CREATORS 8 days ago

    I want to become a social group girl

  • Bah IB
    Bah IB 10 days ago

    Did they mute the public's noise, cuz I feel like there's nobody's inside or they don't have the sense of humor. She's very fantastic and funny to me but nobody's laughing.

  • Mohsen Mehrafrouz
    Mohsen Mehrafrouz 12 days ago

    Could be a much nicer presentation if I wasn't constantly distracted by you shouting at the audiance and laughing at your "jokes"
    Also you might be surprised that talking to people from a radio station is not a conversation is a monoluge
    Love the enthusiasm though ;)

  • Mike McGomer
    Mike McGomer 13 days ago

    Girl to me in my drinking Daze. Hi mike do you remember me? Feigning sudden recognition "Oh yes I didn't recognize you with your clothes on" Why did I stop drinking 25 years ago?

  • Mike McGomer
    Mike McGomer 13 days ago

    Talking to Jeffery Dahlmer. Do you have any ice cream in the fridge? No, only Ben and Jerry... I stole this.

  • Demian Collazo
    Demian Collazo 14 days ago

    Very wise

  • Rahul Pal
    Rahul Pal 15 days ago

    I think Just Awesome…🤟

  • Popeye
    Popeye 16 days ago +2

    My wife knows how to make a conversation, she doesn't stop talking (nagging)

  • Shashank Shetye
    Shashank Shetye 16 days ago +6

    Me: I watched Tom & Jerry when I was a Kid
    She : Me too . It was great
    Me :wow That's so much in common🤗

  • Andrew Moropoulos
    Andrew Moropoulos 16 days ago

    This advice only works for cute girls tho. No stranger guy wants to talk to another dude, and if u try say hi to a girl theyll think ur trying to hit on them so... This tedex talker lives in a bubble.

  • Bassam Abulela
    Bassam Abulela 17 days ago

    Hi
    A.S.L?

  • shivam gujjar
    shivam gujjar 17 days ago

    I guess u left the plot at the end. And these days no one apriciate ur first move

  • Naima Hassan
    Naima Hassan 17 days ago

    c0

  • Angelo Shaw
    Angelo Shaw 17 days ago

    Let's just have a conversation right here right now to practice her skills she taught us! 😇

  • Brindha
    Brindha 18 days ago

    👌👌

  • s k
    s k 19 days ago

    Me: i like you i wanna marry with you.i can't live without you.
    She: wait,it was fine for love.but i can't marry with you.
    Me: why? We have been in relationship in 5 years.if you leave me i will die
    She: i don't care what you wish, you have no bank balance no own house and not a high profile job.
    Me:Then she left me.

  • Stephen Young
    Stephen Young 19 days ago

    Some funny sarcastic comments here lol... shes great though.

  • Grand Holidays
    Grand Holidays 19 days ago

    GOOD

  • aahhmmeedd 20004
    aahhmmeedd 20004 22 days ago

    I forgot someone's birthday and now we didn't talk to each other for 3 weeks 💔🙂
    I don't know what to do

  • Harsh Parihar
    Harsh Parihar 22 days ago

    I love the way you smile Malavika ,its like your eyes smile, your nose smile, your chicks smile and then you as a whole is smiling......

  • can I get 100k subscribers without videos : Mayank

    I :I do you have a bf
    She: yes but not you
    You are too talkative

  • Meet Waghela
    Meet Waghela 23 days ago +1

    In India you will get beaten if you start talking to unknown lady or a girl.

  • prince peter
    prince peter 24 days ago

    my mom told me not to talk to strangers!

  • Hamza Farooqi
    Hamza Farooqi 24 days ago

    nice figure!

  • L N
    L N 24 days ago +1

    You are looking gaurgious and good communication skill .
    It's very helpful for me

  • Sultana Nazee
    Sultana Nazee 24 days ago

    Keep it up dear .. you have such a wibe to make a spark in others ..

  • Samuel Lin
    Samuel Lin 24 days ago +9

    Ask personal questions

    Me: Hi
    Stranger: Hello
    Me: So, what's your social security number?
    Stranger: *leaves*

  • Fiyaz Dool
    Fiyaz Dool 25 days ago

    My 15mins got really useful

  • Sahil Chhetri
    Sahil Chhetri 25 days ago

    😎😎who are here for coment presentation😂

  • Nayana shaji Shaji
    Nayana shaji Shaji 25 days ago

    i like it

  • Dr.Mushtaq Ali
    Dr.Mushtaq Ali 25 days ago

    Wonderful

  • themilemunchervlogs
    themilemunchervlogs 25 days ago +41

    Me: Hey!
    She: Sorry, I’ve a boyfriend.

    • edrin lepcha
      edrin lepcha 13 days ago

      Sorry for my english
      But you can reply with
      (I can understand
      I use to say the same
      Until i found someone who defied all the laws )
      If she is truly into her bf.
      I am sure you will end up with good friendship 😉

    • Balaji Akkayyagari
      Balaji Akkayyagari 13 days ago

      Wtf

    • An Demacia
      An Demacia 18 days ago +1

      Good luck for you later 😂😂

    • Dina Enkova
      Dina Enkova 22 days ago +1

      This is so me 😅

    • Dakshayani Nati
      Dakshayani Nati 23 days ago +1

      Damn🤣🤣🤣

  • Mizanul Choudhury
    Mizanul Choudhury 25 days ago

    "Talk to a stranger"
    .
    .
    .
    .
    .
    Introvert left the chat..!!!

  • Tanmay Ghadge
    Tanmay Ghadge 26 days ago

    She is hot thats why came to see this video and not because I want to have a conversation with anyone😂

  • Vaishnav Tompey
    Vaishnav Tompey 26 days ago +1

    no one like to hear your voice on radio dear it's our Forcedness

  • Akash Nishad
    Akash Nishad 26 days ago

    Highly confident woman

  • mark renton
    mark renton 27 days ago

    I love introverts because they the most amazing quips.

  • Taj Abdullah
    Taj Abdullah 28 days ago +1

    Great video
    Please subscribe and comment Taj Abdullah TVclip Channel

  • jeetu bagri
    jeetu bagri 28 days ago

    I love you 😘❤️♥️

  • Behnam Ebrahimi
    Behnam Ebrahimi 28 days ago

    👍👍👍👏👏👏

  • Egas 99
    Egas 99 28 days ago +12

    me: "hi"
    if the person is a guy : "hi" and i have just got a new friend
    if the person is a girl : "i have a boyfriend"

  • The Non Smoker
    The Non Smoker 29 days ago

    how do I make conversations when someone just starts with "Go F yourself" sentence?

  • Pranab Sekhar Choudhury

    All i want to is talk with you MALAVIKA

  • snm111
    snm111 Month ago

    *JUST DON'T OVERPLAN YOUR FIRST TIME CONVERSATION OR HAVE A FIXED STYLE........BE YOURSELF AND DO NOT PROJECT YOURSELF AS SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT AND DO NOT NECESSARILY FOLLOW ALL THE STEPS CHRONOLOGICALLY....AND DON'T BE LIKE TRUMP:.....*
    *TRUMP: AAA...OKAY SO YOUR HUSBAND WAS KILLED BY TERRORISTS...OH..YOUR CHILDREN TOO.... ALSO YOUR MOM AND DAD WERE KILLED BY THEM..... (PAUSE 5 SECONDS)......AND WHAT DID THEY DIE OFF...??*
    *VICTIM : MY ENTIRE FAMILY WAS SHOT DEAD BY THE TERRORISTS....*
    *TRUMP : OKAY...I SEE....(10 SECONDS PAUSE ) SO WHERE ARE THEY ALL NOW...I WANT TO KNOW ABOUT ALL AWFUL THINGS THAT HAPPENED TO* *THEM..???..WHERE ARE THEY NOW...??*
    *VICTIM : MY ENTIRE FAMILY WAS SHOT DEAD POINT BLANK ....THEY ARE ALL DEAD..?*
    *TRUMP : NO I WANT TO KNOW ABOUT THE TERRORISTS.....WHERE ARE THEY ALL NOW...WHAT HAPPENED TO THEM...RIGHT NOW MY FOCUS IS ONLY* *TERRORISTS....*

  • Rahul Rabha
    Rahul Rabha Month ago

    "A Conversation" is less boring, unlike this talk.