i was so uncomfortable

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  • ConnorFranta
    ConnorFranta  Year ago +1566

    HI SORRY IM LATE! Happy Monday everyone. Hope you enjoy this little chat about the past 3 years and how comfortable I've gotten within them. Things are crazy. Love ya and have a good week x

    • Jacyln Wright
      Jacyln Wright Year ago

      ConnorFranta From the moment I read Note to Self I was hooked. I wanted to see who this Connor Franta was. I didn't know squat about his youtube channel. I just knew he had changed something in the way I viewed my life. At that moment I started forcing myself to be alone and finding things that I liked to do for me. I had lost who I was as a mother, a girlfriend, I had no individuality. So I searched. My family allowed me this time. I now know I love reading, coffee dates, doing puzzles, cross stitching, movies, cats and dancing. I do not like driving in the snow, loud noises, and grocery shopping. I have changed life perspective, began thinking out of the box, got sober, and started to be a more healthy person. It all started with 1 book. I hope 1 day he comes across this a nd realizes his story touches people and encourages them to also become self aware. It takes hard work but it can be done. ❤

    • desiyuna
      desiyuna Year ago

      it's cute how his eyes match his shirt and the bg

    • Abby Taylor
      Abby Taylor Year ago

      Connor, I met you on your tour this year and I never got out pictures. :(

    • Shujana Aurin
      Shujana Aurin Year ago

      ConnorFranta I'm late too 😕😬😬🤧

    • Hixjeremy
      Hixjeremy Year ago


  • Blazeslayer
    Blazeslayer 5 days ago

    Loved that video! :D

  • Steven Zafiris
    Steven Zafiris Month ago

    Its close to a year after this video was made! :)

  • Victor Katsumoto
    Victor Katsumoto Month ago

    I just wish that in 2019 people are more like Connor, who can talk different ideas in a respectful way!

  • Rihards Šteinblūms
    Rihards Šteinblūms 2 months ago

    Connor, you have no idea how your videos are helping me. I am super depressed today, everything is irritating me, I am feeling all kind of emotions and no emotions at the same time. Your videos are really helping me to soothe my mental pain, thank you so much. My depression is getting worse and it's probably because I still haven't come out to my family, especially my mom. Connor, I know you're never going to see this, but if there is the slightest chance, could you please give me some tips on how to come out to my mom, who isn't extremely homophobic, but likes to joke around about gay people.

  • Shon Emery
    Shon Emery 2 months ago

    Hi Connor
    I wish my environment was that nurturing. I’m a shut in and can’t talk to my family about anything.
    Being who I am has locked me in a cave....
    And as for the end of the video - green on green.
    You’re adorable - no need to worry ever about how you look :-)

  • Izzy Parker
    Izzy Parker 3 months ago

    (fuck trump) bahahha yes

  • oscar75722
    oscar75722 4 months ago

    You said what your coming out anniversary is and now I am frustrated cuz I don't know mine UGHH

    • oscar75722
      oscar75722 4 months ago

      Can I go back into the closet so I can know my coming out anniversary?

  • Susan May
    Susan May 5 months ago

    I’m bi so I get all your feelings 100%

  • The O T-R
    The O T-R 5 months ago +1

    Is green your favourite colour?

  • David Reed
    David Reed 5 months ago

    Your eyes are so beautiful! Their hue is accentuated by the sweater and the backdrop... Green is my favourite color, and I think it suits you very well. I know it's been several months since you posted this video, but please consider wearing more of that lovely shade of green. My two favourite things in the world: dark green and a cute boy!! Love love love love love

  • Avalon the trash
    Avalon the trash 7 months ago

    I'm the lgbt go to person in my friend group and my grade. it gets awkward but it's funny and i accept it

  • Ely Salcedo
    Ely Salcedo 7 months ago

    I think many lgbtq people watches your videos!

  • Smiggles Miggles
    Smiggles Miggles 7 months ago

    Where can I get that hoodie 😍😍😍😍

  • Ara James
    Ara James 8 months ago

    So when I came out to my boyfriend back then of me being bisexual I really really appreciate how he took it and how well he made me feel comfortable when it's not something that's accepted in my country.
    But when I came out to my Friend about this I expected an engaging sort of a reaction but hers was very cold. It wasn't in a way where she disregarded me but where she chose to not talk about it.
    And to this date I have met very few people who are willing to talk about it openly (at least in the environment I am prominently in)

  • Yarely Najera
    Yarely Najera 8 months ago

    Your from wisconsin?

  • horsecrazy2266
    horsecrazy2266 8 months ago

    con if we've been following you for any amount of time, we just expect random noises and light changes from outside videos, this isn't new boi

  • xo.lilghostboy
    xo.lilghostboy 9 months ago

    I'm so stressed. I'm a girl, but also agender. Okay wait it's hard to explain. I'm not agender in a way but I am.... in a way. You know? I'm also gay so yeah. I'm closeted as agender, but out (to my friends) as gay. I don't know, my parents are homophobic, so I *know* I won't be accepted. And it's all just really stressing me out bc I know what I am, but I can't be what I am. And people always say "you have plenty of time to figure out yourself!" But I already did. All I want now is to just be myself. I know if I come out as agender to my friends they won't care, it's just my family. And I just want to be myself

  • ben gtg
    ben gtg 9 months ago

    Dead channel hehe

  • Morgan Z
    Morgan Z 9 months ago

    "(Fuck Trump)" YES

  • Singer250
    Singer250 10 months ago

    I go to a Catholic school and a lot of the time the only time a person ever brings up LGBT+ is when boys use it as a joke/insult with each other. I always feel very uncomfortable and upset because some of these guys are my friends and I hate it when people use the word gay as if it is a bad thing. I am bi curious (I like boys, but I think I might also like girls) and I usually leave the situation before I explode and punch someone for being so offensive.

    And no one, even my queer questioning sister, knows that I am bi curious. I don't want to come out unless I know for sure or if I even want to come out when I am sure, because straight people don't come out to their parents, so why should I?

  • Rosa Clardeij
    Rosa Clardeij 10 months ago

    ok but now the chirping distracts me

  • Jamie Crowe
    Jamie Crowe 10 months ago

    “I can be the most tranquil person......and then i hear that noise and i blow up”

  • Maram Stylinson
    Maram Stylinson 11 months ago

    He is so cute

  • Ariel Rechtschaffer
    Ariel Rechtschaffer 11 months ago

    Literally so happy right now for you even saying the word Pan
    Love you so much❤️❤️❤️

  • ransom182
    ransom182 11 months ago

    A group of adults? Aren't you an adult Connor? :P

  • Shelby Rea
    Shelby Rea 11 months ago

    THIS IS ME!!!!! I have been out as bisexual for YEARS and everyone always comes to me for "gay" questions. Or like if people are questioning or are liking the same sex for the first time not knowing they were gay before hand. It's such a good feeling though. Like it makes me so happy

  • Rohini Newar
    Rohini Newar 11 months ago

    if there is one thing i believe in ...it is that connor was born aesthetic !!

  • Wafa Rashid
    Wafa Rashid 11 months ago

    I'm so happy for you, Connor! Love you for who you are. ♥

  • kendall vickers
    kendall vickers 11 months ago

    i've become the go to in my group for most things happening now-a-days. anything from lgbtq+ to what the new tax plan was all about. my friends always ask me about current situations.

  • Leo Wilson
    Leo Wilson 11 months ago

    You're Very Cute Connor,,,,,,

  • Helix Nguyen
    Helix Nguyen Year ago

    could anyone tell me the typeface he used in this video. Thanks

  • Aleismar Rentas
    Aleismar Rentas Year ago +1


  • John Ward
    John Ward Year ago

    Connor is a Mentally ill homosexual.

  • nat
    nat Year ago +1

    i love that you’re wearing green more your eyes look so good when you wear it

  • Kiley Swain
    Kiley Swain Year ago +1

    ive been out for less than a year, but one of my friends/teammates asked me if i could talk to one of her friends that just came out to her. ive never met this girl before but she thought she would benifit if i talked to her because ive experienced coming out and that was just such a full circle moment. like i could use what ive been through to potentially help someone else and thats just so amazing.

  • Jake Power
    Jake Power Year ago

    3 years agoooooo I met youuuu ahhh I miss that 😔❤️

  • Saylor Garcia
    Saylor Garcia Year ago

    omg i remember the day you posted your coming out video! i was at school in seventh grade and like we weren’t allowed to have our phones but i peeked and saw that you posted a video called “coming out” or something like that and we were in theater club so me and my friend like snuck out and went behind the building to watch it and we were crying so bad that like we had to sit for a while and gather ourselves before we went back inside

  • LpsAster
    LpsAster Year ago

    “tell the people you love you love them” love youu connor! take care alwaysss!

  • LpsAster
    LpsAster Year ago

    i am so proud of you! holy shit.

  • Allison
    Allison Year ago

    Your eyes are so green in this video so PRETTY!!!!!!

  • chelsea martinez
    chelsea martinez Year ago

    you are amazing.

  • Ana Márquez
    Ana Márquez Year ago

    You are so attractive

  • Sanjna Kaul
    Sanjna Kaul Year ago

    I definatly get what you mean. I came out less than a year ago and just a couple months after coming out I didn't have barely any doubts before I slipped something lgbtq+ in a convo, or even came out. Before that, I was always wondering how should I come out, who I should come out to, and if I was being annoying about my sexuality. Now, it's honestly the funniest thing ever to me because I have almost no hesitation before making a joke that could out me to someone.

  • Lexi
    Lexi Year ago

    I haven't been able to watch your videos for awhile and coming back to videos like this just make me so happy. I'm glad you're comfortable in who you are. I came out early in 2017 because I had a girlfriend who I cared for very much, though things did not go well between us nor did it go well with my mother I'm happy with myself because of people like you. Honestly thank you for being you, I love you so much. I also love the aesthetic you put in your videos like it's so pleasing😂

  • Chibi book Nerd
    Chibi book Nerd Year ago

    Sorry but Ellen is the go to

  • Jessica Kara
    Jessica Kara Year ago

    This font can be very hard to read for dyslexic people

  • Camille Viala
    Camille Viala Year ago

    how do you make everything so beautiful?

  • TossedSaladAndScrambledEggs

    I only just realized three months ago I was gay. I always listen more than I speak, and often hear my parents using slang terms or insulting the lgbt community, without even really realizing it. I’m hoping that when I come out (yikes that’s a panic-inducing day to think about), I’ll be able to talk about it and educate them as well as you do, Connor. Thanks for the inspiration