JoJo and Jordan’s Relationship Ups and Downs | Engaged


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  • Engaged with JoJo & Jordan
    Engaged with JoJo & Jordan  14 days ago +128

    What are some of your tips for maintaining a happy and healthy relationship?

    • Courtney Richwine
      Courtney Richwine 4 days ago

      Nozie MM I am so glad to hear that!! It took me a few years honestly. I would want to run away or hop in a car because I felt I would burst if I stayed, which he didn’t like either. So I told him if you want me to be calm in the disagreement give me some space to get there...that seemed to help, and he’s much better about giving it to me. Just remember if he does, it’s because you asked lol. We all develop habits in relationships...mine was run and he chase, but can’t ask him not to chase and then expect him to 😂. So it was a transition that eventually became a new/healthier habit!

    • Nozie MM
      Nozie MM 4 days ago

      +Courtney Richwine thank u for sharing Ur advice, I tend to walk away too because I'm an emotional person and I know my hubby hates it and actually just reading ur comment has helped me to think how I could improve myself thank u so much xx

    • Nozie MM
      Nozie MM 4 days ago

      +Christie Lynn thank u so much for your comment, I am married for almost 3years now..and I'm learning to acknowledge all that u have said in your women want to be listened to, we want to feel loved and appreciated and we fight over that, whereas for my husband, what's important to him is respect and acknowledgement as a man and then sometimes it's like we reach a dead end because u both want different things and cannot manage to meet each other's needs.

    • manee vang
      manee vang 6 days ago

      Engaged with JoJo & Jordan thanks for sharing you guys! I’ve been with my S/O for 8 years and we definitely went through what you guys went through. We would always have arguments one after another and it was just not good. Trust played a big role in our relationship. We definitely did have that talk, b/c we’ve came to that point where we are getting older and wiser and should know what we want in life. Little advices to those who are still young: Know what’s important and what’s not. Don’t let the unimportant things be the cause of arguments. And always, always talk it out after an argument, even if it’s just over something really stupid. You can’t stay mad forever over something so small. && remember why you’re together in the first place. Put aside your pride and ego. And like they say, you have to love yourself first before you love someone.

    • tegan jones
      tegan jones 6 days ago

      Trust. Honesty. Communication. Friendship. Most importantly love & respect ❤

  • Kyla N Stoops
    Kyla N Stoops 20 hours ago

    Jordan is such a better guy than I thought like wow I have horrible judgment apparently. I’m so happy you guys are together. Jojo was the best bachelorette as far as her heart and personality and beauty. I’m so happy for you guys.

  • Madeline Ferrufino

    I love this series so much!

  • Loma Luv
    Loma Luv 2 days ago

    I love you two together. You guys are my favorite couple of all the Bachelor / Bachelorette seasons and I've watched from the beginning. I follow you guys on IG. Thank you guys for being vulnerable and discussing TRUE LIFE relationship issues that will go on even when you are married. I loved the part where Jordan talks about going to see a therapist. There's such a stigma to seeing a therapist especially for men, but a 3rd non-biased party can do a world of good. It's important to find self reflection and work towards interpersonal struggles. Good job to both of you for not letting the media, reality TV, society dictate who you guys need to be to each other. Marriage is not something to step into lightly. I have faith in you guys will be able to make your relationship work for the long haul.

  • Racine Jackson
    Racine Jackson 2 days ago

    Thanks guys! This show is really helping me understand my relationship with my fiance.. we been thru so much and being together for 10 years.. lately we just been disagreeing and arguing lately...

  • Audrey Boissonneault

    wow, I like how candid you guys are. Thank you for sharing these moments with the world!

  • Karaujo2012
    Karaujo2012 2 days ago

    Thank y’all for this. WOW, it beyond hits home and is very helpful.

  • Amanda Bendersky
    Amanda Bendersky 4 days ago

    What about when your trying to push your other half to be better and they take that as you think they aren’t trying their best?

  • Nozie MM
    Nozie MM 4 days ago

    JoJo & Jordan u guys are an amazing couple! And I can see you two lasting a lifetime because u guys are genuine! I wish u two the very best, keep striving for the best in your relationship and thank u so much for sharing your love story with us. Xxx

  • Erica Munoz
    Erica Munoz 5 days ago

    I love this! I love you guys! This was a really good episode! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • Katelyn Allen
    Katelyn Allen 5 days ago

    What are some good communication tips or habits you two have? Or any books or podcasts you listen to? My husband and I are the worst at communicating. I feel like we want to hear ourselves instead of hearing the other person and getting defensive in those hard conversations.

    PAVIN RITAH 6 days ago

    Jojo and Jordan, my two favourite people, thanks for this show, its really so amazing, real, fun, educating and has maturity! Love you two everyday

  • tegan jones
    tegan jones 6 days ago

    So lovely to hear you guys talk about that time...which I know is so hard. Especially when I know how that feels! And its nice to see not only your own relationship goes through this. Im glad mine recovered. And yours too!
    Glad you guys are happy. 😍

  • R&R
    R&R 6 days ago

    Verbally or emotionally *

  • Jenna Young
    Jenna Young 6 days ago

    I’m so glad you did this video and being so honest and raw about your relationship. You are helping so many people! Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️

  • rach
    rach 7 days ago

    thank you so much for being so real and honest

  • aly00
    aly00 7 days ago

    I really appreciate you guys for creating this show and being vulnerable with us. Its nice to know that every relationship has its kinks in them; especially a couple who has been on TV. My boyfriend and I have gone through the ups and downs like you guys have at the beginning of our relationship and we strive to work together to keep building upon our relationship till this day. Best 6 years of our life! Wouldn’t want to change anything that got us to where we are now in life together.

  • Madison Fuller
    Madison Fuller 7 days ago +1

    I love this series! It’s amazing to see how you really are and how your life really is! I’m so glad both of you found true love and persevered through the hard times ❤️

  • Carmen Penzera
    Carmen Penzera 7 days ago

    Please start vlogging! 💗

  • Christie Duffer
    Christie Duffer 7 days ago

    I love this honesty so much.

  • Sheri Loyd
    Sheri Loyd 7 days ago

    Absolutely LOVE your honesty and transparency. I do have a question/need advice on something that maybe you guys have faced in your relationship. My fiance' and I are engaged and have been for just over a year now. We met on the infamous... dun dun dun... TINDER! lol. A bit of our background: He was a commercial diver for the first few years of the relationship so we spent a great deal of time apart (he would travel on the road for a month at a time). Long distance was rough & definitely had its own challenges, but luckily we now live in southern California together and both work at a local hospital.
    One of our consistent "problems" is that we do not have the same love languages. I am a words of affirmation and touch person... while my partner is acts of service and quality time. I love the mushy cards and even the simple things like holding hands and he is not a "words" type of guy. While this may not sound like a huge "problem", it has been for us. I often feel like our love is fading or that my "love bucket" is not filled. When I express this to him... he says things like, but Babe... I cleaned your car today, brought you lunch... etc. While these things are incredibly sweet and thoughtful, I still would prefer a love note or a kiss. I don't want to sound like the needy one here... lol but I'm wondering if there is a way to improve this? How do we adjust to each others love languages/needs? Do you and Jordan have the same love languages? and if not, how do you adjust?
    Thanks for your time!!!
    -Sheri Loyd

  • Moonie Shin
    Moonie Shin 7 days ago

    Can we get a house tour please?

  • sayitoutloud watson
    sayitoutloud watson 8 days ago

    When do these episodes air?? like weekly??

  • Breanna Northrup
    Breanna Northrup 8 days ago

    the fact that they were able to stick together through so much and he was able to work through his pride and she was able to open herself to being hurt really says so much about their love and who they are individually.

  • Victoria Henderson
    Victoria Henderson 9 days ago

    What is your advice for working out a long distance relationship?

  • Ashley Martorella
    Ashley Martorella 9 days ago

    Are you guys similar in the hobbies you like to do & events you like to attend, etc? How do you guys decide what new things you should take on together and find things you both like?
    Also love watching this show!! 😍

  • LuAnn Englehart
    LuAnn Englehart 9 days ago

    I have been married for 24 years, but I still can relate to this. I think you are going to help so many couples. Good for you. Just do not be one of those couples who gives up. Relationships are not perfect; they are messy! Keep up the talking and never give up.

  • Amanda Guevara
    Amanda Guevara 9 days ago

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and we are deeply into each other. But the one thing that bothers him is texting my guy friend that I have been friends with for 2 years. He’s the only friend I tell everything about but my bf thinks it’s gonna be the other way around. My friend has a girlfriend and there’s 0% chance we’ll hook up anytime soon. We have fought so many times about it and I’m over it. I’m just wanting your advice if my boyfriend trusts me enough?
    Also he has this girl friend that he’s been friends with since high school.. (he’s 24 now) and what makes me kinda not feel right is they usually hang out just them two. He tells me they’re not gonna get together at all because she’s not his type. But what bothers me the most is they both share their locations with one another. I’m really having a hard time coping with that and I just don’t know what to tell him 😪

  • Olivia Porte
    Olivia Porte 9 days ago +1

    My question for you two is how do you manage your schedules when Jordan is working on the weekends? Do you feel like he misses out on a lot of things? Or do y’all just plan dates and “together time” during the week?

  • Joey McDonough
    Joey McDonough 9 days ago

    What are some tips on becoming more open with new people? When you feel you are very guarded and have trouble letting people in? Thoughts? Also thank you so much for doing these videos. I'm a huge fan and so happy for you two. All the best :)

  • Queen Namaste
    Queen Namaste 9 days ago +1

    loved the authenticity! thank you so much for sharing your story! more couples should follow
    suit! If it is rainbows and butterflies all the time... something is wrong :P

  • MrxRiderX
    MrxRiderX 9 days ago

    my thing is when a argument occurs, use a pencil. give the pencil to the person who is talking so that they have time to get out their feelings and not be interuppeted. Then pass the pencil and give the other person a chance to talk about their feelings. No-one can speak unless they have the pencil. This gives a chance to get everything off of your chest, be understood and work it out.

    CHARLOTTE URBAN 9 days ago

    For someone who just broke up with someone she really loved. How do you move on knowing that there is someone better out there for you? And how do you go about getting out there to meet people after being in a relationship for a long time?

  • Diane C
    Diane C 10 days ago

    My husband and I broke up twice (for very short time) before we married. Here we are 43 yrs later. We didn't live together, but after marriage, the first year was the toughest. Then it just gets better and better, because it is hard and takes time, but worth it.

  • jenny osorio
    jenny osorio 10 days ago

    I love u guys. Beautiful couple.❤️

  • Front Kick
    Front Kick 10 days ago

    Marriage is death by a thousand cuts! She will become a narcissistic nightmare!

  • xrcrx ftfghjg
    xrcrx ftfghjg 10 days ago

    her voice😫

  • Randy
    Randy 10 days ago

    Who cares?

  • Trisha Anderson
    Trisha Anderson 10 days ago +1

    I love this series! You two are the best! So on the first episode of the bachelorette when I seen Jordan I thought he was perfect for you! I love how open you two are being with your relationship:) it’s nice to know that it’s possible to get through the struggles of a new relationship without giving up! You guys are the best ❤️

  • Rick Sanchez Jr.
    Rick Sanchez Jr. 10 days ago

    Do you guys think he ever came in her mouth before?

  • Darth Kahless
    Darth Kahless 10 days ago

    Extremely lovely lesbian couple! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 #NewFan

  • Jillian Dilbeck
    Jillian Dilbeck 10 days ago +1

    Way to show the real side of relationships! Thank you

  • jbond5150
    jbond5150 10 days ago

    She should do porn.

  • Admiral Autism
    Admiral Autism 11 days ago


  • Marilyn Loy
    Marilyn Loy 11 days ago +1

    I owe the fans of JoJo and Jordan an apology. I love hearing their honesty but when they talked about a reality show I was worried it wasn’t real but staged but I now know their sharing is real and they are doing a great job of helping others. I love their honesty!❤️

  • Rupert Murdoch
    Rupert Murdoch 11 days ago

    I bet she does A+ throat work

  • Super Viral Sick Vids
    Super Viral Sick Vids 11 days ago +1

    They’re still together? Uhhh someone needs to tell them it was a reality show.

  • Nem Khan
    Nem Khan 11 days ago

    why is he watching like that? just watching or scanning 😍

  • sabaya Shylla
    sabaya Shylla 11 days ago +2

    He way he look at her😍 they re just perfect for each other❤️

  • Lexy s
    Lexy s 11 days ago +1

    Love this so much !

  • Rachael Diffrient
    Rachael Diffrient 11 days ago +1

    love you guys

  • beans
    beans 11 days ago

    What’s your stand JoJo?

  • Alyse Rothenberg
    Alyse Rothenberg 11 days ago +1

    I'd like to know Jojo if you have dealt with feeling Jordan was ever emotionally not supportive and what you did? like how you talked about it?

  • Impressions of Japan
    Impressions of Japan 11 days ago +1

    "I hate seeing you cry."

  • Taco Irvin
    Taco Irvin 11 days ago

    Jeez the sure did a good one of part 5

  • xsweetl0ux
    xsweetl0ux 11 days ago +1

    I loved this so much. I think it shows how you went through struggles and came out stronger as a couple and as individuals. Loved how honest and raw you guys we’re ! Wish you guys the best xx

  • T Florpin
    T Florpin 11 days ago +1

    Witch joestar is this

  • Sean Zilligen
    Sean Zilligen 11 days ago

    Who are these people and why should I care about their relationship? One thing’s for sure, if they’re both attention-craving, conceited assholes like these videos imply, then I’m sure they’ll make it.

  • Devon H
    Devon H 11 days ago

    Who f-ing are these whiney ass millennials. This guy has to be in the closet. Lol

  • Skrillex
    Skrillex 11 days ago

    Copycat the lizy and dalas

  • Emily
    Emily 11 days ago

    What in the heck is Kin?

    EW NIKO 11 days ago +1

    That guy is straight?

  • Patrick
    Patrick 11 days ago +1

    If you see this, I love you and I want to be us again.
    Please like this so my wife will see this message higher up in the comments.

  • Marc3lina 1969
    Marc3lina 1969 11 days ago

    I liked it when Kristen Wiig impersonated you 😭

  • Tressa Renee
    Tressa Renee 11 days ago +1

    thanks for sharing guys. I watched clips from your season many times as I love the energy between you two. it was really amazing and I hope to have a relationship like that someday. And thanks for saying don't fight for an abusive relationship. I did that for many years with a narcissist and I finally learned that narcissist cannot return love or give love and so I ended the relationship but I wasted a lot of years. However I always believe that it's never too late

  • Christine Ripley
    Christine Ripley 11 days ago +1

    Wow I love this!!

  • Danni Dichito
    Danni Dichito 11 days ago

    I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years with my high school sweet heart (not married yet), and we can definitely relate to feeling pressure from others to do what they want us to do. Thank you for sharing your story!! It’s refreshing to hear we all go through the same things.💜 Best of luck- always rooting for you guys!

  • Shelley Turner
    Shelley Turner 11 days ago +1

    Was Jordon ever jealous or upset the way you were with the other guys in the season ?

  • ethan bradberry
    ethan bradberry 11 days ago

    The second someone over comments on a word they said well uh that’s gonna be quick dislike for me bucko, chuckling ehehehhehe.

  • Justin Vader
    Justin Vader 11 days ago

    They still together! Yaaa

  • Candice Capps
    Candice Capps 11 days ago +1

    I love y’all so much for being so REAL!! Yes the show was glamorous and all, but y’all are showing us that you’re real and in a serious relationship. It’s so wonderful what your doing in making these videos. I am married and the thing we struggle with the most is communicating with each other in the moment. We seem to communicate, but it’s usually after the fact. We have two young boys, and we both work full time. So life is busy, and sometimes the communication falls off the tracks. Also, I like to talk about everything, so if it’s bothering me, or I think something is bothering my husband, I wanna talk about it. He is the opposite. He is really easy going, and always seems unphased. So, I am looking forward to these videos!! Love y’all 💕💕

  • Heather Burke
    Heather Burke 11 days ago +1

    Love how y’all match in your videos!

  • God Himself
    God Himself 11 days ago

    smh i thought this was part 5

  • lisa Thompson
    lisa Thompson 11 days ago +1

    I watched your season and have to say I was skeptical about Jordan but I am happy to see that I was totally wrong. You guys are beautiful together. Relationship are hard work (28 years in even), but communication is always key! Keep up the good work!

  • Olivia Nasha
    Olivia Nasha 11 days ago


  • SupaFlarez
    SupaFlarez 11 days ago

    Is your name a J O J O R E F E R E N C E?

  • Grace M
    Grace M 11 days ago

    this is the whitest, straightest shit

  • Elizabeth Stember
    Elizabeth Stember 12 days ago +6

    This is great advice from a very young couple in a very young relationship. You said something that I just said about my husband of 36 years. He just passed away and I am heartbroken. However, I wrote something about him for the service titled "Thoughts on my Beloved." In it I shared just what you said JoJo, "this was not a fairy tale relationship". We had some very difficult challenges to get through but the reason we succeeded is that we always respected each other, never hit below the belt, and we constantly worked on improving our communication with each other. We were in it together and that is the key. You can't just have one person working on it. It has to be both of you who choose to move forward together. We got clean and sober together, we went through the loss of a child together, we have raised our grandchild together and more. We were opposites, he was morning, I was night, he was an introvert, I am an extrovert but we learned to love each other even with these differences and we were still falling more in love up to the end of his life. Marriage is hard work but it is so worth it so be willing to work and you will have a beautiful life together.

    • MsMj4ever
      MsMj4ever Day ago

      I hope you find peace Elizabeth and continued Joy in life. Thankyou for sharing your story, it's beautiful.

  • sharla stock
    sharla stock 12 days ago +1

    ugh the way he looks at her

  • Sherri Small
    Sherri Small 12 days ago +1

    I'm so glad to hear Jordan say he talked to someone and telling guys it's OK. Been with my husband 20 yrs we have def had our ups and downs. We def need to communicate better. Love y'all

  • Bint Sabina
    Bint Sabina 12 days ago

    Am going through a long distance relationship with my husband, its been a year now and it sucks

  • Asian Twinz
    Asian Twinz 12 days ago +1

    I stopped watching after your guys season was over 😭😭Anywaysss I wish you guys a pursuit of happiness!!!! Thank you for being vulnerable and open to us we love you guys!!!!

  • Sevn Liht
    Sevn Liht 12 days ago

    I like the walmart jojo better

  • Tiffany Dupree
    Tiffany Dupree 12 days ago +1

    I am so hooked your show! Y'all are my favorite couple from the Bachelor/Bachelorette! L O V E this!!

  • Joelle M
    Joelle M 12 days ago +2

    This video is trending!!! Congratulations!!!!!

  • Kronos92
    Kronos92 12 days ago

    This dude is gay 😂 No real man would do some shit like this.

  • lunardestruction
    lunardestruction 12 days ago

    O shit white ppl, when's the vacation to southeast Asia?

  • brokenredflag
    brokenredflag 12 days ago +1

    Wow!! You guys rock. I think many famous cuples i youtube are afraid of letting their flus in their relation ship be seen. Probably cuse they think wel think their gona brake up. And we dont think that at all. We know is normal. Your the first one i see takling this ishu. Thank you. Hope youtubers understand now.

  • Christine W
    Christine W 12 days ago +1

    You have definitely beat the odds by working on your relationship and realizing that The Bachelor dream dates and beautiful environments are not real life. It does take work & MANY kudos to Jordan for going to therapy. Any man I've been with has felt like they'd have to admit that something was wrong that they couldn't fix or handle by themselves if they went to a therapist. Definitely keep doing the work, especially before having kids, so you have the strongest foundation possible to start a family. Looking forward to more!

  • Teri Havlik
    Teri Havlik 12 days ago +1

    So good to watch you guys being real! And talking & explaining your relationship, Thankyou 👍❤️

  • Kimberly McLeod
    Kimberly McLeod 12 days ago +1

    I have been LOVING this new series for a few reasons: 1. you are my fave couple from the Bachelor because from the beginning I could see you were both real people that have jobs and are just so grounded. In watching this latest episode, i'm really impressed to hear that Jordan has been to therapy. I don't know if it's too personal, but i'd be interested to hear more details about that. I think you're helping normalize the idea of therapy, rather than having it be a vague weird thing for people with crazy trauma they have to work through. I think more people could benefit from it than we all want to admit.

  • MrRideutah
    MrRideutah 12 days ago

    You can tell the chick cheats

  • Claire
    Claire 12 days ago +1

    I love you guys so much! By far my favorite couple from the bachelor/bachelorette shows! Any advice on how to know if a guy actually likes me? Guys keep ghosting me after a few days...

  • joeylondonxo
    joeylondonxo 12 days ago

    Uhh this isn’t Jojo the singer tf

    DEBBIE KELLER 12 days ago +1

    It’s great to see you guys are still making it work!

  • Lihua Shen
    Lihua Shen 12 days ago +1

    Having the courage to reveal the insecurities and struggles you have gone through as a couple and as an individual is a sign of strength and it is empowering to those who face similar challenges. Thank you so much for sharing! I saw something special between you from the moment you two met and followed your journey since. Hands down my favorite couple and will support you no matter what:)

  • The White RickJames
    The White RickJames 12 days ago

    Communication & sacrifice... the unfortunate news is that the odds are heavily against successful relationships. So good luck, you'll need it

  • Keagan Burdorf
    Keagan Burdorf 12 days ago

    Fuck you and your channel

  • mont0127
    mont0127 12 days ago +1

    I loved you guys on the show! So happy to see you are still going strong! I do want to add that I am in love with your throw pillows! Where did you get them? hehe :)

  • Pollyanna Principle
    Pollyanna Principle 12 days ago

    I'm surprised to see this video. I thought these two were faking it after the show. If they were in love, wouldn't they be married by now like all the rest of the bachelor people that fell in love? They are a cute couple. I hope it works out.