Coming Out

  • Published on Dec 8, 2014
  • your support means the absolute world to me & i hope this doesn't change a thing. i love you guys & can't thank you enough for everything xx
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  • Red Velvet Tears
    Red Velvet Tears 23 hours ago

    Awww connor

  • Rena Whitlock
    Rena Whitlock Day ago +1

    Why are all the hot guys gay?!😭😭😭

  • QuickQuinn
    QuickQuinn 2 days ago

    I’m bisexual and don’t know how to tell my parents and friends

  • Megan P
    Megan P 2 days ago

    Three years ago, I clicked on this video, not knowing what the term “coming out” meant, not knowing how much this video would come to mean to me. The second you told that story about you looking in the mirror and trying to say those words, I knew I was bi. I knew I was bi because it was a thought I’d suppressed for so long. This video has helped me jump through so many hoops. I’ve come back to it time and time again because it sends such an encouraging and positive message. Thank you for continuing to be a positive influence and making this world a better place, Connor.

  • antrax production
    antrax production 3 days ago

    What about if they don't agree you

  • Radha Osan
    Radha Osan 4 days ago

    13k homophobes disliked this

  • Night Memes
    Night Memes 4 days ago


  • bubbly tae
    bubbly tae 6 days ago

    I read A work in progress which is your memoir.
    I absolutely fell in love with your writing style and wondered if you are actually like that! And Honestly I am really proud of you!! Your book inspired me and made me realize who I really am and I started letting out my creative side ignoring what other people thought about me. Thank you so much Connor! You are strong and an awesome human being!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • Michelle Gaming
    Michelle Gaming 6 days ago

    When this was posted, my friend told me you came out. I immediately went to watch the video and man it gave me emotions. I never wanted to accept I wasn’t straight because I was always trying to fit in with normal.
    I’m glad I was able to change from when this was posted. I have discovered myself as bisexual leaning gay, which I still don’t know if I am bi or gay but I know I am not straight. Thank you for this video. It has inspired me to just be myself. Happy national coming out day

  • Jason Davis
    Jason Davis 7 days ago

    You go boyyyyyyy
    Wooooooow woooh

  • Emily Chang
    Emily Chang 9 days ago

    2018 I finally accepted and came out to multiple friends (including the one I was crushing on loL that went interestingly long story short she's straight but was considerate and kind and oooomph I need to get over her) as bi!! yet to tell my family, but so far i love 20gayteen

  • DemonThunder Wolf
    DemonThunder Wolf 9 days ago +1

    Connor you amazing and your you at the end of the dayy. Don't let lifes difficulties stop you. ❤️💞❤️

  • YouDucka Sucka
    YouDucka Sucka 9 days ago +1

    I hate you!!!
    You know we love you know matter what!
    Don't think of those stuff!

  • Music is my Life
    Music is my Life 10 days ago +1

    The isolation is the worst part.

  • British Boy
    British Boy 10 days ago +2

    This brought tears to my eyes 😩

  • bexnmoo
    bexnmoo 10 days ago +1

    Why don't people come out as straight?
    It's hard enough as a bisexual ftm 13 year old, why can't everyone do it,and then it wouldn't be such a big deal when someone said anything other that I'm staight or I'm cis!

  • Bailey Barrett
    Bailey Barrett 12 days ago

    I used to watch you all the time and now I’m watching this video again 3 years later after coming out to my dad. Thank you so much for you’re help ❤️

    • Elle Mella
      Elle Mella 8 days ago

      Im a little late but i hope it goes (or went) well :)

  • Jalyn Allen
    Jalyn Allen 12 days ago +1

    I hate how these youtubers and civilians think that being different is bad.Connor you are AMAZING,AWESOME,TALENTED,INTELLIGENT and more. You are you! I love you and please dont ever change. Love you, Be you.

  • Oliver Downunder
    Oliver Downunder 15 days ago

    I’m proud of you too!

  • What’s My Name?
    What’s My Name? 16 days ago +1

    i’M NoT gAY!!111!!!

  • TheWhiteWolf
    TheWhiteWolf 16 days ago

    im so proud of u my precious baby

  • Собочка
    Собочка 17 days ago +1

    Тебе повизло что ты не из россии иначи бы тебя просто побили бы какиенибуть гопники.
    Ты очень милый😘

  • trrripe Macon
    trrripe Macon 17 days ago

    This is so similar to my story is very chilling...

  • Princess _Oceane
    Princess _Oceane 17 days ago

    Who else thinks 2018 was a fast year? Not asking for likes

  • sunny 100
    sunny 100 20 days ago

    🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈lgbtq slayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

  • xbrxken souls
    xbrxken souls 20 days ago +1

    I know im late but I just wanna say we will always love you❤

    #MENDES ARMY 20 days ago +1

    This is literally the cutest thing ever, Congrats Conner!

    ACHIA 21 day ago +1

    Can't bear looking at him crying...I just can't

  • Bri-Anna Govan
    Bri-Anna Govan 21 day ago

    Omg I’m 12 and I might be gay but I don’t realy know

  • Bri-Anna Govan
    Bri-Anna Govan 21 day ago

    I’m bi sexual

  • ava.v ;
    ava.v ; 22 days ago

    Gay literally means happy. 😇

  • Lara Dunphy
    Lara Dunphy 22 days ago

    to this day, i watch this to remind myself that it's okay to be myself. thank you connor. you really have had such a huge impact on my life.

  • Andrew Herbert
    Andrew Herbert 23 days ago +1

    I love how authentic and raw this video is. When I saw you have a mini panic attack I felt both bad for you and relieved at the same time that if someone as happy go lucky as you can freak out over coming out then it's ok for me to as well. Thanks Connor ❤

  • Ariel Ledezma
    Ariel Ledezma 27 days ago

    Yes!?!?!? I knew you were Gay!!?! I am Proud!?!?!? LOVE YOU!?!?! (even tho you don't know who I am...) XD

  • Piper 2016
    Piper 2016 28 days ago

    thank you Connor for encouraging me to coming out

  • Unicorn potato
    Unicorn potato Month ago +2

    This is a really old video but oh well...
    And to Connor I want to say that you are awesome and there is always people who love you whatever you decide to do or be. Being yourself is important. Never forget that whoever you are and whatever you do... You are not alone. There is always someone who is fighting for you and everyone who might be going through something like you. And this is to all the other people too. Be yourself. Don't be scared to discover yourself and what you want to be in life. You matter. You will be accepted. Be who you are.
    Thank you for reading.

  • Emily Edwards
    Emily Edwards Month ago

  • Donna Cherry`
    Donna Cherry` Month ago

    This is the first video that I’ve seen of yours!, I am very proud of you. Live your best life Connor. You be you, all lives matter.

  • Paige B
    Paige B Month ago

    This video has so many likes

  • I’m your hope, I’m j-hope

    When I was in middle school (I’m a girl) I always found myself looking at this girl, I didn’t know why when I kept bumping into her in the hallways my heart will always start racing and I would get sweaty she was the first girl I was attracted too and I went to the internet and searched what was happening that day I learned that I was bisexual, when I told my mom she just laughed

  • Marcy Gleek
    Marcy Gleek Month ago

    2018. i am still so proud of you. screw the 13,000 who disliked this

  • Felicity Pleiman
    Felicity Pleiman Month ago

    I'm bisexual

  • Mariah Hernandez
    Mariah Hernandez Month ago

    Happy Birthday!🌟♥️

  • Winnie Cotti
    Winnie Cotti Month ago

    proud of you conner

  • samson stebbins
    samson stebbins Month ago +2

    Love your videos Conor, your one of the most important people who inspired me to discover more about myself! I'm 13 and I'm gay. About a year ago I found out I was gay. When I found out, I quickly pushed away, like a dirty sock in a baseball field. As for everyone, when you hide something for so long it begins to take over your mind... Then very quickly, your soul. I spent countless hours just thinking about it, and, quite frankly, soon developed anxiety issues from keeping it all locked up inside me for so long. Eventually I just caved in. I couldn't take it anymore. So later that night I decided to tell one of my closest friends, who also turned out to be LGBTQ as well! And from that point on I began to tell; first my sister, next my parents, then finally a few more of my friends. A lesson to all you who are afraid of coming out: Nothing really matters. Now, that might seem kind of weird. But, in reality nobody really cares about your sexuality, it's you who matters the most! #doWhatYouCan't
    Cheers- Samson S.

  • Tyshon Lawrence
    Tyshon Lawrence Month ago

    Thank you so much for this video cause I really needed it. I know this video is old but I recently just came out and this story helped

  • Ryan Mendoza
    Ryan Mendoza Month ago +2

    I’m 8th grade and I feel the same way, your so relatable ❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • Jenna Czech
    Jenna Czech Month ago

    I just realized this was posted on my 11th birthday way back when...

  • PoProstuPrzemek
    PoProstuPrzemek Month ago +2

    I’m gay too

  • Avani Agrawal
    Avani Agrawal Month ago

    We love you for who you are no matter what!!!!!

  • [Shalom Felix]
    [Shalom Felix] Month ago

    We're all so proud of you, Connor! Stay you, and stay true. (Btw, I think those dislikes are from those girls you kissed. Haha)

  • Lynsey Adeline
    Lynsey Adeline Month ago

    Rewatching this almost 4 years later and I still cry every damn time ❤️ I love this so much.

  • EvaKumar
    EvaKumar Month ago +1

    Omg... I'm feel like a lesbian....... well done Connor

  • Kath
    Kath Month ago

    I'm just... I'm so proud. Thank you for making this video, it really inspired me to come out too. ♥

  • x3Chucky
    x3Chucky Month ago

    so this is where that meme came from

  • Kaylie Boucher
    Kaylie Boucher Month ago

    I'm so proud of you and I'll always support you matter what also i love you

  • Kristy de Kruif
    Kristy de Kruif Month ago

    I feel this on such a deep fucking level I wanna cry yay just ajsjdkkdjdkzkdl it's beautiful. First time I watched this vid was when I still thought I was straight you have changed a lot for me thank you so much💛💛💛

  • Moos Mensch
    Moos Mensch Month ago

    That went out quite emotional. ❤

  • Shivangi Banerjee
    Shivangi Banerjee Month ago

    Love you Connor

  • William Doubleu
    William Doubleu Month ago

    So wonderfully honest X

  • Moon light
    Moon light Month ago

    Proud Bisexual

  • Monkeyman
    Monkeyman Month ago

    I can relate to this so much

  • Paige Weiss
    Paige Weiss Month ago

    just watched his not gay video

  • Actual Internet trash

    I’m watching this in twenty gayteen

  • payy y
    payy y Month ago +1

    i remember the exact day this vid came out and now it’s 2018. damn.

  • V Cantu
    V Cantu Month ago

    Awwww (2018 anyone) we all love and support you ❤️

  • Anna Brown
    Anna Brown Month ago

    i found out my sexuality two years ago but i'm still not out to so many people in my life so i can't help crying watching this video

  • Chrome
    Chrome Month ago

    Can relate

  • noraslife
    noraslife Month ago

    Iv been struggling with the same thing and this really helps. Thanks you

  • Travis Nelson
    Travis Nelson Month ago

    I know this is 4 years old, but this inspired me so much to do my own video. People like you that make their story public are what encourage people like me to tell our own story. Thank you!

  • XXITZ KronicXX
    XXITZ KronicXX Month ago +1

    Your adorable and it was hard for me as well

  • Deniz k
    Deniz k Month ago

    Finaly we love yaa ❤

  • Logan Rodriguez
    Logan Rodriguez Month ago +2

    2020 anyone?

  • Cristella Meli Attard

    You look a lot like Collins key

  • Marcus Chow
    Marcus Chow Month ago +5

    I am gay but I have a gf

    • Marcus Chow
      Marcus Chow 7 days ago

      +thebranmanNo I like guys

    • thebranman
      thebranman 13 days ago

      Marcus Chow so then ur not gay but your boyfriend is ?

  • Chanceral
    Chanceral Month ago

    My story is the same as connors but I haven’t come out I don’t know how to do it

  • Kara Elias
    Kara Elias 2 months ago

    Wow, You doing this Im so happy, I couldnt even tell my family this, to me being a girl feels wrong, all of it! and for a kid to say that wow, the worst part , I can't thing about going transgender because when I tried telling me family, the look I got, it hurts so bad, I know this isn't who I truly am, If only I were brave like You Conner!

  • God.
    God. 2 months ago +1

    -i want to commit suicide why didn’t i ask this guy on a date a long time ago🏳️‍🌈😍-

  • Derpy Dinosaur
    Derpy Dinosaur 2 months ago

    💙 We always gonna be with you 💙

  • TheeDankTank 1
    TheeDankTank 1 2 months ago +1

    I know what you fell like

  • Incognito _0-0
    Incognito _0-0 2 months ago +3

    Watching this is 2018.
    I found out I was bisexual this year. I wouldn’t want to say it to myself, I just wanted to be normal. I go to a catholic school and I’m the only person in the school who is actually in the lgbtq community. I’ve seen so many people take the step to admitting it to themselves, so I tried. It took not too long, which was even surprising to me. I’ve came out to 3 people, 2 of them I told at a sleepover when I decided to wait till 4 in the morning (I’m only 11...) and then had panic attacks trying to even say it. It felt easier saying it to myself, but it took me actually 5 minutes to spit it out. They were super supportive, and eventually I told my actual best friend. I don’t know why I didn’t tell her first, but I got the best reaction from my best friend. She just said “okay.” Doesnt look at me differently, just accepted it.
    Wow. If you actually read all that... I’m impressed. But, that’s my story. I still need tips for telling my parents, but I’m afraid they’ll tell me I’m too young. I’m in grade 6, and I knew I was different since as long as I can remember, but I came to the facts in grade 4, and actually found out that I wasn’t alone and there was a whole community of people known as the “b” in Lgbtq.
    *and I still don’t know why I decided to write all that. But I’m late, hi*

  • Wicked 15
    Wicked 15 2 months ago

    I’m gay and I’m only almost 13 and I’m accepting of myself but yeah it’s hard I’ve told my dad and all my friends but I can’t tell my mom and I don’t know why and what’s stopping me

  • iambidextrious
    iambidextrious 2 months ago

    Whenever i tried i was like " i am gonna tell you something about me. I am ...".

  • Jordan Avery
    Jordan Avery 2 months ago

    I am twelve and feel the same he did then. What if I am? I’m just not sure anymore but I know that if I am different it will be hard but I know that some people will be accepting and some will not and I would be okay with that

  • julian cabello
    julian cabello 2 months ago +1

    I’m speechless - you are grand 🙏🏻

  • KittyCorn Queen
    KittyCorn Queen 2 months ago +1

    Is this reaction time

  • Chelsea W
    Chelsea W 2 months ago +2

    Commenting in 2018 seems a little late but Love you Connor and support you 💙

  • Dat GURL ._. Dat BOI
    Dat GURL ._. Dat BOI 2 months ago +1

    2018 right now

  • Abigail Le Grove
    Abigail Le Grove 2 months ago

    Omg this made me happy cry. To hear that you finally accepted yourself and are happy about it and to have been surrounding with love and support make me so happy

  • Kevin May
    Kevin May 2 months ago +1

    I remember watching this as a 7th grader who knew who he was bisexual and it was terrifying to watch it. Now I'm going into high school junior who is an out and proud student. To those who are still in the closet, I promise you it will get better. ❤️🏳️‍🌈

    AKIDEV AMRAHS 2 months ago

    our stories are like the same I always knew I was different and now im 12 yrs old in 7th grade and I've finally accepted who I am
    Thanks Connor this really helped me and now I now im not alone

  • LeafPandaxx
    LeafPandaxx 2 months ago

    I dunno I think I’m bi, just so u know, I’m a girl.. I’m not sure though

  • Evelyn Pan
    Evelyn Pan 2 months ago

    ayy good job

  • Riverdale Fan
    Riverdale Fan 2 months ago

    Omfg don't cry!!!! We all love you no matter what! Your true fans are here for you❤

  • bossgaming l
    bossgaming l 2 months ago

    I knew it!!!

  • Ceo Oreo
    Ceo Oreo 2 months ago

    I love you so much and if anyone hates I will kick them

  • The Internet
    The Internet 2 months ago +1

    Welp...that changes my whole view of you. Sorry, bye!

  • Rose Chitana
    Rose Chitana 2 months ago

    it doesnt change anything