I'm A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

  • Published on Dec 1, 2018
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    This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.
    Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.
    Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.
    Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.
    It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.
    One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.
    Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what - he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!
    This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.
    One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was - that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her - she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.
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    • Rockstar BonBon
      Rockstar BonBon 19 days ago

      ACTUALLY HAPPENED Listen, Joan. You should not be worried about changing your tomboy habits. You are a great person and this story has been very inspirational. You see, I’m gay and I hang out with boys. So, it’s kinda difficult for me to find love. No offence, but I don’t like girls in any way. I don’t see myself as a boy in a relationship. I see myself as a girl. So, yeah. I guess I can relate. This video was very inspiring and I hope you have a wonderful, fulfilling love life. God bless you.
      - John (or Jeanette)

    • Shadow Sceptile
      Shadow Sceptile 20 days ago


    • Eva Barnes
      Eva Barnes 29 days ago

      Mee too

    • Connor Hurlock
      Connor Hurlock Month ago


    • CThy Price
      CThy Price Month ago

      I am a tom boy and I am proud of it.😉😄😄😄😃😃😃 and I am 8 and I have a lot of boys how are my friends. 😝😄😃😜

  • 176Blue
    176Blue Day ago

    I'm not the girliest girl but I like wearing tshirt dresses because I don't have to wear pants!

  • eevee art 14
    eevee art 14 Day ago

    I am a Tom boy but my friends are girls because I get made fun of for talking to the boys and they think I'm weird so they ignore me. The good thing is that my friends are Tom boys so it's not that bad

  • KL midnight_girl

    This is the most reletable vid ever

  • Anjas wonderland

    I think i am a tomboy.

  • Aliana Perez
    Aliana Perez Day ago

    This is like me. But i like girls. And i don't know why.

  • Audrey Agbozo
    Audrey Agbozo Day ago

    I can relate to most of it because I'm also a tomboy. Everyday shirts, hoodies, and jeans all day everyday 😎😎😎😄🤗 but if it was dresses, skirts, Makeup it's just eww 😒😒☹

  • aksel k
    aksel k Day ago

    Problem is there is always some men who find you fuckable or dateable but WHEN YOU'RE A TOMBOY YOU SEEN AT THE BOTTOM OF THE FEMALE HIERARCHY, THEREFORE EVEN IF YOU ARE 10 TIMES BETTER THEN OTHER GIRLS, FUCKED-UP-GUYS APPROACH YOU. That is what's unfair.

  • icy nator
    icy nator Day ago +1

    2:32 i know what you mean everyone from my school thinks im gay look people i respect gay rights and im a tomboy it does not mean that im gay ok i have boyfriend so dont start calling me gay

  • Saakshi Singh
    Saakshi Singh Day ago

    hey! im saakshi and I'm kind of jealous of you... why? you ask. well here's a thing my school is a little different and thinking of people too and it has its own benefits like in my school you can never be bullied well you can be teased a bit but that will also never turn into heartbreaking kind of scene and I can say that with 100% assurance.why you ask I can be so assured? well in my country only 10% of people can speak English and still my country is ranked 2nd place of having the most English speakers you might think how is it possible well my country is also ranked 2nd place in most populated countries. and my country is socially a little backward for example till the year 2006 or 07 touch screen cell phones were still a luxury but now every one almost every middle-class families adults have touch screen cell phones and I kind of feel like this is a lot to say and this will be like an essay if I say everything I want to so I'll say just a few points.... in my school we are not allowed to take cell phones with us.or any electronic device, not even electric watch
    whoever can speak fluent English is considered superior in class or cool
    and guys talk all dirty and double meaning and so whoever is talking that way is let into their group and honestly, it's better to hang out with boys than girls because hear all girls talk about is height weight studies and something like how to grow your nails fast or something
    and dating is not allowed in schools of my country
    most of the times dating for a girl is never allowed by her parents or having a personal phone until she is in college
    and if you are a girl your mother buy clothes for you until at least you are 15 I'm 14 and I'm in 9th grade
    and I have been a tomboy for a while but I was forced by the society to change and now I'm girly but I feel uncomfortable but I look girly and have a mindset of a tomboy so my bonding with guys is great and I'm like a prize so yeah I have dated plenty I have even dated girls but in my country homosexuals are not allowed to get married or at least it was like this till last year ln 2018 this rule changed but is not yet accepted by the society and since I have dated guys and girls both what is my sexual preference you ask? well i don't know and I feel like it is going to be like this for the rest of my life cause I feel like having feelings for someone should not be just (my mother tongue is not English so I kind of can't remember what word should be used hear sorry if you know do tell me)to gender

  • Olaniyi Subomi
    Olaniyi Subomi Day ago

    thanks for this video, I have hope😁 and I also wish to find the one soon😂

  • Eugeneisfunno Roblox

    I am a tomboy only a little

  • AJ unknown
    AJ unknown Day ago

    Im a tomboy too and im attached to BOYS people think im gay. And no boys wanna date me:(

  • Akira Yamatoga
    Akira Yamatoga Day ago

    I was a Tomboy... But I have changed.

  • Zaydon Grantling

    You're gay 😂😂

  • FaZeQuickscope654

    What’s the plaster for?

  • Alpha Fox
    Alpha Fox Day ago

    I feel your pain

  • koro kitosama
    koro kitosama Day ago

    There is not such a thing as tomboy

  • LunaMoon101
    LunaMoon101 Day ago

    Girl: “ WAHHHHH JACOB BROKE UP” Me “who the heck is Jacob” Girl “...” Me “ oh so you never had a boyfriend” Girl “SHUT UP” Me “ Gurl chill”

  • Catherine Saahene
    Catherine Saahene 2 days ago

    This is the same situation I am in.

  • the killers animations

    Alguien más que quieren que lo traduzcan al español :'(

  • Denskuu
    Denskuu 2 days ago

    I’m a little of tomboy bc I hate girls clothes and I act Like boys but I’m not that much Hanging out with guys

  • Sanii's World
    Sanii's World 2 days ago

    I know how you feel I'm a girl and every body think I can't play basketball but in school this boy was talking all this smack that it was going to be easy to beat me but guess what I made the winning shot for my team and he was salty🤣🤣😂😂🤐🤐🤐😖😖😖👻👶

  • Kamya Pandey
    Kamya Pandey 2 days ago

    After watching this story I felt that I am narrating my own story

  • Chloe Tan
    Chloe Tan 2 days ago

    I am a tomboy to

  • christine tree
    christine tree 2 days ago

    It looks like i'm more friends with the boys than I am with the girls😂😂😂 and yes I'm a girl who's a tom boy to and I just find some of the boys a little more easier to listen and talk to than the girls they just leave you out most of the time when they talk. So I see what your saying and yes I like action things to and I sometimes drink out of a jug of juice and even talk like a guy and dressing up like a tom boy and yes it's more coffterable that way. I just do it because I like it and not because I try to fit in and it looks like i made friends with one of the guys yesterday and one said I could join in with them at anytime I want.

  • emmaxjonas
    emmaxjonas 2 days ago

    i cant even see myself as a tomboy

  • DamianTheBlueDiamond

    Wow who WONT date a time boy I’ll date one !!!!!

  • theday dreamer
    theday dreamer 2 days ago

    Same as you different as me.

  • Esse Kaftanski
    Esse Kaftanski 2 days ago

    OMG Thai girl is basically me
    I’m a Tom boy
    Everyone hates me
    My middle name is Josephine
    I have that hair
    And I have opinions on life just like her

    YA BOI RONALDO 2 days ago


  • shadow wolf
    shadow wolf 2 days ago

    Oml why is it when I like someone,no one likes me
    But when I don't like anyone, many people like me

  • Trinidy Lewis
    Trinidy Lewis 3 days ago

    No one want to date me bc I'm a tomboy to so I can relate

  • Trish Johnson
    Trish Johnson 3 days ago +1

    This is my life I'm a major tomboy too

  • Robby’s Wife
    Robby’s Wife 3 days ago

    I am a tomboy too but this dumb society forced me to be more feminine and that’s how boys started to be more interested in me...
    but one day will I ever be accepted for being myself? PLEASE LOVE SOMEONE FOR WHO THEY ARE AND NOT ONLY FOR HOW THEY LOOK

  • Katie Carroll
    Katie Carroll 3 days ago

    I'm a Tom boy to

  • Redstone Craft HD
    Redstone Craft HD 3 days ago

    I actually confused when she say "because i am a tomboy they think I am gay " wow I am very confused

  • Memphis-Rayne McCarthy

    Your not alone I’m a huge tomboy like my room is never clean I play sports with the boys at lunch in school I love video games but my favourite animal/mythical is a mermaid 🧜‍♀️

  • Roblox Gal
    Roblox Gal 3 days ago

    Friend: What word would you describe yourself with?

    Me: Ugly

    Friend: *Ohh no you’re so pretty*
    My thoughts: Well she asked for it

  • Turbo Racer101
    Turbo Racer101 3 days ago

    Don't be so hard on yourself. I'm single but am proud of it. Why because i've come to realize being single is actually the best thing due to the fact you have your own freedom to do whatever you want without someone else holding you back and i'm a guy btw.

  • Reign 027
    Reign 027 3 days ago +2

    I looooove LGBT even if I'm not one of them cause I have a lot of bi, gay, lesbi, trans and I love them so much

  • Flutter Yuuki
    Flutter Yuuki 3 days ago

    Nobody don't want to date me period.

  • Tovah Driggs
    Tovah Driggs 3 days ago

    I had the same problem growing up..sad sad day

  • Manahil Surhio
    Manahil Surhio 4 days ago +1

    I'm single and I'm proud of it.

  • A.B 129
    A.B 129 4 days ago +2

    i only have like 3 female friends.
    when i dress formally i wear male clothing, also casually.
    oh and btw ladies, if you dress like i do, wear womens fit sweatpants lmao, they are more comfortable.

  • [Icy] Cyau
    [Icy] Cyau 4 days ago

    Meanwhile im an *_Epic_* Gamer and also a huge nerd and don't need a romantic life (not right now)

  • Nicha Neo
    Nicha Neo 4 days ago

    There is someone who will like you for who you are not for what you are supposed to represent...”
    This is so relatable.

  • Nerd Bird Sami
    Nerd Bird Sami 4 days ago

    You know, I was also a tomboy when I was younger in elementary and middle school, and I sorta still am. But no one knows that I like the color pink, or that I like to mess around with my mom's make up, or that I like pretty blouses (not really dresses) sometimes.

  • Cardio,s Vlogs
    Cardio,s Vlogs 4 days ago

    Ik it’s okay to be a tomboy but don’t be too much like a tomboy bc as soon as u get older u hav to stop and be more like a girl

  • Cardio,s Vlogs
    Cardio,s Vlogs 4 days ago

    I’m girly but I like to play games on my computer

  • love kittens
    love kittens 4 days ago

    I am bi

  • turbokid991
    turbokid991 4 days ago

    Well? What happened next? Are you guys still together? Are you engaged or married? Normally, I get queasy at love stories, but I liked this one.

  • Crazy_science _101
    Crazy_science _101 4 days ago


  • Jojo Bimo
    Jojo Bimo 5 days ago

    My name is Josephine Too!!

  • Aileen Bordelon
    Aileen Bordelon 5 days ago

    What up with the bandaid on her face?

  • Gabrielle Anderson
    Gabrielle Anderson 5 days ago

    I’am not a tomboy or a girly girl and I don’t hate on tomboys but I don’t like gays please no hate don’t like dose NOT mean hate so yeah no hate on me please

  • QuackSquack
    QuackSquack 5 days ago

    Her: ”I’m a tomboy and nobody wants to date me”
    Me: ”I’m a nigga with good friends”

  • Its Sean
    Its Sean 5 days ago +1

    This video makes me want to play with paper swords with my friends

  • SammyPandy Geometry Dash

    Really boi? I have crush in a tomboy and still not regret lol

  • Damian Martinez
    Damian Martinez 5 days ago

    I'm happy it work out for you. I linda have a similar problem. I like girls. But like natural girls who dont wear make-up and wear hoodies but girls like that dont really exist anymore. And if they do im not they're type.

  • Jeylah Russell
    Jeylah Russell 5 days ago

    Every single thing you just said I go through all the time but I’m still single

  • Cool Lappilap
    Cool Lappilap 5 days ago

    I am also a tomboy and little bit Girly

  • ruby loves candy
    ruby loves candy 5 days ago


  • Joana Durão
    Joana Durão 5 days ago

    I'm a tomboy, and I've been like this since ever! I would hang out with guys all the time since kindergarten! My dad used me to take and 2 of my buddies (at the time) to skatparks and all! I would literally go to one of my buddies house and we would have nerf wars on his bedroom and on his pool and those times were the best of my whole life! I even had a crush on him but I'm sure he didn't notice anything 😂🤷
    At that time I already would wear my tomboy clothes: big t-shirts, pants down the but (because it was trendy), sweatshirts and my sneakers as always.
    But obviously it wasn't always like that. My mom always wanted to dress me as a girl. She knew that I didn't liked girly things, and thank God she's comprehensive 😅, but always tried to put me in a more girly outfit. But the years passed and she understood that I would not be girly like she wanted.
    I'm 20 years old now and I don't have a job so when I need or want to buy something I'll just go somewhere with my mom and even now she doesn't let me buy some types of clothing from the boys section! It's pretty annoying because sometimes she can convince me so easily to not buy it or to buy something that SHE likes. It's pretty irritating but I know that she tries hard on giving up on things that I don't like. I get it, it's hard for parents watching us being/acting or even dressing in a way that they didn't expected or "wanted".
    Imagine how hard I had to convince my mom to let me side shave my hair 😂😂😂 pretty hard to convince her in the first time but now she's getting a bit more used to this idea 😅 actually my stepfather says that I look bad like this, same people agree with him, but I LOVE IT!!!!!
    This is me and I won't change a thing!
    As I like to say: Be weird and different because being normal it's way too trendy!

  • Elle Meekis
    Elle Meekis 5 days ago

    I'm also a tomboy and i have friends that are moatly girls cause me and all my friends that are girls are tomboys and i only have a little bit of guy friends bur i'm ok with that be yourself and be happy 😊

  • No Name Nemo
    No Name Nemo 5 days ago

    My name is josephine too, I like being called jo by close friends and family and i feel the same as her, boys are easier for me to understand than boys, but I have found a boyfriend who loves how I act it’s just the person

  • Chantlir McCorvy
    Chantlir McCorvy 6 days ago

    I guess you could say I’m a tomgirl I hang out with girls but also a lot of guys sometimes I dress girly and sometimes I just wear jeans and a t shirt

  • Kirk Mcclelland
    Kirk Mcclelland 6 days ago

    I'm pretty much a type of both
    Whenever there's like a disco at school or a party I'll want to wear a tracksuit but I always end up wearing a dress
    I prefer video games instead of stuff like dolls and makeup and you know that stuff and I just think it's unfair
    Sometimes a make my hair come down over my forehead to make me look like a boy lol

  • Kawaii squishy Kids
    Kawaii squishy Kids 6 days ago

    I am sassy and no one wants to date meh

  • Itz_Annie_YT XD
    Itz_Annie_YT XD 6 days ago

    I’m a tomboy

  • ItzKitten_ChanOwO
    ItzKitten_ChanOwO 6 days ago

    I'm ig a tomboy but I don't think I look like one

  • In finite
    In finite 6 days ago

    Btw. Tomboy is NOT the same as transgender. People often crew that up. Even the person who made this

  • Saanvi Trivedi
    Saanvi Trivedi 6 days ago

    trans- i think

  • saiyan 4414
    saiyan 4414 6 days ago

    I am legally blind, and I’m sorry. Don’t blame yourself.

  • kenneth pereira
    kenneth pereira 6 days ago

    So she is a filipino because tomboy in english means lesbian

  • ChingChongChing DokiDoki

    Hey it's actually a really good thing your a tomboy some boys like me are worried that girls that are super feminine are gonna except us boys to give up all our boy hobby things up like gaming just for them, they don't realize but that just because your dating them doesn't mean we have to give up other things we love just because you don't approve of them. I am hoping to get a tomboy girlfriend one day because then she can at least know and share together how much we cherish our video games xD

  • CyanFlake
    CyanFlake 6 days ago

    well atleast your friends didn't think you had a dick for some time

  • Clemence TCH
    Clemence TCH 6 days ago

    I have the exact same problem, see my profile picture? Im actually a girl. And im entering 6th grade soon and at my school thats when kids start you know, being together. I won’t be able to though.

  • Mai Bucog
    Mai Bucog 6 days ago

    I'm kinda like you I'm tomboy I don't even like wearing PINK SHOES!? But I haven't been like heartbroken or something.But most of my friends wear like BRIGHT colors I mean I don't mind it they are who they are and their are my friends but I'm just not like that but I actually have a crush but I AM NOT telling you guys the name because my friends know my account and they will know who it is 😅.

    XCELGAMING 494 6 days ago +1

    I would date you

  • Baywolf
    Baywolf 6 days ago

    I mean do u know anyone who isn’t proud of being on tomboy? I mean I am and I’m proud but ya know what my prob is? WHEN IM WITH MY BUDS MY FRIENDS R ALWAYS THINKING IM ONE OF THEIR GIRLFRIENDS OR SOMETHING. I’m like bro I like someone else and they also think I’m bi or trans or gay like the other day I was doing a competition for a club at school and I met some new peeps with my friend and they were like oh I thought u were gay or bi or trans and then me and my friend were talking and she (yeah I have some pals who r girls but most r dudes) and she was like you should wear less jeans I’m like heck to the no lol but yeah there’s a lot more probs then the ones I just listed lol

  • Inuit68
    Inuit68 6 days ago

    Bro how did chew get your hair like that luv it😻😻😻😻😻

  • Eleanor Chaffee
    Eleanor Chaffee 6 days ago

    Can relate, although I'm lesbian.

  • Samantha Castro Abarca

    I am a tomboy but idc what people think.

  • Melina Mendoza
    Melina Mendoza 6 days ago

    I’m half tomboy half girly girl so...

  • Audrey Denton
    Audrey Denton 7 days ago

    Im a tomboy and im cash money. I'm sorta popular. I and i love that life style.

  • Grace Tanega
    Grace Tanega 7 days ago

    I’m both👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

  • Levi Brousseau
    Levi Brousseau 7 days ago +1

    I am not "that way". But I have dated a tomboy. We broke up because of my anger issues. And she was shocked and worried about my ADHD, bipolar, OCD, Asperger's, and others. I am not up for sharing.

    • CyanFlake
      CyanFlake 6 days ago

      holy fuck thats alot of anger issues..

    • Levi Brousseau
      Levi Brousseau 7 days ago

      I am not a person that will go up and talk about things.

  • ⱣħøŧøNɇǥɨŧɨvɇ

    i"m a tomboy furry and i feel the same

  • Coolio YT
    Coolio YT 7 days ago

    So relatable
    *no one wants to date me*

  • Erica in America
    Erica in America 7 days ago

    JOESEPHINA: there will always be someone who will like you for who you are.
    ME: So why am i still lonely... :((

  • yazzy Lowman
    yazzy Lowman 7 days ago

    +Kendall playz me to and I don't have a boyfriend

  • Tory Sharp
    Tory Sharp 7 days ago

    I've always been more of a tomboy. I have kinda the same story at the start but its not the same. in grade 5, i was really tomboy....y. I only wore jeans, hoodies, if it didnt cover my butt fully, it didn't fit me. I've always played on the boys lacrosse and hockey teams and i love rock music. The girls at my school realized this and in to middle school, my "friends" joined girly girl cliques, the guys I were friends with, well, the first day of middle school i was walking home with my best guy friend and some other guys, some i knew and some i didn't, were walking as well. I was being made fun of and left out at the same time and when i reminded my friend I was going to his house, all the boys made jokes saying things like " ooh you guys like eachother " and stuff like that. it made is both really uncomfortable as we both knew we were just friends. From taht day on, he never talked to me. I'm now in grade seven and he still doesn't. so really, throughout middle school i haven't has any good friends. I'm still trying to find a good friend and I have a few kinda friends but i have yet to find someone taht I understand, that understands me, that i can talk to without feeling like i can't talk about things i really like like rock music, lacrosse ect. This year, i've been a lot girlyer and at one point, i almost turned " basic " trying to find friends. At thsi point, i've kinda given up. I just know to keep my grades up and do waht i want to do without trying to impress some "friends". Well yeah that was long

  • Ava :D
    Ava :D 7 days ago

    Bruh, no girl is entirely girly lmao

  • G.S.L.V craft p.c
    G.S.L.V craft p.c 7 days ago +1

    I was both a tom boy and girly girl in my life and in 2019 im a tom boy i have been seens 2016 it great but im a younggirl who will be a fight dont love me for me peace out gopd bye but i no some many ppl supot this

    • G.S.L.V craft p.c
      G.S.L.V craft p.c 7 days ago +1

      Bye the way the gopd its good i just spelled it wrong

  • Ocean Blue
    Ocean Blue 7 days ago

    On Friday I was out with my friends and when we were walking by subway and I heard this boy say "Tomboys make me fucking sick". Like fuck you dude you're not even cute *and* you have that attitude? I know I'm a lesbian so my opinion doesn't matter but even my straight girl friends we're disgusted like nigga I'mma date the tomboy who you don't want fuck you!

  • Amy Kouyate
    Amy Kouyate 7 days ago

    Am a tomboy to so i relate

  • GraceTheInkling
    GraceTheInkling 7 days ago

    I'm a tomboy too

  • Abdullahi Shire
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  • Ayah Boufarsi
    Ayah Boufarsi 7 days ago

    I'm a tomboy too....I can relate....every time I approach a guy they think of me like a bro nothing else😔