Coming Out

  • Published on Dec 8, 2014
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  • Leo Rodriguez
    Leo Rodriguez Day ago

    Who the hell is thumbs-downing this video?!?
    I remember how much it meant to me when I came out to see gay youtubers come out and talk about coming out.

  • Jeremiah Freeman

    Watching this 4 years later. I'm 18 graduated highschool and so happy I could experience that being completely me. After watching this video I realized the first person you should tell... Is yourself. Connor you inspired me to do what I thought would be impossible. In the 4 years of highschool I've experienced a lot more than what I have in the past before then. I am a stronger and wiser man because of it. Thank you Connor I wouldn't be where I am right now if it wasn't for you. Soon to be hairdresser and makeup artist- Jerry

  • Kim L.
    Kim L. Day ago

    I was almost crying when I was reading your book a few minutes ago, and I took my phone and search the video, and I so proud of you Connor, I love your videos and your person ♥️

  • danakia parker
    danakia parker Day ago

    we all love still

  • APostcardFromTokyo
    APostcardFromTokyo 2 days ago

    It's literally almost 2019 and I'm still watching this... ❤

  • gamer natan 01356
    gamer natan 01356 3 days ago

    yeees sister welcome the family

  • F V
    F V 3 days ago


  • Diego Costa
    Diego Costa 3 days ago

    I am here 4 years later

  • Phoebe
    Phoebe 3 days ago

    4 years ago connor put out a video that changed my life

    • Phoebe
      Phoebe 3 days ago

      the words we are all people we are all equal started m coming out process so thnaks connor

  • Rae Roxx
    Rae Roxx 3 days ago +1

    I don’t want to have to think in general

  • Lujain Kamas
    Lujain Kamas 4 days ago

    I’m watching this 4 years late, but it’s so worth it

  • Bran
    Bran 4 days ago +2

    4 years ago today!

  • Its Atq
    Its Atq 4 days ago +1

    'i just want to be normal'
    Gay is normal connor we love you

  • Eric Salinas
    Eric Salinas 6 days ago

    Everything you said I relate

  • Lonaj Gamer
    Lonaj Gamer 6 days ago

    He looks male version of Emma watson

  • Jannaat Jassim
    Jannaat Jassim 7 days ago +1

    It's 4-dec-2018 and I'm shook I didn't know he was gay TT i now know that I have no chance 💔

  • Adan Sanchez
    Adan Sanchez 8 days ago

    December 3rd, 2018 4:05pm💀

  • Shawn Mac
    Shawn Mac 8 days ago +1

    Wish my parents can understand me....Of Course living in Iran and be different from others and your not able to say anything is so hard 😢

  • Diego Sarmiento
    Diego Sarmiento 10 days ago +1

    Literally i think the same when i was 12

  • Xavier Peardon
    Xavier Peardon 14 days ago +1

    "We're all people. We're all equal"

  • YourWorstNigh
    YourWorstNigh 16 days ago

    come out culture is dumb hehe

  • layla shala
    layla shala 18 days ago

    You go lgbt for life 🏳️‍🌈

  • Aryan Maganally
    Aryan Maganally 18 days ago +1

    Thanks for those soothing words Connor. I love you

  • Choi Min Min
    Choi Min Min 19 days ago +1


  • Allistair M
    Allistair M 20 days ago +1


  • Kawaii Wolf
    Kawaii Wolf 21 day ago +1

    Oh my god your a hecking qUEEN

  • kaybelle 06
    kaybelle 06 21 day ago +2

    Did anyone else start feeling really bad for no reason when he started crying?

  • Aysha Cehajic
    Aysha Cehajic 22 days ago +2

    You know I don’t care if your gay or your a specific Race or whatever I just care if you are a good or bad person

  • IzzyBear
    IzzyBear 22 days ago

    It makes me sad to think that people feel like if they tell people who they really are they won’t be accepted. It’s a really sad truth and I wish everyone would just say “Ok” and continue on with their lives as if nothing has changed.

  • Corbin Dallas
    Corbin Dallas 22 days ago

    Wow.. He looks exactly like this guy who kept making sexual jokes and said he wanted to "seduce me" one time. I always wondered if he was gay...

  • Spilt Tea
    Spilt Tea 22 days ago

    Dang it, and you hot too❗️❗️ i support you tho❤️❤️

  • Jordan Colunga
    Jordan Colunga 22 days ago

    You’re not gay bruh you don’t sound gay

  • Raxo
    Raxo 22 days ago

    Connor likes dicks. And nobody cares. Cuz Connor is now even more cuter :3

  • Aya
    Aya 22 days ago +4

    has it seriously been 3 years..? I remember when this video first came out

  • nightwolf
    nightwolf 22 days ago +1

    Everyone still loves you

  • Isabella Demaree
    Isabella Demaree 22 days ago

    Ok I know this is a serious video and Connor I’m extremely proud of you for expressing myself but with me having A.D.D. I get distracted easily so I have to ask am I crazy or does anybody else see the little orb in the back of the video between 2:54 and 2:59

  • Braden Vlogs
    Braden Vlogs 23 days ago

    I’m the exact same thing right now. I’m twelve and going through the exact same stuff.

  • Michael
    Michael 24 days ago

    Hey Connor stay strong bro

  • Lucy Gacha-life
    Lucy Gacha-life 24 days ago


  • Charlotte Miller
    Charlotte Miller 24 days ago +1

    This is the bravest thing that anyone can do, you are so brave! Never stop being yourself!

  • Jordan De Haros
    Jordan De Haros 27 days ago

    I just saw you at we day

  • Heartland Equestrian
    Heartland Equestrian 27 days ago

    I don't cry when watching sad things I cried

  • Afna Mariyam
    Afna Mariyam 27 days ago +2

    He is looking like zac efron

  • Garrick Saro
    Garrick Saro 28 days ago

    Thank you for being so honest. Perhaps you may be the perfect person to speak about depression. I was born in 1954 and knew I was different by the age of six and buy the age of 12 I knew I was gay. Because I was born in a different era there was no one that was excepting. It wasn’t until I was 21 years old that my mother found out I was gay but, by that time the chemistry in my brain has changed and I am 64 now and I still suffer from severe depression. I attempted suicide seven times from the age of 10. No child or young man should have to go through that simply because of who they are. You Warmed my heart and I thank you for that.

  • Emily
    Emily 28 days ago +2

    What I want to know is, why do homosexual people have to be scared to come out and heterosexual people don’t even have to worry about it? Why should heterosexuality become the “default?” All people are equal and should be treated that way regardless of sexuality.

  • A day in the life of Heather and Becca

    I just came out to my mom two weeks ago, it was hard I love her but she has said some nasty stuff about being gay thanks for being a great role model, I really appreciate it.

  • Random Fandom Girl
    Random Fandom Girl Month ago

    I'm watching this in 2018 and honestly? It's really inspiring. I just moved to a new town, I'm bi and I've already came out to my family/freinds, that's irrelevant. But anyways, I just started highschool and I'm terrified of what I am. I dont know if people here accept people like me and I'm terrified of losing my one freind I made in the six months I was here. Apon watching this video I feel more confident in who I am. Am I going to come out to everyone I meet? No, probably not. But am I going to hide it if it does come up? No. I won't. Because I know I'm valid and I know that if someone has a problem great one more person to never talk to again.
    Sigh. That's enough of this rant and I'm sorry.

  • Kiky wang
    Kiky wang Month ago

    love u

  • barneyT qinglong
    barneyT qinglong Month ago +1

    2:53 white orb right side

  • Kermit dah Frog
    Kermit dah Frog Month ago +2

    I just wanna give you the biggest hug! 🤗 I’m so happy that you made this video!

  • GraphyteTV
    GraphyteTV Month ago +1

    Who else is watching this again 4 years later ?

  • Kuria Anitah
    Kuria Anitah Month ago

    It's still okay though

  • Kuria Anitah
    Kuria Anitah Month ago

    But you're so cute😭😭😭

  • Fei Han
    Fei Han Month ago

    Connor is cute, even now.

  • 陈晓东
    陈晓东 Month ago

    you are so brave

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    陈晓东 Month ago


  • Joseph Levy
    Joseph Levy Month ago +1

    I needed this a lot xxx I can legit relate to everything in this ❤️

  • The Reading Ravenclaw

    It’s 2018, I am watching this video, and I still want to hug you! 😘😘❤️❤️

    SOUTH FLORIDA Month ago +2

    "I'm not going to let my sexuality define or confine me. It's part of me, it's not all of me..." Best quote ever.

  • Neviah Stacy
    Neviah Stacy Month ago

    Yaas twenty first century yo this is lit LGBT community rocks😜

  • Darinha Reis94
    Darinha Reis94 Month ago

    Lindo depoimento 💜💜

  • Darinha Reis94
    Darinha Reis94 Month ago

    Lindo vídeo! Você é muito fofo! 💖💖BRAZIL👬❤❤💋💋💋

  • I’m a dude
    I’m a dude Month ago

    Love Connor. One of my og’s

  • nuclearpower20
    nuclearpower20 Month ago

    I just wanted to come back to this and say that this video gave me the courage to accept that I was bisexual, I was trying my very hardest to deny it, doing anything to tell myself I was straight, thank you so much, this video is the main reason I had the courage to come out to my friends and it all worked out now, I can't even begin to describe how much you did for me with this video

  • robert cain
    robert cain Month ago +3

    Honestly I love him he’s so real and creative and he’s just u know, great o believe that no matter what race religion sexuality etc. u deserve to be treated like a human being because in the end we all are human and bleed red and theirs no reason u should be treated otherwise

  • Stefania Rahn
    Stefania Rahn Month ago

    so proud of you for coming out

  • giannax *
    giannax * Month ago +1

    “this may come as a shock to a lot of you” BAHAHAHAHA

  • Microsoftgamer Lifestyle

    in my school homophipics weren't allowed because you'll get bullied. I'm gay and im 16. I've been gay for a long time and i keep living everyday alone and afraid to Come Out Of The Closet because you don't know what they could say or do. I'm scared

  • Red Velvet Tears
    Red Velvet Tears Month ago

    Awww connor

  • Rena Whitlock
    Rena Whitlock Month ago +1

    Why are all the hot guys gay?!😭😭😭

  • QuickQuinn
    QuickQuinn Month ago

    I’m bisexual and don’t know how to tell my parents and friends

  • Megan P
    Megan P Month ago +1

    Three years ago, I clicked on this video, not knowing what the term “coming out” meant, not knowing how much this video would come to mean to me. The second you told that story about you looking in the mirror and trying to say those words, I knew I was bi. I knew I was bi because it was a thought I’d suppressed for so long. This video has helped me jump through so many hoops. I’ve come back to it time and time again because it sends such an encouraging and positive message. Thank you for continuing to be a positive influence and making this world a better place, Connor.

  • antrax production
    antrax production Month ago

    What about if they don't agree you

  • Radha Osan
    Radha Osan Month ago

    13k homophobes disliked this

  • Night Memes
    Night Memes Month ago


  • bubbly tae
    bubbly tae 2 months ago

    I read A work in progress which is your memoir.
    I absolutely fell in love with your writing style and wondered if you are actually like that! And Honestly I am really proud of you!! Your book inspired me and made me realize who I really am and I started letting out my creative side ignoring what other people thought about me. Thank you so much Connor! You are strong and an awesome human being!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • Michelle Gaming
    Michelle Gaming 2 months ago

    When this was posted, my friend told me you came out. I immediately went to watch the video and man it gave me emotions. I never wanted to accept I wasn’t straight because I was always trying to fit in with normal.
    I’m glad I was able to change from when this was posted. I have discovered myself as bisexual leaning gay, which I still don’t know if I am bi or gay but I know I am not straight. Thank you for this video. It has inspired me to just be myself. Happy national coming out day

  • Jason Davis
    Jason Davis 2 months ago

    You go boyyyyyyy
    Wooooooow woooh

  • Emily Chang
    Emily Chang 2 months ago

    2018 I finally accepted and came out to multiple friends (including the one I was crushing on loL that went interestingly long story short she's straight but was considerate and kind and oooomph I need to get over her) as bi!! yet to tell my family, but so far i love 20gayteen

  • DemonThunder Wolf
    DemonThunder Wolf 2 months ago +1

    Connor you amazing and your you at the end of the dayy. Don't let lifes difficulties stop you. ❤️💞❤️

  • YouDucka Sucka
    YouDucka Sucka 2 months ago +1

    I hate you!!!
    You know we love you know matter what!
    Don't think of those stuff!

  • Music is my Life
    Music is my Life 2 months ago +1

    The isolation is the worst part.

  • British Boy
    British Boy 2 months ago +2

    This brought tears to my eyes 😩

  • bexnmoo
    bexnmoo 2 months ago +1

    Why don't people come out as straight?
    It's hard enough as a bisexual ftm 13 year old, why can't everyone do it,and then it wouldn't be such a big deal when someone said anything other that I'm staight or I'm cis!

  • Bailey Barrett
    Bailey Barrett 2 months ago

    I used to watch you all the time and now I’m watching this video again 3 years later after coming out to my dad. Thank you so much for you’re help ❤️

    • ello mello yello
      ello mello yello 2 months ago

      Im a little late but i hope it goes (or went) well :)

  • Jalyn Allen
    Jalyn Allen 2 months ago +1

    I hate how these youtubers and civilians think that being different is bad.Connor you are AMAZING,AWESOME,TALENTED,INTELLIGENT and more. You are you! I love you and please dont ever change. Love you, Be you.

  • Oliver Downunder
    Oliver Downunder 2 months ago

    I’m proud of you too!

  • What’s My Name?
    What’s My Name? 2 months ago +1

    i’M NoT gAY!!111!!!

  • TheWhiteWolf
    TheWhiteWolf 2 months ago

    im so proud of u my precious baby

  • Собочка
    Собочка 2 months ago +1

    Тебе повизло что ты не из россии иначи бы тебя просто побили бы какиенибуть гопники.
    Ты очень милый😘

  • trrripe Macon
    trrripe Macon 2 months ago

    This is so similar to my story is very chilling...

  • Princess _Oceane
    Princess _Oceane 2 months ago

    Who else thinks 2018 was a fast year? Not asking for likes

  • sunny 100
    sunny 100 2 months ago

    🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈lgbtq slayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

  • xbrxken souls
    xbrxken souls 2 months ago +1

    I know im late but I just wanna say we will always love you❤

  • Grethan_Dolanz
    Grethan_Dolanz 2 months ago +1

    This is literally the cutest thing ever, Congrats Conner!

    ACHIA 2 months ago +1

    Can't bear looking at him crying...I just can't

  • Bri-Anna G
    Bri-Anna G 2 months ago

    Omg I’m 12 and I might be gay but I don’t realy know

  • Bri-Anna G
    Bri-Anna G 2 months ago

    I’m bi sexual

  • ava.v ;
    ava.v ; 2 months ago

    Gay literally means happy. 😇

  • Lara Dunphy
    Lara Dunphy 2 months ago

    to this day, i watch this to remind myself that it's okay to be myself. thank you connor. you really have had such a huge impact on my life.