I'm A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

  • Published on Dec 1, 2018
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    This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.
    Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.
    Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.
    Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.
    It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.
    One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.
    Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what - he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!
    This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.
    One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was - that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her - she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.
    Music by Epidemic Sound: www.epidemicsound.com
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    ACTUALLY HAPPENED  4 months ago +2284

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    • shadow sniper
      shadow sniper 12 days ago

      Im have never hear a story so much like my story

    • Mounib Abbas
      Mounib Abbas 20 days ago

      Wait wtf is this?

    • Randomness Gamer
      Randomness Gamer Month ago +1

      These titles keep cracking me up

    • Venom The Monsterful SOUL
      Venom The Monsterful SOUL Month ago

      Joe everyone loves you for who you are. You sound somewhat like me. I like singing and drawing but guys AND girls kept judging me for liking stuff like that dont ever back down your that bright spirit that never stops shining. God loves you too!
      If you wanna buddy buddy with me check my channel out joe! I want to fix the corrupted and you can join my clan! Actually happened pls show joe this pls pls pls!!!

  • Soraya Campos
    Soraya Campos 8 hours ago

    bros before hors

  • Billy Hepting
    Billy Hepting 9 hours ago +1


  • Billy Hepting
    Billy Hepting 9 hours ago +1

    Me to all the girls or mad

  • Wisdom Got Something
    Wisdom Got Something 11 hours ago

    She was acting to desperate....

  • All things To do
    All things To do 12 hours ago

    Be lesbian

  • m00n b00tz
    m00n b00tz 18 hours ago

    "i'm against gender stereotypes"
    "i don't like all those *GIRLY* things"

  • Roxy_playz708
    Roxy_playz708 19 hours ago

    I had 1 friend I'm ugly nobody loves Les me

  • Sharleise Rebecca
    Sharleise Rebecca 22 hours ago

    I literally only have two real friends anyway, and both of them never really hang out with me, so she’s done better than me with her social life 😂

  • Shiki
    Shiki Day ago

    thanks girl for this amazing story....this means so much for me...since...i have this problem....Im a very feminine girl...but my body is small and not sexy and attractive....my face is just the cute average level....but when I was a teenage girl(im 21 now)...some of the boys that I liked dont like me back because they tend to see me as a little girl or as a little sister....but I do admit that some guys like me because os my small body that they find it cute...but most guys dont....but I sometimes like my small body and sometimes im not because of that problem! I want to be a sexy lady....so I kept on believing that maybe one day I can marry with someone that is really love me for who I am.....anyone else with the same problem here?

  • Don Matthews
    Don Matthews Day ago

    I'm a tomboy! And lesbian😁😁😁

  • Galaxy 30
    Galaxy 30 Day ago

    I don't like girl stuff I've always been attractide to boy stuff even though I'm a girl but my mom doesn't accept that she makes me wear dresses buy dolls put on makeup look girlish. She doesn't know how much I'm suffuring I just want to be myself for once but I feel trapped I'm 11 years old I need help i never really understood how girls felt when they talked about girl stuff like today at school I wached the boys playing basketball and I wanted to play so badly

  • Anna Mccoy
    Anna Mccoy Day ago +1

    I was lonely until age 15. Then I met my best guy friend. And I became a tomboy.

  • Billie Schulz
    Billie Schulz Day ago

    Me to

  • Rizkie Arthasari

    Well I'm a tomboy to 🕶🕶🕶🕶🕶🕶🕶🕶

  • Art_Bxch
    Art_Bxch Day ago

    Im not a tomboy or a girly girl

    Im a potato

  • SpidermonkeyMC
    SpidermonkeyMC 2 days ago

    As long as you ain’t gay or trans you good mate

  • pikachu lover
    pikachu lover 2 days ago

    I'm a tomboy too and yes there is a lot of problems for that

  • The potato destroyer girl

    U can date buddy’s I have a crush one of my male friends

  • Haughty Gamer
    Haughty Gamer 2 days ago

    I relate to this soooo much, but like I have more girl friends than boy friends

  • Siramad Backwards
    Siramad Backwards 2 days ago

    I did all these things. I'm more girly now but I'm different not afraid to which it up. People shocked that I'm bi because I married a man.

  • viktoriá szörös
    viktoriá szörös 2 days ago

    I'm a tomboy all my friends are boy's and I love i🙂

  • PeachyS
    PeachyS 2 days ago

    I’m neither a tomboy or girly girl. I like pink but I’m no princess.

  • Easter Janzz
    Easter Janzz 2 days ago

    I'm a tom boy but it doesn't mean I'm gay or lesbian. Its that I love to be Tom and I love to dress up as boy. Well sometimes my girly girl (Friends) needs my accompany when they're alone and afraid😂 . Damn I feel like a real boy protecting my girly girl friends😎

  • Easter Janzz
    Easter Janzz 2 days ago +1

    I'm a Tom Boy too , i love to play football, Crickets and guns😎👊

  • the duck girl
    the duck girl 3 days ago +1

    i have the exact sa,e thing with me buttttt im 9

  • Rapha el
    Rapha el 3 days ago +1

    Why understand woman if there is a woman that understands man?

  • Maria Isabelle Ubas
    Maria Isabelle Ubas 3 days ago

    I live in filipins and I know what that is

  • Chill Doggo
    Chill Doggo 3 days ago

    Bro code says no bro shall date another bro

  • Divine Nieves
    Divine Nieves 3 days ago +1

    Im a tomboy too i got a boyfriend but we broke up the day before my birthday i was very disappointed. Now my ex bullies me at school and my birthday is the saddest day of my life 😢😭

    • Easter Janzz
      Easter Janzz 2 days ago

      Don't be sad😲😣 Be strong enough😎👊

  • Spongebob Squarepants
    Spongebob Squarepants 3 days ago +1

    When i moved to my new school everyone thought i was a boy.....

    Im a tom boy to ... lol same everyone thinks im gay!!!! We got to much in common

  • Monkey cookie Butt da unicorn

    Yes I can relate because I basically went to the same thing 😕😔😢

  • grace
    grace 3 days ago

    Then be gay

  • Abigail Richardson
    Abigail Richardson 3 days ago

    I loved this video and this video had a great moral behind it

  • African Fellow 2.0
    African Fellow 2.0 3 days ago

    Girly clothes? Girly conversations? This video is filled with unnecessary stereotypes

  • Scarlett TS
    Scarlett TS 3 days ago

    Both I'm both

  • •Kenzellacorn•
    •Kenzellacorn• 3 days ago

    Why does she sound like katelyn

  • Oliver Delica
    Oliver Delica 3 days ago

    You're a tomboy and your name is Jo? Sounds like tomboy Josephine "Jo" March from Louisa May Alcott's Little Women

  • SuperMarioToast 64
    SuperMarioToast 64 3 days ago

    So you're transgender I don't get it now WTF?? (°>°)

  • lucy and james and ben play roblox

    I'm a human being and no one wants to date me

  • chicken is rosting
    chicken is rosting 4 days ago

    I can ReLaTe

  • XXShadowCatXX Lee
    XXShadowCatXX Lee 4 days ago

    I’m a TomCat!

  • Cristalina E Seus Amigos!

    I am a tomboy too!

  • MonkeyBoy
    MonkeyBoy 4 days ago +1

    A tomboy named Jo. Reminds me of The Facts of Life.

  • Sienna Beckwith
    Sienna Beckwith 4 days ago

    Most of my friends are boys because the girls in my school are REALLY b****y and mean. I usually wear clothes that girls and boys can wear, cause they are way more comfortable. I do have a boyfriend tho and he respects that I am partly tomboy (I guess) and that I talk to other boys, he isn’t controlling either!!

  • Fabiola Pagan
    Fabiola Pagan 4 days ago +2

    iam also a tomboy but my parents force me to be a girly girl and iam to thick so soo many boys look at me

  • Mira May
    Mira May 4 days ago

    I'm a girl but I'm neither girly or tomboy. I can go out with caps, jeans and t-shirts and also can wear make up, heals and those girly things. I can talk about sports and those things boys like and I can talk about gossips with my friend. Idk if it's weird or sth but I've never saw anyone like myself

  • Joaquim Silva
    Joaquim Silva 5 days ago +1

    Hello im a tomboy but i still dress like a girl for some reason i just like playing with the boys but i have girl friends too

  • Valerya Mann
    Valerya Mann 5 days ago

    Just date chips chips never reject you

  • Paul S
    Paul S 5 days ago

    Amy McGrath was a Tomboy, she became the first female marine fighter pilot to see combat. Remember that.

  • Winchester INC.
    Winchester INC. 5 days ago +1

    I’m a tomboy to

  • Ellie
    Ellie 5 days ago

    Yeah no she's gay

  • jorden cleere
    jorden cleere 5 days ago

    this is how i feel

  • Carla Cooper
    Carla Cooper 5 days ago +1

    I'm a tomboy too and nobody knew wat a TOMBOY is@@

    • The Jokerz
      The Jokerz 5 days ago

      Same people in my school thought that was another term for transgender

  • Rajdini
    Rajdini 5 days ago

    I cried at the end UGGGHHHH

  • Nancy Yassin
    Nancy Yassin 5 days ago +1

    I relate it’s so annoying when you talk to boys and the girls think ur betraying them

  • Am Amanda
    Am Amanda 5 days ago +2

    I'm both
    Sometimes I'm a girly girl
    N Sometimes I'm a tomboy😘

  • U U
    U U 5 days ago

    I am a tomboy

  • AlinaPlayz_Chan
    AlinaPlayz_Chan 5 days ago +2

    Im both a girly girl and a tomboy cuz i love skirts and dresses but also wanna fell comfortable 😊
    *likes her own comment* ;~;

  • Scrubz Dude
    Scrubz Dude 5 days ago +1


  • poppy purnell
    poppy purnell 5 days ago

    her hair style is like mine

  • Belle Evans
    Belle Evans 6 days ago +1

    I'm tomboy and Gothic

  • J
    J 6 days ago +1

    Reality is once they break up it’s going to be even harder for her🤔

  • Riana Phillips
    Riana Phillips 6 days ago +1

    I know what you feel like I'm a tomboy as well for a long time my mom wanted me to wear dresses and then she stopped caring about me wearing dresses or me getting up all pretty and I like being a tomboy little so I know what you feel like so yeah

  • Dick Humper
    Dick Humper 6 days ago

    Tomboys have been very attractive to me, but every single one of them I've date was either bisexual or straight out lesbians. Even those who identified as bisexual were feminists primarily attracted to other women but would foray into the world of male dating for money, transportation, a beard, etc. Once you red pill out of this nonsense, it becomes much healthier to just work on yourself as a man who cares about himself, and then let women who are genuinely interested in you come to you. Of course, I'm still holding out for straight enough tomboy to be that person, but time will tell.

  • Josephene Reyes
    Josephene Reyes 6 days ago

    l'm 8

  • Josephene Reyes
    Josephene Reyes 6 days ago

    My name is Josephine too

  • KKfoxzKK Studios
    KKfoxzKK Studios 6 days ago

    Imma tomboy and I’m bi but I have a boyfriend and I love him 😍 very much, but I still think a lot about if a girl likes me, will I like them back? I mean I currently have a crush on my very good friend Tori but she had to move! But every time I’m with her I start flirting and she does it back, and she is also bi and we both know that we like each other but she moved so what’s the point, also I have a boyfriend that loves me and I love him! What the fuuucc am I supposed to do?

  • Camila B
    Camila B 6 days ago +1

    People don’t have to like u

  • NachoDoesStuff
    NachoDoesStuff 6 days ago


  • Kamilla Bauter
    Kamilla Bauter 6 days ago

    I can realate but boys I don’t like like me and I have mostly guy friends they are really nice to me

  • hannah e
    hannah e 6 days ago

    I'm the same as you apart from that I am actually gay and everyone hates me because of it

  • makaila Stevenson
    makaila Stevenson 6 days ago

    I'm a Tom boy too

  • Cruz Castonguay
    Cruz Castonguay 6 days ago

    See I have a couple girl friends well a girl as a friend and their awesome so if your a girl and act like a Tom boy you go keep doing what your doing

  • White Gold Gacha
    White Gold Gacha 6 days ago +1

    I like girls.. 🌈 🏳️‍🌈
    And I accepted this.
    My mom also accepted that.
    I'm happy.
    PS. Super film.🥆

  • Areeba Khan
    Areeba Khan 6 days ago

    that's just like my story

  • Ms. Saturday Knight
    Ms. Saturday Knight 6 days ago

    " I'm not like other girls "
    Just kidding. Nice video.

  • ananya shrestha
    ananya shrestha 6 days ago

    i am also tomboy

  • potato gacha
    potato gacha 6 days ago

    Ima tomboy toooo :3

  • Mert Ertan
    Mert Ertan 6 days ago

    Türkçe ye erkek Fatma dire çevirmek... ne bilim

  • NT786
    NT786 7 days ago +1

    I am an Alien and Im Proud of It

  • cas bae
    cas bae 7 days ago

    i'm a girl and i really respect LGBT, but then my boybestfriends tells me are you a boy? your good to it but i said i'm bi only, but i respect LGBT☺

  • Mac and Cheese
    Mac and Cheese 7 days ago

    I'm a tomboy too

  • belinda escobedo
    belinda escobedo 7 days ago +1

    guys like me because I'm a tomboy and you have it easy for your parents mine will never give up (the pictures not me its my moms lol)

  • Tori TGM
    Tori TGM 7 days ago +1

    I’m a tomboy too

  • AceReactor
    AceReactor 7 days ago

    This is bad

  • RhyanTFG
    RhyanTFG 7 days ago

    It’s u so just be u

  • Atiya Percival
    Atiya Percival 7 days ago

    I am both I like doing boys things and dressing like girls and I am into boyz

  • Annoying dog
    Annoying dog 7 days ago


  • Bahman Awarhman
    Bahman Awarhman 7 days ago

    I’m a tomboy too but I’m still 9 years and 7 months so yeah p

  • Sabrina Slime
    Sabrina Slime 7 days ago

    i meant me and Josephine

  • Sabrina Slime
    Sabrina Slime 7 days ago

    i am a tomboy as well and i think we have the same experience

  • Anisa Bananas
    Anisa Bananas 7 days ago

    thats pretty much my story, but i don't look for bf's, boys show intressed in me

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    *I'm 50% girly and 50% tomboy*

  • Andrey Studios
    Andrey Studios 8 days ago

    I am a tomboy and trans and bisexual and I got bullied

  • Aliyah O'Rourke
    Aliyah O'Rourke 8 days ago

    I hate being a tomboy

  • Sue Otness
    Sue Otness 8 days ago

    I am Brooke and I am a tomboy.

    ITS_ CHEZKIE 8 days ago

    Lea lourdes colima

  • Fierygreat Player
    Fierygreat Player 8 days ago +1

    What’s a tomboy