i was so uncomfortable

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  • ConnorFranta
    ConnorFranta  8 days ago +1364

    HI SORRY IM LATE! Happy Monday everyone. Hope you enjoy this little chat about the past 3 years and how comfortable I've gotten within them. Things are crazy. Love ya and have a good week x

    • desiyuna
      desiyuna 2 days ago

      it's cute how his eyes match his shirt and the bg

    • Abby Taylor
      Abby Taylor 3 days ago

      Connor, I met you on your tour this year and I never got out pictures. :(

    • Shujana Aurin
      Shujana Aurin 4 days ago

      ConnorFranta I'm late too 😕😬😬🤧

    • jerbearstar
      jerbearstar 5 days ago


    • dre c
      dre c 5 days ago

      Im comfortable talking about mental health illness

  • Ze Ro
    Ze Ro 11 hours ago

    I'm bisexual, but I still have a very hard time accepting it. I feel as though my attraction to both genders will end up getting me on the streets. In such a conservative society, it's so hard to feel comfortable in your coloured skin. Sometimes I wonder if I should undergo hormonal therapy or see a psychiatrist to turn me completely straight.

  • oodlesaidan
    oodlesaidan 11 hours ago


  • Mariah Gunn
    Mariah Gunn 15 hours ago +1

    Love you

  • Becca Hassen
    Becca Hassen 16 hours ago

    Connor ties his hoodie strings like I always do!!

  • Chlo Chlo Bear
    Chlo Chlo Bear 17 hours ago

    Pan things yeah!

  • Valeria Helders
    Valeria Helders 18 hours ago

    I came back to Connor's channel after a little while AND OH MY GOD I STILL FEEL THE SAME AMOUNT OF LOVE TOWARDS IT💖💖💖

  • Don Dale
    Don Dale 20 hours ago

    Yes, it is a wonderful feeling and a beautiful thing being able to be comfortable enough to expose or share your knowledge. It never gets old

  • Pinni Super
    Pinni Super 22 hours ago

    Connor looks like Peter Pan here!

  • Arturo Paredes sánchez

    HOW TO TOP - 2:17 (the right way)

  • Devyani Bisen
    Devyani Bisen Day ago

    lmao fuck trump

  • Caleb Michael Brink

    Connor you are the reason I am more comfortable with myself and my sexuality. You have inspired me in more ways than one and you are part of the reason I'm still in this world and I just have to thank you so much!! I hope you have an amazing Christmas! 🎅💖🎄🌈

  • spiritseer 4463
    spiritseer 4463 Day ago

    My mom while I'm watching this video: Do you hear an irregular beeping noise or is that just me?

  • Lauren Barker
    Lauren Barker Day ago

    Your editing skills are otherworldly cool!

  • Tasmiyah Khatun
    Tasmiyah Khatun Day ago

    5:15 that's so cute 😂

  • Kaitlyn Soucy
    Kaitlyn Soucy Day ago

    Every time I watch a ConnorFranta video it is just really relaxing and mind opening, just really pleasant and nice way to destress

  • Rin Len
    Rin Len 2 days ago

    I fvking crazy 'bout you, you are so lovely. But. I. Still. Don't. Know. Your. Name. Feeling so guilty. So, sweetheart, uhm, what is your name? Is your name ConnorFranta? :vvv So sorry about the stupid question.

  • itschoechoe
    itschoechoe 2 days ago

    almost two years have passed.. i suddenly became curious about connor and decided to check out his channel. it made me glad to see that he was still making videos (aesthetic af videos im not surprised) .. and the fact that he seems so lively and content, it makes me more than happy. i missed his channel, his intros, his outro song, his beautiful smile.. im relieved that it's still all the same after many years. but his videos are so raw and different to how i last remembered them, and i love them even more. you, Connor regained another dedicated viewer. (: i regret not returning sooner, i missed this channel a lot more than i thought i did.

  • emma
    emma 2 days ago

    guru = eskild 😊

  • Mehran Dolatkhah
    Mehran Dolatkhah 3 days ago

    Thank u ... i'm a boy which lives in Iran so i can't really talk about these things even to my close friend and when ever u talk about them without any hesitation i feel like i exist to i have the right to be me and that's because of u

  • Skylar Ray
    Skylar Ray 3 days ago

    Hey! I came out as bisexual two years ago and so much has changed since. I've changed my identity to queer, had my first relationship with a guy, first kiss with a guy, and more. Also, I have been so open about my sexual orientation that so many people from my school and youth group have come out to me first, because I choose to live apologetically me. I am proud to be catholic and queer; I don't worry about gender expression, but just live the way I want to express myself. Thank you so much for all the inspiration and security that you have provided for me and so many others through your authentic content!

  • Antigone V.
    Antigone V. 3 days ago

    Well i was that person who hated her guts, her soul, her body, everything..literally. And now after just one year i have become the person who is completely extraverted and in TOTAL LOVE with herself..so yea i can realate to what you said in a way!!

  • Christoph Hernach
    Christoph Hernach 3 days ago


  • Prisha Jain
    Prisha Jain 3 days ago

    Every single word u said in this video, made complete sense to me
    I can totally relate Connor!!

  • Nelly Camm
    Nelly Camm 3 days ago

    I need him to teach me how to edit videos like this

  • Draws4fun
    Draws4fun 3 days ago

    Read fish in a tree. READ A BOOK

  • Ernesto Rodriguez
    Ernesto Rodriguez 3 days ago

    I love u Connor. Love ur lips and I do love all topics u talk about.

  • Harleys_Chemical_Disco

    This video was beautiful and made me so incredibly happy. All I want for you Connor, is your happiness. I met you on your tour for your second book in Palo Alto, and I left a drawing with a letter on the back for you explaining my life and your part in keeping me alive. I also told you face to face that I struggled with depression, anxiety, and suicide attempts and that you were the reason that I lived past 13 all the way to 17(and counting). You helped me come to terms with my pansexuality and being gender fluid, which let me tell you is quite hard. It was through you that I came to the realization that I was finally, truly happy not too long ago, for the first time in my life. You are my savior Connor, and I will always love you for that. you taught me to be myself, and that it is okay to do so. I am now proudly an emo, punk, tattoo loving, emotional, loved, sarcastic, teenage, pansexual, gender fluid high schooler who will forever be confident in who I am. I am sorry for how scattered this is, but that is just how my brain works. I will forever be thankful that I discovered you online and got the chance to meet my hero in person. I will love you always and hope that one day you will write out for me "you are who you are in this given moment. Label-less. Limitless. Remember that from this day forward" so that I can get it tattooed in your handwriting. Love you xoxox

  • Lily Flower
    Lily Flower 3 days ago

    This year I really started to like my natural face without makeup, so I started going to school with no makeup on and my friends called me a few weeks ago and told me I should change myself to be like them because I hadn't been trying hard enough to look good and that they want to climb the social ladder. Last year I would've bended under their will, thinking something was wrong with me for not wearing makeup, but I told them I wouldn't ear makeup for them because I've changed this year and am finally comfortable how I look no matter how much makeup I wear. It's great :)

  • Harleys_Chemical_Disco

    I'm pan and I'm so happy you mentioned pan on your list because I feel like nobody ever includes pansexuals and I feel so included and happy that one of my favorite people acknowledged my sexuality​ :)

  • Andrés  Cano
    Andrés Cano 3 days ago

    The three hues of green drifted my attention from the content of this video. Now I know why I look up to you so much.

  • Cher Divine
    Cher Divine 3 days ago +1

    I feel soooo relax when i watch Connor's videos 👌 namasté

    LIONNA ROMANS 3 days ago

    i love when you're happy

    LIONNA ROMANS 3 days ago

    connor you look the cutest you've ever been in this video

  • outsideropinions
    outsideropinions 3 days ago

    I’m so proud of how far you have come! Both in LGBTQ+ and in making videos. I hope the same will happen to me💯

  • Ignacio Gallardo
    Ignacio Gallardo 3 days ago

    At the beginning of this year I realized I was the person my friends go to ask for advise on any and every topic. Also, same as you, if they have any doubt or question regarding lgbtq+ stuff (literally anything), they come to me. Although, in their defence, I'm very interested in those topics and I try to educate myself as much as I possibly can, so I understand what you're feeling. It's nice

  • BrassAmber
    BrassAmber 4 days ago

    "By the US government" 😂

  • Jade Hinrich
    Jade Hinrich 4 days ago

    I literally remember getting Connors post notif 3 years ago for his coming out video. I remember crying happy tears while watching it and texting my friends and aaawee fml😂💛

  • dane VEVO
    dane VEVO 4 days ago


  • nandini sharma
    nandini sharma 4 days ago

    You are an absolute King💕

  • Vlada Kaplunova
    Vlada Kaplunova 4 days ago

    i’m so happy for you that you are comfortable with talking about LGBT+ topics! i’m so proud of what you’ve become in the past 3 years, you’re a true icon☺️

  • Vlada Kaplunova
    Vlada Kaplunova 4 days ago

    the little curl in your hair is extremely cute

  • John Chase
    John Chase 4 days ago

    We have the same feeling actually. Cause I came out to myself, 3 years ago and I came out publicly the next year... Then those gay things I really don't wanna talk about, I really have a huge interest about it right now and I encourage my not-officially-come-out friend to know who they are and what they feel and stuff like that.

  • Xavier Gutierrez
    Xavier Gutierrez 4 days ago

    Watching you really makes my day.
    Thank you :-)

    SARANGHAE ARMY 4 days ago

    I love your baby hands, Connor....

  • Abby Durgin
    Abby Durgin 4 days ago

    OK I got really distracted during this video because OH MY GOD YOUR LIPS HAVE A REALLY NICE SHAPE PLEASE START WEARING LIPSTICK

  • Nicholas Tucker
    Nicholas Tucker 4 days ago

    To be honest, you are a representative for the LGBTQ  community in the world. Connor, you have inspired gay (LGBTQ) people, such as myself, to live to our fullest potential. Your name has come up on almost every gay date I've been on. Thank you, Connor, for the positivity you have inspired in our community. 

  • Kika
    Kika 4 days ago

    Honestly, so proud. And happy, it just proves (once again) how much can change in such a short period and that's just amazing. Also, the aesthetic made me melt.

  • Chase Fossen
    Chase Fossen 4 days ago

    Today is the three year anniversary of Connor's coming out and each year I watch the video and cry all night long I think it's my favorite tradition cause I love Connor so much and it just makes me so happy for him

  • Isaac Omenye
    Isaac Omenye 4 days ago

    oh my gosh the same thing has been happening to me

  • Giovanni Cassetta
    Giovanni Cassetta 4 days ago

    Eskild is the only Guru®

    MRS_ STYLINSON 4 days ago

    He knows how to rant well..
    Good Job, Connor!

  • Queen Aysha
    Queen Aysha 5 days ago

    Realizations?? Well I just kinda realized recently that I used to overcomplicate my sexuality because I was afraid of who I was/who I wanted to be, and I still kinda am, but I'm a lot more comfortable now.

  • Queen Aysha
    Queen Aysha 5 days ago

    Happy Coming Out Anniversary!!

  • Queen Aysha
    Queen Aysha 5 days ago

    that sweater is absolutely adorable, and I love the aesthetics of this video

  • Amina Kazi
    Amina Kazi 5 days ago

    The video, the content, the aesthetics are all on POINT! ❤️ How do you get that camera glitch effect though? Its faayahh!! 🙌🏻

  • Yuuki Flyhigh
    Yuuki Flyhigh 5 days ago

    Connor this video has become a top fav of mine now

  • Amzy 1001
    Amzy 1001 5 days ago

    This video should have been called "In just 3 years." XD

  • Amalia Metz
    Amalia Metz 5 days ago +1

    I always talk about LGBTQ+ things being bi

  • Nerina Malasechevarria

    ughhh you make me so happy, AND THIS MAKES ME MAD BECAUSE I WANT TO HUG YOU but thank you, I love you ❤❤

  • Allison Martinez
    Allison Martinez 5 days ago

    Preach💚 Happy to know u feel more confident Connor💗

  • Emily Packard
    Emily Packard 5 days ago

    I feel like he probably spent a lot of time putting little random notes on the screen throughout the video, but they go so fast I can’t even read them, so it was kind of a waste of time😂

  • Sam Miller
    Sam Miller 5 days ago

    Whenever I explain things to people one of the most important things I say is that I don't know or understand everything queer and they don't need to either. However, respect and equality of someone else is not dependent on your's or anyone's understanding of them.

  • NinjaNerd007
    NinjaNerd007 5 days ago

    I wrote my master's thesis on mental health with trans adolescents and now I'm the "transgender expert" that everyone seems to come to with their questions. I love that they come to me and ask me questions because it means they're curious and want to learn. But I *always* say a disclaimer that I am not transgender so I can only speak to what I've heard others talk about and answer the questions *as I understand it* and I cannot speak to personal experience. I also can give them really good resources for more information.

  • Oliver Weir
    Oliver Weir 5 days ago

    You are such an amazing person, it’d be amazing if you could do a meet and greet tour of sorts ~ alsoNew Zealand please >~< your very kind and open and it’s beautiful and inspiring your videos also help me through tough days your very relatable so thank ou Connor 💕☺️

  • Bethy Styles
    Bethy Styles 5 days ago

    Hey guys it would mean a lot if you checked out my music channel:) I have covers and original music! Thanks for the support! I'll help other channels to!

  • charles morris
    charles morris 6 days ago

    Why were you not in the 2017 rewind?

  • Rv Salvatore
    Rv Salvatore 6 days ago

    Connor is getting less views these days whhyyy

  • Jack Uberdo
    Jack Uberdo 6 days ago +1


  • Sia Janjua
    Sia Janjua 6 days ago

    i mean the background is cute and all but the panning in your outro music makes me feel another kind of happy

  • Cameron Astill
    Cameron Astill 6 days ago

    I had a realisation the other day that it's ok for someone to openly state your sexuality

  • OKKaylie
    OKKaylie 6 days ago +1

    Aesthetic 👌🖤

  • ella wishnya
    ella wishnya 6 days ago

    I'm not a part of lgbtq+ community but some my people are and GAWD I LOVE telling others about lgbtq+ things and spread love & awareness. It's not safe to talk about this stuff in my country and in my family (I'm from Russia and I was raised by very
    conservative people hello) but I take every opportunity to do it if I feel it's okay with people I'm talking to. So yeah. Connor, you're my inspiration for so many years and I'm so proud of you. Huge love x

  • Bluenicorn 22
    Bluenicorn 22 6 days ago

    I'm in a similar situation right now. I came out in June 2016 and now I'm the go-to queer person that people in my surrounding talk to about these things. Admittedly, I am working in a group that offers workshops/education programs about this topic in schools so I see why they'd come to me but it's still weird to think that I came out just recently and now I am the person that educates other people in regards to this topic...

  • Shalomeira Valencia
    Shalomeira Valencia 6 days ago

    i just realized that connor has a green sweatshirt on with a green background and his beautiful green eyes all in one video

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  • Victoria Sofia
    Victoria Sofia 6 days ago

    I honestly love you so so much

  • finn delgado
    finn delgado 6 days ago

    so i got a haircut from a new hairstylist and she asked me why i cut my hair so low and i told her i was trans. she asked me if it was ok to ask when i knew i was trans i, of course said yes and explained it to her . idk it felt nice? i’ve never just up and told a complete stranger i’m trans.

  • sara arizmendi
    sara arizmendi 6 days ago

    Hello testing... 1,2,3 what’s going on how do I look? Green on green... I love Connor

  • BookishLish
    BookishLish 6 days ago

    I will never forget your coming outaversary because it’s my birthday! :) I got to come to your book tour this year and I finally read your book when I got to college this fall and it was such a comforting thing to have. Seeing that being an adult doesn’t mean always doing things with friends and being on your own sometimes is okay was so comforting to me since I haven’t quite found my people yet here. Thanks for being such a role model and good person to have to look up to all these years. Congrats on coming out!

  • Emma Woudt
    Emma Woudt 6 days ago

    I was the go to LGBT+ person in my school and I have no idea how that happened

  • Ellie Heiner
    Ellie Heiner 6 days ago

    I am comfortable with hanging out with myself, loving my own different style/fashion, some days I feel like I know myself but still struggle with accepting that I fail and I don't have my life together. But hopefully no one does either haha

  • Zainab Ahmad
    Zainab Ahmad 6 days ago

    I'm not part of the LGBTQ+ community but i would never want to make someone feel bad about it. I'd want to help them and talk about it with them :)

  • ルカ
    ルカ 6 days ago

    His coming out video was one of the last videos I saw from Connor. I always thought he was such a cute boy but .. now he has this hott-ish aura like .. has it gotten hotter in here? 😏😍

  • Joas Radiomann
    Joas Radiomann 6 days ago

    tried a YouTube tool and Connor's tags are life haha
    "Connor Franta ConnorFranta uncomfortable people fun story stories thanksgiving family families mom and dad gay lgbt sexuality disscusion wow interesting crazy youtuber youtubers boy boys girls girl teen teenagers lgbtq topic christmas cute hot funny politics political government holidays idk love loving out of love byeeee"

  • KaylasBeautyBoutique
    KaylasBeautyBoutique 6 days ago +1

    Everyone has the right to discuss what they want to discuss! Love you Connor!

  • Gabriella Pimentel
    Gabriella Pimentel 6 days ago

    I came out to my mom as bi last year and she kind of blew it off as a phase and told me I’m too young to know. I’m terrified to come out as transgender and I don’t think I ever will. They way she treated me after I told her I’m bi was enough to get the message across. My grandparents are very homophobic and I think my parents are as well, but maybe a tiny bit less. The only reason I’m still alive is probably YouTube and the knowledge that in college my parents can’t tell me what I can and can’t do. Stay strong everyone, I’ve heard things get better 💗

  • Anna Yeager
    Anna Yeager 6 days ago

    that low key "fuck trump" tho... :'''D

  • Jess Collins
    Jess Collins 6 days ago

    (fuck trump)

    CHRISSYMAEH 6 days ago

    Connor's curly hair enthusiast

  • Invercy YT
    Invercy YT 6 days ago

    One day I just looked at my best friend and thought "HOLY SHIT IM IN LOVE WITH YOU" and that's how I found out I was bisexual.

  • Tammy Craggs
    Tammy Craggs 6 days ago

    I run a GSA at my school and through this past year I’ve found myself being more in tune towards LGBTQ+ issues or information and my friends around me come to me for questions or help and I really enjoy being their educator because I’m a strong believer in the fact that ignorance stems from a lack of knowledge on the particular topic. So yeah, I like the way it feels to maybe be a part of hindering ignorance.

  • denise
    denise 6 days ago +1

    green eyes, green hoodie and green screen. okay your awesome.

  • Kellie Wambold
    Kellie Wambold 6 days ago

    I'm graduating college in ten days, and for the last three years I've devoted a majority of my time to my college's theatre department. The other week, the afternoon before opening night, all of our printers in the box office stopped responding, and one of professor's first response was to say, "Oh, Kellie's in class! Go grab her!" And so the box office manager found me, hauled me up to the front, and I solved the printer issue. Then I ended up staying an helping a small rush that had developed. And it was just a moment of, "Oh, people trust me to keep things running and I am no okay with that."

  • Hey ImGiulia
    Hey ImGiulia 6 days ago

    How many times did you say “three years “ lmao

  • Molly Peach
    Molly Peach 6 days ago

    Being LGBT+ myself, this video brings a sort of peace and okay-ness to everything which goes on inside me involving LGBT+. It's nice to know that it's possible to be a different and more comfortable person in a matter of time. It's nice to know that it won't always be bad and silent about things I don't want to be silent about.

  • CerealesConManteca
    CerealesConManteca 6 days ago

    Same but with feminism 😁

  • Igor Takashi
    Igor Takashi 6 days ago

    Omfg i just realized i came out the same time con came out woww

  • ann park
    ann park 7 days ago +1

    Wow I just knew that I've been subscribing him for 3 years 😮

  • hodya mor & johnny depp

    And btw green looks so good on you😄😍