I'm A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

  • Published on Dec 1, 2018
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    This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.
    Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.
    Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.
    Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.
    It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.
    One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.
    Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what - he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!
    This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.
    One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was - that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her - she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.
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  • _yoongibear _
    _yoongibear _ 7 hours ago

    Ya same I’m a tomboy but my mom thought that I was gay i was like hell nah but I always wanted to cut my hair boy because it’s annoying having long hair same goes to the purse I hate them my mom said your a girl and girls are supposed to put them on to put there things in there but I don’t take anything with me but my phone and headphones and I always wanted to skateboard but my parents said it’s only for boys and that I should act like a girl and go shopping and buy cute clothes and I should stop wearing black hoodies and jeans and I hate that!

  • Arctica The Fox
    Arctica The Fox 8 hours ago +1

    I’ve always preferred wearing hoodies and pants not because I’m a tomboy, but because I’m always cold and also since it’s practical. My parents still tell me I need to dress more femininely in the real world and I kind of understand that. Dresses are nice to wear and they look good too, but I prefer to wear that only when attending something fancy or if it’s way too hot and I’m spending most of the day outside. I wear whatever is practical for me XP

  • Gucci fam
    Gucci fam 8 hours ago +1

    I'm not really either, just.... werid

  • Andrea Yordanova
    Andrea Yordanova 8 hours ago

    I am the same ... I dream my parents to understand me...😫😫😫😒😒😒😕😔😓😖

  • Nattakit Boonyaverawat

    I act like a boy but im a girl

  • melinkachu 1
    melinkachu 1 8 hours ago

    This is the most relatable video ever

  • Star Hedgehog
    Star Hedgehog 8 hours ago

    It’s kind of the opposite with me... I’m a feminine girl and I like girls. What more can I say xD I do have a girlfriend now tho, but it has always been very confusing since I’ve never really been attracted to boys, and it wasn’t before maybe a year ago I realised that I wasn’t straight, heh. I identify most as Gynesexual, but I usually just say I’m lesbian bc it’s easier and more people understand it haha

  • Sarah Batey
    Sarah Batey 8 hours ago

    Being a tomboy is awesome, i'm one, but it's hard because having a family who wants to change you, i'm never happy when do that. i want to cut my hair short, i want to play football/soccor, i love being a tomboy. i don't date.
    Jo just be who wanna be

  • Haywire Arts
    Haywire Arts 9 hours ago

    Having a tomboy girlfriend sounds lit asf

  • lit cows
    lit cows 9 hours ago

    So many people have a “I’m not like other girls, I hate pink” phase. I was in the “oh hahah I hate pink so I’m automatically awesome” phase in 3rd or 4th grade. Thank god I grew out of it. Even now I still do traditionally boyish stuff; like going outside, playing video games, calling people ‘bro’ too much, and all that. But now I’m not so annoying about it. I don’t “hate pink”, it’s just a color. I actually have guy and girl friends split 50/50. It’s honestly really dumb that people have a stigma around liking traditionally girly stuff. “Hey they like makeup, shopping, and rom-coms” Cool, good for them. Whether you like makeup or if you like rolling around in the dirt, it doesn’t matter. You aren’t a “tomboy”, you aren’t a “girly girl”, you’re just you.

  • Chloe SFF
    Chloe SFF 9 hours ago

    its ok im a tomboy too. And im friends with everyone but I'm always with the boyssssss.

  • Mohannad Diraneyya
    Mohannad Diraneyya 10 hours ago

    My friends told me that I'm gay because I like tomboys...

  • Janosne Kutasi
    Janosne Kutasi 10 hours ago

    I'm a tomboy and I don't care

  • Chunky boy Bonus
    Chunky boy Bonus 10 hours ago

    I thought some gamer would say GO BACK TO THE KITCHEN

  • DJ_James_YT // James_Vadelz

    What is a tomboy?

  • yoonmin kyutie 방탄
    yoonmin kyutie 방탄 11 hours ago

    I understand you when you say *no one wants to date me* But I don't care if no one want to date me it's fine atleast me and other armys are happy with our *BTS* those boys is our life 💖💖💖

  • Abbie- -lee
    Abbie- -lee 11 hours ago

    Who’s tomboy and who’s girly girl

  • im stew pid im stew pid

    I hate being in big groups i rather be in a group of 5 or below

  • Hara Pere
    Hara Pere 12 hours ago

    I dressed like a guy but a lot of boys had crush on me because of being unique.

  • ‹Lucy_ _Rossy›
    ‹Lucy_ _Rossy› 12 hours ago

    I rather be aesthetic.

  • Shallv 0
    Shallv 0 12 hours ago

    story booth.. Naaaaaah ACTUALLY HAPPNED all caps is way better

  • Phoenix
    Phoenix 12 hours ago

    I can totally relate to her but i still wear jeans and shirts and boy jackets and hate pink

  • Sara Rules
    Sara Rules 12 hours ago

    What’s that thing on her face tho

  • RU_Beauty !
    RU_Beauty ! 12 hours ago +1

    What is that white thing on her face???

  • Edit Lissi
    Edit Lissi 12 hours ago

    Be more girly then?

  • Sam’s World Of Fun
    Sam’s World Of Fun 14 hours ago

    Boy ur cool

  • Clarissa Gafoor
    Clarissa Gafoor 14 hours ago

    This is a weird cartoon, I mean why does she have that white bandaid thingy on her face.

  • Nikhil Stephen
    Nikhil Stephen 14 hours ago

    I'd smash.

  • Alexander Irigoyen
    Alexander Irigoyen 15 hours ago

    I love your story! I personally went through a phase in highschool and early college (still early I guess) when I was allured towards Tomboys. Regardless of "seeming boyish" I was attracted to such girls nonetheless. I'm glad to have finally heard a story like yours. Congrats to you on your journey and finding a relationship! 😊

  • AugustRandomness Ebalaroza

    *_I like hoodies and sweat pants. And comfortable sweaters. Baggy shirts, hoodies, sweaters, those stuff. I even have a shirt from the dude's section. Thought it looked nice. I do wear 'girly' clothes, im just a mix of those 2_*
    *_how does my brain work?_*
    *_50% Women_*
    *_50% Men_*

  • shelagh buchan
    shelagh buchan 15 hours ago

    I am a Tom boy

  • Jeseca Barroga
    Jeseca Barroga 15 hours ago

    It reminds me of amber in fx. She was mistaken as a boy and a lot of people thought she was gay also but she just likes guys clothing and really actually likes boys.

  • Inkling
    Inkling 15 hours ago

    I am gay and a tomboy liked me

  • Runedubber
    Runedubber 15 hours ago

    If this video ain’t me XD it’s such a mood omg lmao

  • Matthew Gomez
    Matthew Gomez 16 hours ago

    4:09 it looks like she's about to get her ass beat.

  • SuaveEmperor Azir
    SuaveEmperor Azir 16 hours ago

    Relatable except the dating part

  • Anthony Delgado
    Anthony Delgado 16 hours ago

    I am a tomboy to

  • Lightning B%lt
    Lightning B%lt 16 hours ago

    I love and relate to this so much. As I've gotten older I've fluctuated my fashion from the boy section to be more feminine now and again, but my actions and the way I talk have always been like a tomboy. I feel so nervous and uncomfortable talking with girls that my tongue becomes dry most of the time, I feel so much more comfortable talking to guys. I too have had the problem with being seen as a girlfriend, I'm 20 now and haven't found the right guy for me, but it warmed my heart to hear such a sweet and relatable story.

  • Bryan Rhodes
    Bryan Rhodes 16 hours ago

    what's the moral of this humble brag?

  • sammie kate era
    sammie kate era 16 hours ago

    Less guys for frys.

  • Susie the kitty
    Susie the kitty 17 hours ago

    It's as if your gay xD

  • reввυy411 B
    reввυy411 B 17 hours ago

    I’m normal

  • ninjaninja ninja
    ninjaninja ninja 17 hours ago

    Single prick

  • Syshe and Symer
    Syshe and Symer 17 hours ago

    Tomboy is a filipino word and lesbeon is english

  • Black Pearl
    Black Pearl 17 hours ago

    Apparently at my school when you were a tomboy you kind of were treated better.... hmm my school truly is one of odd habits

  • Dwight Ignorant slut
    Dwight Ignorant slut 17 hours ago

    I’m a mixture of tomboy and girly girl but the way my personality is it’s more like a guy but with a hint of girl, and y’all better believe Im hella lit

  • Esper
    Esper 18 hours ago

    My opinion is, (no offense)
    If you want to have a boyish attitude, you can, i mean, you can play like a boy, you can work like a boy, but, just don't be transgender..

  • Esper
    Esper 18 hours ago

    You filipino? I am..

  • MEL LY
    MEL LY 18 hours ago +1

    Is she/he filipino?

  • your Hot mom
    your Hot mom 18 hours ago

    Im ugly

  • John Dennis
    John Dennis 18 hours ago

    I'm a tomboy too it's ok I knw how you feel

  • Jessica Freda
    Jessica Freda 18 hours ago

    I can totally relate. I ended up changing myself some but no luck. I finally met the man I am with now. He likes me how I am. It's funny now because my old guy friends said it would have been better to go out with me since we had stuff in common than the girls they chose.

  • Emma Cassady
    Emma Cassady 19 hours ago

    “I’m not like other girls...”

  • izzy beans
    izzy beans 19 hours ago

    Heh I played with barbies..they fought to the death 😈

  • GJ Arollado
    GJ Arollado 19 hours ago

    Its weird hearing the word tomboy and still be a straight girl, since in my country the term "tomboy" just means "gay" if you translate it in tagalog.

  • LlamaSquad-Mary
    LlamaSquad-Mary 19 hours ago

    Im a girl and im also a tomboy so your not the only one and also i dont like wearing a dress and i liked a boy and he likes me the same way i did and my friend think i like a girl because im a TOMBOY.

  • Melissa Rivera
    Melissa Rivera 20 hours ago

    I like skirts.

  • xx Døsexx
    xx Døsexx 20 hours ago +1


  • stary wolf night
    stary wolf night 20 hours ago

    OMG IM A TOM BOY AND MY NAME IS JOSEPHINE But they all call me Josie and I love sports skateboarding drawings dude kind of stuff and I’m bisexual actually sooooo can we be friends?

  • Junior Santiago
    Junior Santiago 20 hours ago

    moral of the story, if nobody wants to date you, don’t focus too much on it, find something more useful to do with your time instead of wasting it, can’t imagine giving up freedom only to hear constant nagging and complaining

  • karina
    karina 20 hours ago

    sad bro!

  • Gems
    Gems 20 hours ago

    I’m also a tomboy but girls and boys talk to me because I’m strange so yeah I’ll shut up now

  • Trevor LeBouef
    Trevor LeBouef 20 hours ago

    I bet I would date

  • Salad Fingers
    Salad Fingers 20 hours ago

    if you're a girl that is still being called a tomboy, pretty much means your hygiene and fashion sense sucks ass, because there are plenty of girls that wear mens clothing and are fine.

  • Abhinav Potluri
    Abhinav Potluri 20 hours ago

    No one wants to date me.... title of my sex tape with my left hand.....😂.....please date me.....@bourbonkidofficial(instagram)

  • Jaden Avery
    Jaden Avery 21 hour ago

    At least she is not being super genders triggers

    • Jaden Avery
      Jaden Avery 21 hour ago

      And I’m sorry cool story tho

  • Valeria Ferrari
    Valeria Ferrari 21 hour ago

    I used to be a tomboy, amd I thought dudes would like me better that way cuz I was more like them and less annoying than "usual girls". I mean I'm still into a lot of the same things, but I let go of myself a bit and found a balance

  • Robert Andrews
    Robert Andrews 21 hour ago

    I’m a black, 280 pound, depressed, man child and I believe everyone here has a better chance than I do

  • ProGamerGirl 187
    ProGamerGirl 187 21 hour ago

    Hi I'm 11 year old girl and I'm a tomboy some of my male buddies know that I'm a tomboy but the gals I told some of them

  • johanna ramirez
    johanna ramirez 21 hour ago

    I’m a tomboy still am and proud of it had a couple bf my last ex love me for me but we didn’t work out but we are still friends.

  • Shaheer Paracha
    Shaheer Paracha 21 hour ago

    This channel is actual cancer

  • King Darius
    King Darius 21 hour ago

    i've dated a transman and a stud before.. best relationships i've ever been in.

  • Wolfy Jam & Foxy Shari
    Wolfy Jam & Foxy Shari 22 hours ago

    Omg this exactly how I feel

  • Mackenzie Jones
    Mackenzie Jones 22 hours ago

    Hmmmmm I am a mix of a girly girl and a tomboy

  • Listen here Bucko
    Listen here Bucko 22 hours ago +1

    Hi, im Jim fuck bitch. im with CNN and i was wondering if I could have you in for an interview.

  • Tina's baby
    Tina's baby 22 hours ago

    This video is really cute!! I loved it!!!

  • Smooth JamJen
    Smooth JamJen 22 hours ago

    YO I HATE IT WHEN GIRLS SAY “boys are so disgusting”.

  • Franco M
    Franco M 22 hours ago

    Look. Finding "Mutual Attraction"" is a horrible dilemma... Ones odds actually diminish with age & diversity, weird, you would think the opposite is true.. 'Attraction' happens often, mostly we are unaware because social norms impede anyone from flirting or even leaving a note. People don't talk to one another either. Afraid to ask each other questions. Like; "Do ya think im sexy..?" lol. Communication is the only hope for our currently broken society. Not loud stinky clubs or dating sites. Beers with neighbors could get the ball rolling.

  • j bad
    j bad 23 hours ago

    lol k

  • Natsuki DDLC
    Natsuki DDLC 23 hours ago

    Yup..thats me as well..... I LOOOVE IT!!!!

  • Saida Musani
    Saida Musani 23 hours ago

    So the second I heard skateboarding and exploring abandoned places I instantly thought
    saM aNd cOlbY ❤️❤️

  • Emo Trash
    Emo Trash 23 hours ago

    Me: i hope she's gay, or bi. she sounds cute!
    Video: 2:34
    Me: i-

  • Sharon Joel Jaison
    Sharon Joel Jaison 23 hours ago

    “No One Wants To Date Me.” True. And it's also true that I found everyone around me to be very shallow, so I just never really tried to put an effort to make people like me.

  • Matcha_ Mochi
    Matcha_ Mochi 23 hours ago +1

    Yep i feel yah girl

  • Chaos Afterlife
    Chaos Afterlife 23 hours ago

    I understand why that hair looks awful get a haircut like Carol from the walking dead that will get you dates.

  • marine poolee
    marine poolee Day ago +1

    Umm is it possibly cuz you're gay or look like a teenage boy?

  • Seren's Gaming, vlogs and more!

    Sometimes I feel like I’m a tomboy because I like to do boy stuff and I hate dolls and pink! I think boyish things are better because it’s kind of fun!😁

  • Heather
    Heather Day ago

    Ooff this hit me so close to home, I hope I can find someone who accepts me as I am too! :D

  • to cute love
    to cute love Day ago

    Wow I think I'm a tomboy......
    But I like dressing like a girl

  • Anime Fox Time Foxy

    Boys are way luckier. They get to have these awesome clothes and look normal when they ride skateboards. Even my closest friend said that "why are you riding a skateboard" I then decided I will throw away my skateboard, although I miss the ho by.

  • Anime Fox Time Foxy

    I'm a tomboy

  • Merran Vlogs
    Merran Vlogs Day ago

    I was a tom boy for a long time and was exactly the same way but when teenage rolled around I though I should fit in and I adapted and started wearing girl clothes and I like it but I still hate jewelry. I went through like the exact same thing until teenage.

  • daisy lamb
    daisy lamb Day ago

    Im the same

  • Grace W
    Grace W Day ago

    I feel the same as you except my family won’t stop nagging about my life choices

  • mias vlogs & toys

    I'm a tomboy and I have a sister and she's a girly

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  • death hunter
    death hunter Day ago

    I'm in the middle some days I wanna be girly and other I just wanna be tomboy me

  • Sienna The Grub’s DIYs And FUN !

    I'm exact same XD