How I Learned To Love Myself

  • Published on May 25, 2019
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  • Improvement Pill
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    • poojasarswat pooja
      poojasarswat pooja 2 months ago

      The problem is I just like myself but don't love 😅I don't know why I don't lovemyself... You said talking to people will help but people around me are not interested 😅

    • Shaman Sprout
      Shaman Sprout 2 months ago

      Improvement Pill Dude first and foremost I love what u do of tryna help people out in the struggles of understanding life more in general, but I just want to point something out for this particular video in terms of self love
      , so I might be wrong but what I’m seeing is that your saying by recognizing traits of those u look up to and admire and see in just your ideal person and apply it to self then it would make U love yourself more, I’m not saying that that it’s wrong because on some occasions and situations that is true but under some circumstances that can be toxic in a way as well
      , because one can take something they envy about someone else and apply it forcefully upon themselves in hopes of achieving what the other person has but can be very toxic and just put people in a worse position than before but if, I don’t think u need me to explain this but it’s basically jealousy, envy and not staying true to yourself,
      and again I’m not saying that your wrong, but in life things aren’t that simple, there will always be multiple sides and interpretation I think we can all agree on that and I am simply sharing my alternative perspective on this that maybe trying to adopt the traits of someone else can be toxic
      , and yes I kinda understand this was a 5 minute video so like let’s cut u some slack but I feel like this is important enough to point out as i feel like it can cause a lot of harm and i can’t really blame u, your a human u make mistakes and u just didn’t know because I am sure that if u knew about this u woulded added a few lines or two regarding the dangers and side effects that this idea may hold because u are one hell of a great human being and I rest my case :)

    • Your friendly neighbourhood nobody
      Your friendly neighbourhood nobody 2 months ago

      No, actually it's not original at all, it's just common sense. Get over yourself

    • Catsu Surname u
      Catsu Surname u 5 months ago

      What if I don't want attention
      I don't want others say
      "oh that guy is so nice"

    • Zetraxes
      Zetraxes 6 months ago

      This video wasn't helpful at all how to you incoperate the traits that you like. Because if you think that you get them by reading biographys than you are definitely wrong. Reading about beeing truely kind or even how the person got to that point doesn't necessarily teachyou how to get there moestof the time you can read a sentence and not understand it pretty easily. So how about u give an actual detailed description how to love yourself properly and how to get the traits you desire from persons that you like

  • Péter Karvalics
    Péter Karvalics 17 hours ago

    I don't think comparing yourself to others will ever help you love yourself should never compare yourself to others. The key here is accepting the things which you can't change and working on those you CAN change. Try to replace your idol to a future version of yourself you want to become. For example, if you feel you are not confident enough, imagine YOURSELF beeing confident, and concentrate on that image. Make yourself the example!

  • lilbangtan
    lilbangtan 2 days ago

    thanks, this is the best advice I’ve ever heard! not confusing

  • jey monts
    jey monts 3 days ago

    Excellent video guys

  • LaDrago Damultus
    LaDrago Damultus 4 days ago

    You must be crushing on Reaves

  • JS Marco
    JS Marco 4 days ago

    That's smart~ big brain~~~~~~

  • Rodrigo Muñoz
    Rodrigo Muñoz 5 days ago

    But I don't like Keanu Reeves -_-

  • zalsalmi
    zalsalmi 5 days ago

    I disliked cause i just cant do it, maybe im just used to it

  • Ahmed Habbabeh
    Ahmed Habbabeh 5 days ago

    thank you so much broo

  • Laxmee
    Laxmee 5 days ago

    If you are poor non of the above things you will be able to do...😂😂
    Coz you are busy just trying to be alive.

  • Catie Brown
    Catie Brown 7 days ago

    Ah yes. Americas favorite vampire

  • Queen Quizia
    Queen Quizia 9 days ago

    Literally gasped *Keanu Reeves!* when I saw the silhouette 😂😂😂

  • Dheeraj Gupta
    Dheeraj Gupta 10 days ago

    I am 16.
    I was Very Sad Depressed a i feeled alone all The time. I thought no one liked me no one wanted to talk to me I was very sad. It was few months ago.
    Then i Started Meditating,Learned Self love. This was life changing experience for me. Suddenly i started feeling happy alone. Always think positive and people started noticing me. Talking to me. And loved to be with me.
    This was life changing for me. This changed me forever.😃😃

  • pineapple pizza
    pineapple pizza 10 days ago

    This was a nice video, but it didn't help.

  • Hambroger...
    Hambroger... 11 days ago

    I don’t know who Keanu is
    Is that bad bro?

  • Juraj Šimičević
    Juraj Šimičević 11 days ago

    3:31 joe MAMA

  • TheWoomy 27
    TheWoomy 27 11 days ago

    I don't and have almost never hated myself, so I don't really need to watch this, but someone recommended it to me soo..

    PRAMOD HALLUR 11 days ago +1

    I really like your story ,tell what happen next....

  • ajshim
    ajshim 11 days ago

    I would love myself more if I didn't age at all.

  • Flash Bang
    Flash Bang 11 days ago

    So if i look upto someone who has bad traits then sould i take those traits and put it in myself....that doesn't make sense...plz dont say the people we look up to...we may look up to bad people

  • Ali Gohar
    Ali Gohar 12 days ago

    Dude your content is awesome af!! There’s one thing I would like to ask that where do you get these animations?
    If they’re not “your creations” then I would like to see where they’re from. I just wanna sketch them. They’re cute❤️

  • 乂Trap乂
    乂Trap乂 13 days ago

    So if I like Niki Minaj then I gotta be a barbie to love myself?

  • Filthy McNasty
    Filthy McNasty 13 days ago

    1st off: Whoa. Question: Do you ever do nice things for someone, then end up feeling taken advantage of? How do you deal with that?!?!

    • Jon Snow
      Jon Snow 10 days ago

      Filthy McNasty Same situation mate. I help people a lot and I do it by going beyond my comfort zone. People literally use me and don't give a damn when their job is done.

  • Fabio Fioroto
    Fabio Fioroto 14 days ago

    I´m a nobody...but u touch my heart bro! rlly...u trigger me.

  • Miriam Aldana
    Miriam Aldana 14 days ago

    I'm by Bakersfield lol

  • Black White
    Black White 14 days ago

    I choose Venom as someone I like.

  • Black White
    Black White 14 days ago

    Who doesn't know Keano?

  • RexOf TheNorth
    RexOf TheNorth 15 days ago +1

    Me: **thinking about spongebob for my whole life, because I have an obsession with him**

  • Larissa Furuta
    Larissa Furuta 16 days ago

    I’m sorry but I really don’t agree with what you said in this video.
    I don’t want this to sound rude, I just want to express my honest opinion and show an other perspective.
    I’ve been through hard times where I had no self love and the fact that I used to look up to other people that had qualities that I didn’t have, only made me feel worst. I’ve tried to be more like them but I couldn’t make it and then I got even deeper in my depression.
    If you are trying to improve your self love, you should probably focus on yourself and start noticing what make you, yourself. Stuffs you like to do that most of people wouldn’t do, like hobbies or specifics activities. When you realize you are unique you will stop trying to be like everyone else and finally find true self love.
    That’s how I found my self love.
    Now I can accept who I am because now I know who I am.
    I hope this message can help someone.
    (and I hope someone to really read the whole message...)

  • shahad ra
    shahad ra 17 days ago


  • michal guliamov
    michal guliamov 17 days ago

    3:54 "ALL you have to do"

  • EastmanTvG
    EastmanTvG 18 days ago

    Check this out!

  • Navy Davey
    Navy Davey 18 days ago

    What if you cant think of someone you love

  • captainironman
    captainironman 20 days ago

    Yes, I want to be like that. I want.

  • captainironman
    captainironman 20 days ago

    I love this. Thank you so much.

  • thatt nerd
    thatt nerd 20 days ago

    My question is that do we have to talk to other people? I mean i can talk to people i know but with different people I can't cuz one I think they think of me as a weird nerd or something, two if I say something weird, make them think I'm weird or crazy and doesn't want to be around me bc of that I'm going to regret it later on, three i just stand there listening to my music awhile someone is talking..... I talk too much (O-O).

  • Nara Grace
    Nara Grace 20 days ago

    If I were to get rid of the traits I dislike about myself I would have to change my gender, race, and brain lol

  • Htet LynnHtun
    Htet LynnHtun 22 days ago

    Thank you so much. These tips help me a lot.

  • Gianna Beauty
    Gianna Beauty 23 days ago

    These are more surface level, at least it can be the beginning of liking/loving yourself.

  • Trymbak Mahant
    Trymbak Mahant 24 days ago

    Your video is awsome❤❤❤👍

  • Trymbak Mahant
    Trymbak Mahant 24 days ago

    Love you dude

  • Lindy Thomas
    Lindy Thomas 25 days ago

    Wow thanks for this. This is the most practical way I've ever heard, of how tho improve self love.

  • Sadio Wilder
    Sadio Wilder 27 days ago

    You can listen to audible while grocery shopping? That's mad multitasking skills.

  • Oscar Plant
    Oscar Plant 27 days ago

    Make sure you don’t get stuck in the only giving hole though, people will start to take advantage of your kindness, or you may find that unrequited deeds start to make you lonely/unappreciated.

  • Yoliswa Ngcobo
    Yoliswa Ngcobo 27 days ago

    Love the voice and 😁

  • Noobmaster 69
    Noobmaster 69 27 days ago

    But doesn't it contradicts the point of being original and not to copy others .
    I am so confused.

  • Rutendo Shava
    Rutendo Shava 28 days ago

    Never thought I about this. Interesting chat thank you.

  • DP-R.Est.89
    DP-R.Est.89 Month ago

    Great topic but could’ve been more effective without the Reeves example, and inserted more personal ways mentally to love and appreciate yourself more.

  • Flaming Tycoon
    Flaming Tycoon Month ago

    You know everone knew it was keanu reeves when he said "celebrity almost everone likes"

  • Sheyla Madina
    Sheyla Madina Month ago


  • A Gaming potato
    A Gaming potato Month ago

    What if I did the Keanu reeves thing already

  • Zoe Nelson
    Zoe Nelson Month ago

    I seriously don't want anything more for myself than to be as kind and humble as my boi Keanu.

  • Selim Firat
    Selim Firat Month ago

    If you look like the cartoon you draw its easy to love your body or yourself. If you look like a ugly blob ita hard to love yourself periodt.

  • Alyssa Rodriguez
    Alyssa Rodriguez Month ago

    I didnt know keanu reeves was in my hometown, bakersfield :((( I HAD A CHANCE TO MEET KEANU REEVES

  • aoba
    aoba Month ago

    I have no idea who Keanu Reeves is

  • prince m.
    prince m. Month ago

    For some reason I was hoping you’d choose J Cole as ur celeb.

  • Ellen Kim
    Ellen Kim Month ago

    therapy for loving urself: expensive

    bts: free 🥺🥰🥰🥰💌

  • Soseiki Haragatatsu

    Yeah I tried doing what my idol or favorite character, yeah didn't work out so well for me sad life.

  • Hudson Dantas
    Hudson Dantas Month ago

    Your cartoons are the best!

  • Vicious Zero
    Vicious Zero Month ago

    If I met Keanu, all I would do is give him a hug and walk away.