We're So Down For Their Candid Talk About Asexuality | Tell My Story, Blind Date

  • Published on Nov 15, 2019
  • It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
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Comments • 733

  • Abbey Peach
    Abbey Peach Hour ago

    Blondie look like Amy Ordman

  • Katrina T
    Katrina T 2 hours ago

    heather is gorgeous

  • saver menu cheeseburger at McDonalds

    Even if they didn't go out I think they'd be really good friends

  • Elizabeth Giles
    Elizabeth Giles Day ago

    of course God loves gay people

  • moon raccoon
    moon raccoon Day ago

    ƃuᴉʇʇǝu ɐssǝʇ ǝʞᴉl ʇᴉq ɐ sʞool ʎuɐɥʇǝq ʞuᴉɥʇ ᴉ

  • kitty
    kitty Day ago

    heather choosing the name lavender for bethany’s so cute:(((

  • No Expects
    No Expects 2 days ago

    I wanna be on here

  • PurpleMask131
    PurpleMask131 2 days ago

    Okay but no one is mentioning her wanting to cosplay Raven from Teen Titans.

  • Paula Kibagendi
    Paula Kibagendi 2 days ago

    Waittt I really want to understand asexuality because I thought it was people that didn't have sexual feelings

  • Sofía Lettier
    Sofía Lettier 2 days ago +3

    Is there anything more asexual than a high five after 'I would date you'?

  • Mary Amarger
    Mary Amarger 2 days ago +2

    As an European, Bethany seems to be the perfect American girl cliché to me.

  • zoé qi
    zoé qi 2 days ago

    can heather b my girlfriend pls omfgggg

  • Shrek_is_real 05
    Shrek_is_real 05 2 days ago +2

    Nonbinary woman?? That defeats the point of being nonbinary...

  • BooneCat 468
    BooneCat 468 3 days ago

    Yassss the nerds!!!!!!

  • Caley Blythe
    Caley Blythe 3 days ago

    This was too cringe I had to stop watching. They are adorable just so socially awkward I cant.

  • Storybellz Variety
    Storybellz Variety 3 days ago

    The blonde is such a sweetheart! This was very cute- almost like a dating game show. Loved it!!

  • Sav Bon
    Sav Bon 3 days ago +1

    Their chemistry together is extremely refreshing

  • Sav Bon
    Sav Bon 3 days ago +35

    When she said “picky as in terrified” ... I felt that

  • Krista Star
    Krista Star 3 days ago


  • Krista Star
    Krista Star 3 days ago

    When she said avatar the last air bender I think I might have fallen in love, lol

  • Krista Star
    Krista Star 3 days ago

    0:55 why is this me though

  • Willow Quattrone
    Willow Quattrone 4 days ago +2

    why did the girl in pink always say ayyyy awkwardly right after heather

  • Rebekah L
    Rebekah L 4 days ago

    how can you be a non binary woman...🤔

    • The Viewer
      The Viewer 3 days ago

      Not female, but closer to that than male.

  • Ivy B.
    Ivy B. 4 days ago

    I love them.

  • ♪ Ebony Rose ♪
    ♪ Ebony Rose ♪ 4 days ago +1

    They both remind me so much of myself omg I feel so comforted watching this :')

  • fLOP
    fLOP 4 days ago

    theyre so adorable 🥺🥺

  • WhyDino
    WhyDino 4 days ago +1

    They are the most relatable people ever

  • Amets BB
    Amets BB 4 days ago +3

    I was like "oh, asexual representation, cool, let's watch". Then "aaaa nonbinary ❤️" and then "aaaaaa grey-ace ❤️❤️❤️".
    And then even more, they have such a nice conversation and watching them connect and share their experiencies was so cool.

  • Imi D
    Imi D 4 days ago

    OBSESSED with Bethany’s lipstick

  • Minsky
    Minsky 5 days ago +6

    I seriously blushed watching this
    omg they're so cute

  • Rumi Curry
    Rumi Curry 5 days ago +3

    I think lavander is the absolutely perfect name for that chick.

  • pink oni
    pink oni 5 days ago

    a luv them they’re so cute man

  • nani lotti
    nani lotti 6 days ago +2

    I dunno... but bethany comes off really weird to me...

  • DrummerGabs
    DrummerGabs 6 days ago +1

    I was shipping them from the start. Hahaha

  • chimmy
    chimmy 7 days ago

    Is she on something? Her pupils are HUUUUGE

  • Chantal Dianne
    Chantal Dianne 7 days ago +4

    When they're saying "Aye" and "Cool" i cringed But i think they will be cute couple.

  • Clovis
    Clovis 7 days ago

    I watch eps of ATLA literally every week...for years....

  • SashaxBelle
    SashaxBelle 7 days ago

    theyre so cute please date and update

  • nallelyrivaz
    nallelyrivaz 7 days ago

    they were so nervousss

  • lavinder11
    lavinder11 8 days ago

    There's an old TV show from the 90s called Ghostwriter about kids solving neighborhood crime with a ghost shaped like an orb of light (lol).

  • Sophia
    Sophia 8 days ago +18

    When you’re from Wisconsin and you actually pronounce asexual like “ayyyyesexual”, then becoming confused over the comments.

  • Artistically Arden Doll Stuff

    Dang they are tall !!!!

  • Shoggy 17
    Shoggy 17 8 days ago +4

    You can’t be a non binary woman...... non binary is no gender.... I -

    • The Viewer
      The Viewer 3 days ago +1

      Non binary is any gender that isn't strictly male or female. That can include combos, fluidity or none.

    • Sharon Trusty
      Sharon Trusty 5 days ago

      Shoggy 17 these days you can pretty much be whatever you want...

  • charlyn D.W.
    charlyn D.W. 8 days ago

    adorable girls

  • Cielo Planes
    Cielo Planes 8 days ago

    The blond girl reminds me of Queenie from FB. She's like so sweet and lovely

  • Karinap stfu
    Karinap stfu 8 days ago

    Wow asexual presentation.. was not expecting that

  • Stan D-CRUNCH
    Stan D-CRUNCH 8 days ago

    They both seem so kind and fun to talk with

  • Peyton Brzezinski
    Peyton Brzezinski 8 days ago +2

    Bro I don’t know why but I want to punch the blonde girl

  • Marie Scamander
    Marie Scamander 9 days ago

    I hope they’re dating now

  • Fisher
    Fisher 9 days ago +3

    I love these but I couldn’t help but to cringe the whole time. That was so uncomfortable.

  • Jasmine Atobajeun
    Jasmine Atobajeun 9 days ago

    Did anyone else notice how they walked away from the chairs in sync? I feel like that sealed the deal

  • Uranus
    Uranus 9 days ago +1

    Why am I the only Male Asexual?

  • taliah jayne
    taliah jayne 9 days ago +1

    I'm not trying to be rude, but how can you be a Non-Binary Woman? I understand being Feminine or masculine... but if you don't identify as any gender, how can you be a woman too? Again, I'm genuinely just curios and am not meaning to offend anyone.

    • The Viewer
      The Viewer 3 days ago

      If you think of gender as something like the colour spectrum, with orange being female and blue being male then you can still get a orange-ish yellow, close to orange but not quite orange. That'd be non binary women.

  • via no existe
    via no existe 9 days ago

    I feel so awkard and Idk why

  • Rye_Bread T
    Rye_Bread T 9 days ago +3

    Ayy count:14
    Cool count:50
    Noice: 9

  • Revile Paragon 2
    Revile Paragon 2 9 days ago +1

    I love seeing people vibing

  • Stephanie Holtan
    Stephanie Holtan 9 days ago +5

    I can't believe I watched that whole thing. Neither has any idea what they're true opinions are, but "oh, I definitely want an open relationship". Great way to start...

  • Min Alex
    Min Alex 10 days ago +1

    Finally some asexual representation 🖤

  • TSM
    TSM 10 days ago +11

    The ace representation is off the charts
    -high faves
    -awkward as hell but trying to have a good time


  • Gracie
    Gracie 10 days ago +3

    This is cute, i always get anxious when i watch these though because im kinda socially awkward and i get worried that they will be awkward too. It is a little awkward cause its a unique situation but they handled it really well